Would you get married to become a citizen?

If he's hot, why not? Just kidding.

nice :)

My grandparents got married for business-like reasons, and I wouldn't condemn them. They were together for over 30 years. But he was a widower, in his 50s, and needed someone to help raise his kids. She was a woman in her 30s who was afraid of being an old maid! It certainly wasn't hearts and flowers -- and she admitted they weren't in love. It really was a business arrangement. I think a lot of people today marry for reasons less "noble" than pure unadulterated love. I don't know many women who would marry a man with no job and no prospects because they just were so incredibly in love with him. We all have certain criteria that enter into a decision -- no one is above being human.

that wouldnt happen today since women are not desperate and he took advantage of her....nice man !!!



I feel sorry for her to settle for such a thing, I'd rather die "an old maid" than settle for anything less than love..



Im sure it happens, love is a strange thing, not everyone is looking for a fat wallet!

Yeah. And some women don't need a man to pay her rent.

women who need a man only to pay bills have no clue what relationship and love is about.

People do it to get into America all the time. They have "anchor children" because the law says that any child born here is a legal U.S. citizen, which is absolute B.S.

You could qualify for legitimate legal stay in a specific country, America, UK, wherever, but they will kill you with the profiling. Its not fair to be profiled and I have been profiled before, even though I had qualified completely on points. So if the system is already unfair, then u have to make something happen.

do it... stretch your wings.

Its true there are people willing to pay for it here

there are, that's why i asked you guys what you think...

I would never do it but..

A friend approached me with a proposition of 20k to get married to a girl for
citizenship and I would have to stay married for 2 years???

one doesn't have to marry in a church you know? jp will work just fine to validate the contract.

there are plenty of people that will pay some huge amounts and there are plenty of willing recipeints.

i've seen in both sides.. it was interesting, for sure.

i don't have anything against such an arrangment by others. more power to them and it gives a person some real opportunity, thus my wings comment.

i wonder if it was the same girl. lol

I`m serious the girl that wanted to get married I never even seen.
So I had to ask what does she look like??
And was told this is strictly for money..hahahhaa

yeah right make it 40k lol

i know people who have done that. Two years past and nothing has changed, but one side got some money, and the other one pays every year tax.
People consider that as business with benefits. Avoiding the law....

i've met up with mine a couple of times.. a buddy trying to "fix" me up. thanks dude.. :(

don't go for it...

I would only do it if I really cared about the girl not for money,
but it is true it happens all the time here.

Doesnt seem like fun because the INS will question you

"what side of the bed do you sleep on etc...""

you can get busted

Yes, and it's good if you have some bills on both names, pictures together, live together....etc.
And very intimate question on INS inteview, sometimes in separates rooms...

That's lots of work to do....

don't go for it??? :D :D :D interesting.










i didn't, it was a few years back.

:)

Thats why you just cant do it, people think its so easy

You actually have to live together, they have been know to stop by your house.

The old suprise visit:)

i recall my buddy saying it was pretty easy.. he did it in DC, i think.. he hasn't seen the "bride" since the altar. lol not kidding.

I heard it works but then I`ve heard of some backfires also

depends on your game I guess

wanna get hitched kitty kat:)

hi5 lol.

i was born here in the states so im a citizen, but i would get married to become a citizen.
people get married all the time for the wrong reasons.

If you have nothing to lose, you can get marry for green card or better country with the most ugly girl-boy over the world..

nothing to lose, or no morals?

I reckon it takes both.