Lesser, I will try to answer you by quoting from other posters in this topic (there is no need to be original here)
SeanBM:
The EU are never going to be one big happy family...but I do think we can get along co-operate and achieve positive results for all member states.
Seanus:
Ideologically sound but, like almost any system, it has its flaws.
osiol:
The EU is far from perfect, but it's far better for Europe that it exists and that countries co-operate with each other.
clunkshift:
The EU is the best means so far of papering over the cracks and maintaining a thin veneer of friendly dialogue throughout Europe; without the EU as a sounding board and nominal equaliser, we would all be backing up our prejudices with force of arms again.
Where else would a Slav, a Hungarian, a German, a Frenchman, an Irishman and a Britsh man ever meet face to face and discuss matters of importance?
Kilkline:
For me personally I dont see why I should agree to live by the laws and regulations created and agreed by the British population but say that those created by the EU are not relevant or legitimate to me. I think the various countries of the EU have the right idea on a number of issues and can teach us in the UK alot. Equally I think that many EU nations can learn much from the UK.
And yes even a quote from the Kraut (sometimes capable of some sense, isn't he?)
Bratwurst Boy:
In the beginning the rich countries pay the bill to bring the poorer, under developed newbies up to western standards. But the moment they can walk alone and start to pull their weight they become a benefit for the whole EU.
To conclude, there are only two main problems that the EU must overcome to make it well-rounded as it should be:
-To make sure it will not be an oligarchy of big countries.
-To make a balance between all-affecting decisions from the top and the initiatives from individual regions (that's where you should jump in and make your voice count).
lesser:
Tran Anh, why should not European politician co-decide about Vietnam and Vietnamese about European affairs? This is simply insane.
You know, i fully expect that pleasant scenario to happen in the next century. At this moment, however, we just try to make sure that in the next 15 years, well-informed Bangkokians or Manilans will really care and help solve some serious issues in Hanoi and vice versa. The establishment of a decently working ASEAN, especially in this critical moment, is probably just as urgent to us as the correct formation of a beneficial-for-all EU to the rest of Europe.