Eh.. i have found this forum while searching on google about an university in Poland, so i wanted to comment, since it's also related to my case in a way.
I'm engaged with a Polish girl, and we will get married in a year or so. I'm a Turkish by the way.
(About the comments on Polish girl: yes, they are great. Especially, mine)
I don't know how long it takes to get a Polish citizenship after marriage to Polish, but
it is much more easier to get a visa if u have a Polish citizen around, or expecting you to come.
I have been to Poland three times already, and at the moment i have visa to Poland until the end of February (eh.. it's my bad, cause i went to Polish Embassy in Turkey with my Polish fiancee, and they gave me visa until the expiry date of my passport, so if i had longer passport, i could have longer visa - staying not more than 90 days in total though)
So, for the ones who are having problems to reach/live with their loves abroad, take it easy, it is not so hard to get a visa.
And especially after getting married, u can have your "Kochanie"

with you..
Cheers..