My Ex boyfriend has got married...

Here I am again looking for sympathy... just found out my ex boyfriend from last year, who I thought I would marry, who I loved to bits, but with whom it all went horribly wrong.. has got married... and I'm feeling like cack... it just feels like a big slap in my face, I know it probably only feels worse because things also went horribly wrong with Polish man a couple of months back... but boo hoo someone pass the Kleenex. I'm having a hard time taking it on board :0(((

Just think yourself lucky that it went horribly wrong without you getting married. That would have been far worse.
It's something many of us can relate to. A girl I was in love with from the age of 18 to about 21 got married a few months ago. It took a long time to get over the rather strange relationship we had. Luckily for me, she moved away and I'll never see her again.

So true, thank you, I know.. just seem to be so up and down lately and I've allowed this news to put me on a downswing... just need to get up again... Thanks for the supportive words

I know how you feel... its crap!

My ex just left in the middle of the night, without saying a word to me and then just a month or so ago I found out that he left me for someone else, not the big string of excuses he gave me!

We were together 12 years and it was our kids that were the ones that told me he had left me for another woman.

He always was a rotten old scoundrel though and it wasn't working.

On the positive side... things do get better. this yucky horrible feeling will ease slightly with each day and next thing you know you will be all tied up in knots over some new guy you've met! :-)

That's so sad. Sorry to hear it.

chapter done.. turn the next page. :)

Sunflower. They say, don't marry someone whom you can live with; marry someone whom you can't live without.

Here's sincerely hoping you'll find such a person soon, and that he will find you even sooner :)

Nice one ;)

For you..


For us..

Well Sunflower he could not have been right for you. It is okay to reflect a little. That is natural but don't let it get you down. I am sure there are lots of nice guys who want to date you. Have fun.

Good one, thanks for the words of wisdom there :0)

thank you, feeling much better now :0)

Thanks Jambo.. you're right, it's just reflecting on the good times.. as human beings we do that, we favour the good things that we remember and blot out the bad bits.. a selective filter as my brother calls it. I will get there.. even one year down the line from leaving him I do know I made the right decision. He was an extremely angry and possessive individual and I would have been in the midst of living hell now had I stayed with him. It does help as well that he lives at the other end of the country!

Every time you look back and reflect..
Keep that memory foremost in your thoughts.

We tend to forget the the bad parts.
Because we want to believe that the love we give.. Unconditionally.
Will outweigh any negative feelings we may have.
Some people think of it as a test of character.. (Love versus the Pain.)
But it's not meant to be that way.

Remember the good times.
Because thats what feeds your heart and Keeps your dreams alive.
And long as you have dreams...
There is ALLWAYS hope.... And with it.. The capacity to love.

Learning to love is like learning to walk.
We get a few bumps and scrapes along the way.
It's a learning process. And helps to give us strength we will need to face the trials ahead.
While we search for the ONE we were meant to be with..

He is out there..
Never give up hope.

:))))))))))))

4U, Sunflower:

Can I post another Sunflower picture?

sunflower for sunflower

aw so sweeeeeet!! thank you so much, I feel so loved now :0D. Hey Osiol, is that sunflower in your garden? Tis magnificent!!