Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her

Yes, I agree a bit of knowledge of Poland can be a good conversation starter. But don't dwell on it for too long as you might spoil the effect...

Did she ever notice you before? The nervousness wouldn't come along until after she has met you and has decided she likes you. Sometimes that doesn't happen right away. As you said, women find it easier to talk to men they don't have feelings for but that changes when they do develop feelings.

It depends.if she comes from province Poland,like a small town she may like you know about Poland.If she comes from a big town she may find it a bit weird.Generally they like you know their country because other people do not take Poland seriously as a country.
I agree western men are suckers and have spoiled western women into feminism.To discover feminity sb has to travel to eastern Europe.
How does your girlfriend look?Typical polish,blond,175 cm or taller with gorgeous breast?
They are so many like this in Poland,I think many people are angry they were born in another country.

Ken, juat for my understanding of this. On a conventional good looks scale of 1 to 10 what number would you say she is?

I think they want to see a picture of her. :)

No, just a number...

By US,UK or polish standards?Because a 9 in UK is a 7 in Poland.

It is true that if a woman was born in a place where she looks ordinary she might not be that spoilt in spite of her good looks. However, since she got to Northern Ireland, you have to assume she has been out on the Saturday night and by now whe know precisely how the locals rate her... Women are extremely good at this. And she has either started playing with some of the locals or will soon start. This is the assumption you have to make. Nothing wrong here mate, just the game of life.

Ummm, its a tricky one, probably about a six or seven, I mean, nobody else in work has commented on her so I guess she isn't stunning in a conventional way. She has dark/reddish hair which I prefer and has a very slim, toned body. She carries herself with such elegance.

If she is in her twenties and you rate her a 9, she will have company... a lot of company!

Ah, 6 or 7. There is still salvation for you. Make your move quick and you have a chance!

He says about 6-7.I think there are good chances.Maybe she does not even have a boyfriend.I never saw in Poland an average or below average looking girl have a polish boyfriend.

I understand, as you said earlier she will probably be snapped up by a more experienced fella. It's good to prepare for the worst, while still hoping for the best.

I wouldn't rely on my rating too much, I'm not good at making those sort of judgments, obviously to me she is 10. I'm sort of guessing others views. I do know that a blonde would get more attention so you never know.

Yes, make your move. Just imagine her as an ugly co-worker and talk to her in an enthusiastic way. Invite her out. Use the aforementioned Trident technique as a start.
Then move on and be persistent, would that meet your approval female lobo?

Sorry SheWolf

Ken Noddy you value yourself very low.Men who get the women are not the best looking ones but the ones with confidence.You should think yourself of superior to her as to every woman.

I'll give it a go. Thanks for boosting my confidence. I've got to sign off for now, will let you know how things go over the weekend.
Talk to you then.

Good luck

It is no surprise the jerks get all the hot women.(polish are not an exception).

Getting the girl, is of course only the first step... the real problem is maintaining the relationship, specially if she is also an alpha female. Then it is all very umpredictable as love is a very misterious thing tha can never arrive even when spend a long time having an intimate relationship together... bether not tell this to Ken yet...

After all, recently, a lot of girls like to sleep with their men friends... and that can break a novice's heart in half quicker than anything I know...

Maintaining the relationship needs skills beyond average.Most positive elements are lost as the time goes by and the magic of the first moments fades away.

Chicks are totally unreliable.We need multi translators and iron nerves.

They become more reliable as they get older into their late thirties... for logical game theory reasons...

Yes but then they become very emotional,they cry and blame all men.

Then it is a judgement that you make. Keep or go back to the deck...

In any case it is unwise to only play with one deck...

I found women in their thirties more reliable,better related to men(more educated to men presence) but a little less funny,very serious and more bitter.

Yes, I could not agree more. You are always playing the freshness of the younger women with their spontaneity versus the more knowledge and higher emotional stability of the older woman. There is no right or wrong answer to this question. My particular answer is to try to sample what you can and see if you can find a great girl that you can live with and have a nice life with… but it is not difficult. The arrival of a lot of countries to the EU like Poland, Latvia, etc with a lot of internal immigration to the UK, etc, just made things much more interesting but also more difficult as new standards were somehow created and eyes were opened. It is quite difficult now to close them.
I had a conversation with an old friend of mine in Germany a few months ago and she complained bitterly that all German man want to go out with Russian, Polish, etc women, and German women are not happy. Hey, it is not their fault if these new entrants are tall, elegant, dress to kill, and incredible polite and nice and (let’s face it) are not difficult to bed…