I got chatting to a Polish girl in a bar - opinions please..

I couldnt agree more Sarah, its also what ive done.

My problem is she works in my favourite bar, where all my friends usually go..

Well that should not be a problem considering the man i like works in my fav night club and my mates all go there too - show her you don't care and see if she comes running she may realise what she is missing if she sees you enjoying yourself

I pretty much ignored her last night Sarah. She asked me why i was mad with her??!!

Just said I wasnt, just backing off like I said. Think shes only here for another 3 weeks, so im going to accept theres not alot of chance its going to happen.

Hope your situation turns out ok...

Oh dear hun - at least she noticed you were ignoring her and it looks to me she was bothered you did ( hope that makes sense)

I am sure you will find someone which will be here longer then a short period of time wich will like you just as much as you like her don't be disheartend from one bad experience

I don't think my situtation will turn out ok to be honest with you i mean i met him around 9 months ago we got close and started talking alot and i made the stupis mistake of sleeping with him and he turned after that and blew hot and cold as in one min he was interested and then he weren't

When i came on here a couple of months back and got a few things translated i texted him and he told me he loved me and he was impressed i had gone to to effort of getting it into polish but still blew hot and cold - he also told me that he has no time for anything and has no time to think about what he wants.

But i cam to the conclusion that he likes me to flirt with and a bit of fun here and there but nothing else so i am pretty much going to ignore him from now on

But good luck with your life anyway

Take Care

sarah are u learning polish

do u know any

nara

Nope i would love to though

The only thing i learnt was a word that sounds like kutass - have no idea about spelling!! and cie kocham or kocham cie which ever way that is

I like coming on here trying to pick up things ha ha

sarah - it's very difficult, I speak French (not very well at times and better after a few Vodkas) and I have found the how verb thing so hard....much more complicated than english, but I enjoy it and my teacher is good and patient.


okay TTFN and dont go texting him xxxx

There is one thing you seem to ignore that may be crucial to understanding the situation. The girl came to the UK to earn some money, she's working hard and is using all the time available to do so (in Poland univ start Oct 2nd). Consequently no matter what she thinks or feels, she sticks to her priority - and Poles are good at that. Moreover, being tired as she must be, she won't have much energy to actually make the effort of going out knowing it's not going to last.

Just my humble opinion but may shed some new light at the situation.

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Hiya Shelley i never went texting him and i do not plan on doing so neither iam going out to the place where he works tonight so i will update you come monday with the situation on Monday take care and have a good weekend.

x x

sarah - good girl, hope you had a goodun too, mine was one of domestic bliss, painting, cleaning and cooking!!!

Shelley
Yeah was a really nice weekend although i went to the club i said hi and it was him who asked what was wrong with me and so i told him nothing of which he replied So why you not talk to me or stand with me any more i shrugged my shoulders and walked off

He also asked to meet up after he'd finished work and i said i don't think that's a good idea - did i do good? x

sarah - babes you did fantastic, so proud of you xxxx ....very mature way of handling the situation.

Thanks i am glad your proud hee hee x

Well, it would appear that the lady in question wants to go out, but not for a drink, as she doesnt drink as much as i do!

Result.

kutas is d**k

hahahaha

Well DiscoPaul what can i say seems like everything is working out for yah i am so happy for you, hope everything goes to plan xx

plg I thought it was something along those lines x

why on earth would you boyfriend be saying things like that..I think I'd be rather offended if I heard that my b/f was using that kind of language in front of me.

Nah a polish lady who works in the same nightclub i go to taught me x

hmmm are they all Polish in the night clubs you go to? Can't say I see any Polish when I go out drinking.

They are 98% polish who work there - not actually clubbing but tend to go there on there nights off as well x

sarah - there are no Polish even working in the bars I go in (out in Manchester city centre) but there are in the local bars to me.

Oh right - they are alot more polish people here cause i am from central london so there alot more jobs going here, well assume so anyway x

sarah - plenty of jobs in Manchester, just a very large student population who take them....

See whereas here in the south east of london people are either drug dealers or just way to lazy to get off there back side to get a job - proply why there are alot of jobs x

lol

lol. The lesbians who wear make up are called lipstick lesbians.

Nice moustache!! Is she greek?

Lol

Krysia you have a real talent for art
What do call your style of art.... Expressionism