Spełnienia marzeń, sczescia ile tylko zapragniesz...

mit99Threads: 1 Posts: 1 Joined: Feb 2, 11 ♂	Edited by: Administrator Feb 2, 11, 08:01 #1
Hi guys, hope you can help me out with this one. I've tried it on google translate but don't quite get the meaning of it.. Spełnienia marzeń, sczescia ile tylko zapragniesz, zdrowka i dobrej passy przez cale życie. With love xxx Is this like a "good bye & good luck" message or is it trying to say that "I still have hope that we can get back together" ? Thanks for the help Mit

peter_olsztynThreads: 8 Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 18, 07 ♂	Edited by: peter_olsztyn Feb 2, 11, 08:16 #2
mit99: Is this like a "good bye & good luck" message it looks like I'm afraid Spełnienia marzeń Let your dreams come true szczescia ile tylko zapragniesz so much happiness how much you wish for zdrowka i dobrej passy przez cale życie. wishes of good health and good luck for all your life

mafketisThreads: 17 Posts: 1,880 Joined: Mar 31, 08 ♂	Feb 2, 11, 09:30 #3
In other words, have a good life ...... without me ..... in Dumpsville.

englishwarsawThreads: - Posts: 8 Joined: Jan 24, 11 ♂	Feb 2, 11, 14:19 #4
You may be reading too much into the "good luck for all you life". The whole message, or variations like it, are routinely said to friends, family and loved ones eg on birthdays, at New Year, etc. I'd take it at least to mean 'we are (still) friends'.

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Feb 2, 11, 15:01 #5

Well that depends on the context which the original poster very carefully decided to not provide.

My guess is that they broke up and he later received a card (for the holidays or birthday or something like that) and is confused about her intentions. In that case, AFAICT it's just nice wishes and no indication that she's thinking about getting back together. It's just a 'have a nice life without me'.

If she's thinking about getting together again there would be references to a) previous good times or b) how lonely she is now. There might even be a rhetorical question about 'how did it all go wrong?' There's none of that here.

If I'm wrong, there is one nice thing about Polish women (in general) - if they're interested and the man doesn't show initiative in time then they will, just to see where they stand if nothing else.

My advice - treat this as nice wishes and nothing more.

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Feb 2, 11, 23:18 #6

mafketis:

My guess is that they broke up and he later received a card (for the holidays or birthday or something like that) and is confused about her intentions. In that case, AFAICT it's just nice wishes and no indication that she's thinking about getting back together. It's just a 'have a nice life without me'.

If that wasn't said soon after the break up, but after a long time of silence, I'd take it as a good sign. For example you fight, she gets mad, you break up. After a long time that would be a sign of forgetting that bad past and missing you again.

(speaking of personal experience with girls... from other countries though).

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Feb 3, 11, 09:42 #7

Well thanks for the input people.

That was a message she sent to her ex recently, 9 months after they broke up. 2 months prior to that she sent him a mesg saying she misses him SOOO much.

She's with me now & I'm not sure if she's over that dude yet. I think she's missing home, family and the comforts of the old relationship (wealthy momma's boy). Its hard for her here - new life, new language, no friends, no family... but I've looked after her well & she says noone's loved her as much as I have (blush)

We've been together 6 months now - the first 4 were amazing. The last 2 - she's been very distant & aloof... recently told me that she no longer feels the same way she did as a few months ago (excitement and butterflies) but knows that I'd be a great guy for the long-run...

Now I'm trying to decide now whether to end it and move on with my life (high pressure job as a doctor) or stick it out, fight for her despite the lack of respect and affection over the last 2 months.

So there you go...

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Edited by: skysoulmate Feb 3, 11, 11:22 #8

mit99:

That was a message she sent to her ex recently

My question is how happy are you? Why do you read her correspondence to begin with? It tells me that you don't trust her and if there's no trust eventually you'll grow apart. I think that mutual respect and honesty is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship; not sure if reading her emails shows a trust and respect on your behalf. ...but what do I know.

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