Girl from Poland - how to bring her back

Getting back to the original point - I married my Polish holiday girlfriend and have never regretted it, despite all the stresses and strains our enforced separations caused.
We were both students, her in Poland, me in England, but tried to meet up whenever possible - our longest separation was 12 months.

We met on holiday in France - and love blossomed.

Afterwards, I couldn't afford the exhorbitant airfares to Poland; she could to England (the black market exchange rate plus tickets sold to Poles in PLZ meant she could have come over every month) but she couldn't get UK visas (they picked on her because she didn't want to work illegally!).

Telephoning was a major problem because it went through the international operator. Once I got put through after 24 hours in a public phone box, only to find she'd gone out 5 minutes before! Another time, I got through to her only to discover she could hear me but I couldn't hear her. I kept up a monologue (in French, our common language) for 45 minutes!

Her letters to me arrived in 2 days because she would put UK stamps on them and give them to strangers in Okecie to post on arrival in England. My letters to her took 2-3 weeks, and were opened prior to delivery.

Anyone who's scared of making commitments is quite simply foolish. The advertising agencies hype up "freedom" as a lifestyle. What sort of freedom is that? Freedom to stay an overgrown teenager all your life then find out aged 30+ that you can't adapt to meet the strains of living with another person because you've grown stuck in your ways. Do you really want to be the oldest parent at school? Do you know both you and the woman in your life are going to be so super fertile that your advanced age will make no difference. Kids hatched from 35 year-old eggs have shorter, unhealthier lives by the way. Or are kids something you think's never going to happen to you ... you'll hit 45 and regret it bitterly and your life will look as empty as it really is. Are you going to be healthy all your life? Yes? Good. Then perhaps you don't need any back-up, ever, every man is an island, don't you know.

Hey man if you are so in love with this Polish girl, follow her to Poland...

Lets see if you can give up your life and move to another country.

give her up, the **** why?

******* go for her man and grab he with both hands, dont listen to the rets of these morons.

Manser, your reading it wrong, he said lets see if you can give up your life
(where ever that is) to be with her in Poland..

Now I know you still have deep feelings. why aren't you doing this?

I keep those very strong feelings to myself, too personal. Wouldnt even tell my brother ect.

Hows life in USA Pat, you know I was there in 2005 summer, long island, centre moriches, New yoerk state, camp paquatuck. for 9 weeks. working summer cmap, then 2 more weeks at virginia beahc, washington DC, new york, boston ect.

well, considering we have no snow for Christmas, its pretty good

today I had to make dinner, my two brothers were coming , we exchanged tonight
and it was really fantastic

as for daily life, it is good, this year will be better year for us personally. as
I had recently recieved a raise, so economy is very good right now, but it
has affected various businesses.

Bush is bringing us down , Clinton had us on right track, I will always Admire him
as a President, I never thought any worse of him with the Monica Lewinski Scandal
because that wasnt important. People say, well if he can cheat on his wife, then
he can cheat the people. but, hes no lesser a man then any one of those
Politicians and they probably do it too, they just dont get caught. what happens
in the bedroom has no impact on politics, thats a whole different brain they think
with at that point! lol



Our Weather is pretty odd for this time of year.

what were you doing there? working with Children ?

that sounds really cool Paul, Did you like coming to the states?

i m not helpful with legal part of moving from country to country but...


BOSCO DON'T EVER GIVE UP:!!

Sorry just forget to tell you that currently i am in London London and Flying to Warsaw on 16/01/08.
I need good girl friend.
Anybody can help me to find nice bubbly girl.
Anil

Sir, what i've learned is to never take advice about relationships.. from anybody. It's all subjective. If you think this is what you want, and your morals are true, then do so. You have to be willing to sacrifice everything for this person. You also have know that it's shared the other way around.