My guy gets irrate and makes sure i see him looking at other women

I have made loads of messages on this forum before but made little topics, i wanted to tell the forum about my little problem and ask for your opinions.

I have previously only asked Shelley and Krysia and they have helped me massivly!!!

So there is a polish guy which work's in my favorite club - we have been friends for around 11 months now and have also came more then friends on a few occasions - i say a few occasions cause this guy pays be loads of attention and say's he likes me one minute and then goes back to us just being friends the next.

Every weekend which i end up in this night club he acts differntly- the thing is he has told me he loves me over text messages which have kindly been translated on here - i knew he would not have meant this though.

He tell's his collegues to watch me to see if i talk or dance with anyone else of which when i do he gets irrate and makes sure i see him looking at other women.

What do you think is the best thing for me to do is??

Also bare in mind i have told this guy how i feel and he stills blows hot and cold ( sorry about spelling mistakes i am worlds worst hee hee)

This guy is using you. I'm sorry but that's the way I see it.
If he wants you he should at least meet you half way.
Do you meet him on his nights off, visit each others homes, go to the cinema ?
Compare your situation to that of your friends and then decide if the relationship is working.

I have meet him previously on his nights off yes - we just talked about everything, he told me he works too much to think about things as in relationships he says he only has one day off a week and is sure i could not cope with that x

Maybe he is telling the truth. I have no reason to doubt him. It seems that you are both looking for different things in this relationship. My head tells me that you should move on, try to find that special person elsewhere. In my heart I hope it works out for you as you obviously like him. I'm sorry I can't add more.

Wroclaw thank you so much for your input and thank you very much for hoping it works out for me.

I am trying to move on as we speack cause i had a feeling you was right about him

He is bad news. Such severe changes in attitude are a sign of an UNSTABLE person. And he has people watching you? This is BAD!

GET RID OF HIM !! He sounds like a total nightmare. He is very insecure and he tries to hurt your feelings by looking at other women. That isn't the kind of person that even likes you let alone loves you. He is not a real man. He is weak in the extreme. Get a guy thats worth the effort. This one is a waste of time.

Murzynka is dead right, don't bother with him, he seems like the kind of possessive freak that won't let you even wipe your own backside without filling a report form. Bin him or don't get any closer to him, in fact the further away from him you get the better my dear.

There are plenty more fish in the sea and you'll find the right guy out there for you. Believe me when i say this guy is not the one for you. The simple fact that your asking us for our opinions mean you have doubts, doubts are something you don't want if your thinking of starting a new relationship.

Sorry if i've been sharp but i'm the kind of guy that gets straight to the point. Pleae don't take this the wrong way because it is not meant like that.

Thnx

T

Guys...look at the date of this post. Sara hasn't been here in a while :)

This topic is almost a year old.

When I was looking at Stats of old PF, Sarah was among them :)

wow, it seems my advice is just a tad late lol :)

Lol Oops. Maybe she'll come back, you never know.

Or, someone can just use the advice given for a similar experience :)

Hahaha Mb

good advice.

sounds like a chump to me