gay guys in London seek surrogacy female

My partner and I already have a child with a female couple and they are the main care givers. We have a lot of contact with our son but would like a child of our own. I have been looking at surrogacy in the USA but have decided that I only want to do this in the UK. We aware that this is an expensive option. Can anyone provide any advice on how to find a surrogate in the UK?
leegrant@londoncbt.co.uk

Please go see a mental hygenicist to cure yourself of homosexuality. No society completely made of homosexuals can sustain itself. It will eventually become extinct. You clearly realize this by having to go outside your unnatural male-male union.

Mother Nature has given you every incentive to reproduce the natural way... through physical urges and being attracted to the opposite sex. The right thing to do is to bring those natural urges to the surface and bed-down with a woman the normal way. You will enjoy it, and you will genuinely be the father, and you will have a child to enjoy for many years... until the teenage years at least. At which point they don't want to be seen in public with you. LOL

HOMOPhob alert here!!! Think you need to step into the 21st century reality TBurk (interesting name by the way BURK)



He or She or IT even finds the time to LOL !!!

I don't think that gay couples should be allowed to adopt children. Does that make me a homophobe too?

Damn, I promise myself not to get provoked to engage in that kind of discussion.

I don't think that makes you homophobic Matyjasz, it's just your opinion. I'm not sure about it either and i'm certainly not. It is a huge debate in the UK at the moment.

By that i meant Homophobic not gay!! oh dear was that homophobic? i'll stop now i think...

It doesnt make you a homophob Maty
but is it gay males that cant have children adopted or otherwise or the female gay (lesbians) that cant or both??

Yes it is a debate at the minute here in the uk "catholic church vs state" age old debate the church and mp's wont allow it to happen.

In my opinion...you're gay....you aren't compatable with the opposite sex..why would you possibly want a child..that's what men and women do together. Maybe adopt an older child from africa...it's trendy

And I have no issues with that lifestyle, but I think raising a child in that environment wouldn't be right. Not to say that gay parent aren't fit to be parents, but a mommy and daddy are important to have.

Gay looking for a woman, now that's a pervert !

True.

I like that!!!
I agree with Fisz. Gays shouldn't have kids. It would probably be "normal" to have sex with a child because of their perverted view on sex.
Gays can be nice people, but their view is way off and they are not mentally healthy to raise a child.
What if they had a girl? Would they be taking her to men's bathrooms?
Children need both a mother and a father.

I agree with Krysia, because someone involved in one form of degeneracy is far more likely to involve themselves in yet another. BTW, sodomy is still a crime in many parts of the United States.

Spoken like a true Scissor Sister... that is a Lesbijka!

I meant this for telefonitika, what a strange name indeed!

Ah, the wonderful world of selective discrimination from Krysia and co.
Good job guys.
If this had been uk_ spouting his usual trash about, oh lets say: Poles shouldn't have kids as they make bad parents, you'd have been all over him like a rash. But "uh oh" a gay guy asks a question about having a kid and suddenly, quicker than you can say turker baster, they'll be having sex with them and taking them into male toilets.



so I guess all the single parents out there are also doing a sh*t job? They'll be abusing their kids too? No? Didn't think so and guess what, I bet they wouldn't either!

Talk about bigotry.

I think that if *anyone* can provide a stable enviroment for a child then good luck to them, as hell fire, there are enough bad "normal," hetrosexual mothers and fathers out there.

I agree with you , and with them, my only beef with this post of wanting to
have a child is, there is proper ways to do it and not jump on a forum which
is clearly about Polish things. so how did they get to this site looking for a
serrogate mother?

they didnt ask for a polish serrogate mother, they posted they are living in london
and looking for one.

I would think that there are places /clinics what not that have people who
provide this. and in a more appropiate manner with screening and counseling
as well.


I have my own formed opinions which I would rather keep to myself but I do lean
more towards the mother/father traditional way of raising children because I think
this will confuse the child and there will be questions asked. how do things like that
get approached ? what effects does it have on other children who want to be
friends and the parents are against it? will the child feel isolated? discriminated
against growing up with gay parents? lots of things to think about that need
attention so that futures arent set up for disaster and or feeling of lonlyness and
if the schools will have problems with children becoming violent over this.

just alot of thought/thinking out to do before really taking the next step and alot to
do with community as well. Probably would look into things a bit further before taking
on such huge responsibility, physically and financially you might be prepared, but
mentally and emotionally you might not.

ok enough from Dr Patrycja. <~not.. lol

just my opinion.

Thanks.

well said, nothing to add on my side

Nothing against gays. I have a gay friend.
Let the gays have children, they can raise more gays. I don't care. Whatever.
Just love the kid and don't give it aids.

I have two gay friends who foster they have made a big difference to lives of children they have fostered....the points that have been made here a stupid, gay men are not going make children gay....pff

It really makes me wonder what people are actually thinking about sometimes...These two guys have been in a relationship for over 10 years and have a lot to give.

great story
I find that those little stories illustrate life much better that all those stereotypes we try to hold on too, since we need to hold onto something. Life is not simple

How do you know that ?

I happen to know a lesbian couple that have a daughter who is 12 and is very confused about what's right or wrong. Even after being told that there is no right or wrong, she still looks at her mom's and thinks that this how her life should be. So, I think it can have a negative effect.

Gays are not made, they are, its genetic

Mr F, if she is not attracted to women then she's not going to be lesbian, I think people are born the way they are. I do think that people should be more torlerent. In an ideal world there would be two parents, a mother and a father, but we dont live in a perfect ideal world.

Very true! But she'll have to figure it out on her own, which can take some time. So, it can be a frustrating confusing time for her.


Can say that again.

Says who ? Gay news ? Don't tell me that watching for years "2 daddies"... kissing each other and doing other disgusting sh*t won't affect a child.

no... but it might well make you a member of the catholic church...

this is fantastic... i go away for a day or two and the forum turns from a breeding ground for racist fanatics to a place where we can all happily spout our homophobic views...

wonderful... this is a tolerant forum which accepts all forms of bigotry... just as long as we dont express any concerns about american foreign policy... in which case censorship will be applied and dubya's boys will be round for a visit...