HI Beth :) i'm Tornado, the one who other people were mentioning. I guess you already have found out that i'm not keen on the idea of people posting looking for romance, well to be honest i'm not. You seem to be somebody who kind of proves my point.
However after reading your posts after your original one i can see that you have considered a lot about approaching people in your local area. It's a shame that you cannot apporach people publicly or in a more 'life like' environment than this one. I'm sure your a great person and you need to let other people see that rather than leaving a few words on a forum.
The only way you will learn how to approach people is by trying and yes probably making a few mistakes and getting rejected a few times, whats the worst that can happen, nothing.
I'm guessing you don't approach people either because of past experiences or just lacvk of self confidence, eitehr way you have to allow yourself to meet others in a natural environment and there is not time to start like the present.
Everybody else is going to be stunned due to the fact i'm not baraiting you for posting on here looking for a partner, the fact of the matter is, you have come out and said 'i have a problem meeting people here' which to me is good old fashioned honesty which deserves both respect and a well constructed answer or reply.
All the best in your future man hunting :) I have to go now as i'm at my friends and i really shouldn't be on PF when i'm out, lol, i guess i just love you guys.
Hi to all the other regualer rabble, hope your having a good night and speak to you all soon i'm sure :)
thnx
T
P.S. Go get um Beth :) Show them who you are