please translate for me-Jesli jestes na silach i masz...

Lucy2011

Dec 12, 11, 00:05 #1

My boyfriend came back late.drunk and we had a row, he accused me of not trusting him. then made me read this text but I can't read or speak Polish. The text is from a girl who is always ringing him but he rarely answers her, he doesn't hide his phone and is quite open about this girl ringing him. I don't like her much she's always drunk.
'Jesli jestes na silach i masz ochote na smutki daj znac' Please would some one translate this for me. Don't worry if it's bad I'd rather know the truth and why he made me read it, Thank you.

andersmThreads: 1 Posts: 57 Joined: Nov 24, 11 ♀	Dec 12, 11, 00:31 #2
I don't speak Polish either but perhaps you might at least get a rough idea by going to translate.google.com You should still have someone with more finesse in the language translate as there are likely slang words or expressions that don't come across correctly in a straightforward translation.

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Edited by: Wulkan Dec 12, 11, 00:43 #3

andersm:

perhaps you might at least get a rough idea by going to translate.google.com

bad idea

Lucy2011:

'Jesli jestes na silach i masz ochote na smutki daj znac'

If you are not that tired and you fancy smutki - 'witch means me complaining about how hard my life is' let me know

all that means he is for her like a gay friend who seems to understand her feminine problems better then the guys normaly do, probably about her husband/boyfriend

Lucy2011	Dec 12, 11, 01:01 #4
I have a gay friend but I don't ring him 20 times in a night reeling drunk and I always ask his boyfriend to come too! I feel this girl is taking the P---!

Lucy2011

Dec 12, 11, 21:19 #5

Merged: Polish men faithful or unfaithful?

Are Polish men generally faithful or unfaithful? Do they actually realise if some one is after them? Really fed up with Polish woman continually texting and ringing my bloke,
he says she a dumb alcoholic but unfortunately her step dad is one of his best mates. He also works with and travels to work with her mum. His conversations with her are usually 'ne chech' doesn't hide these texts or calls. infact he showed me one last night.
Any views?

RichfilthThreads: 8 Posts: 327 Joined: Mar 8, 09 ♂	Dec 12, 11, 22:09 #6
What's the point in asking if Polish men are generally unfaithful, if you only care about this particular one? Wild generalisations never helped anyone. If you want a practical solution, get your man to inform the girl's parents that her attentions are unwanted. Either that or propose to him. Take the situation in hand and do something about it, or stop whinging.

Lucy2011	Dec 12, 11, 22:15 #7
probably too general a question, doubt the parents would do much, marriage proposal? don't know if want to!!! Didn't mean to whinge but p----- off with this.

simon2012	Dec 12, 11, 22:24 #8
start seeing another man and gauge your man's reaction to this. if he's not bothered, then your first question will be mute, if he is then he was probably faithful doubt polish man are faithfull anyway, they mostly treat their women like crap, and their women are too hot to stay monogamous

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Edited by: Sidliste_Chodov Dec 12, 11, 22:26 #9

Lucy2011:

Any views?

You didn't need to post this on a Polish forum - any "relationship advice" forum would have been enough (minus the word "Polish").

The word "Polish" is pointless in this sense. The Polish men who cheat, do. The ones that don't cheat, don't.

Polish men or women aren't "generally faithful or unfaithful", it's something which anyone (male or female) can do. Some do, some don't.

simon2012:

doubt polish man are faithfull anyway, they mostly treat their women like crap, and their women are too hot to stay monogamous

And just as you thought the generalisations on this forum couldn't get any dumber...

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