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	F15guy
	May 6, 08, 16:57 #31 pipeczko: i want to be with him, but it turns out he has a wife and children in Poland (i thought he was separated when we met - he wasn't....although he has lived with me for the past year, now the baby is born he feels so guilty that any relationship between us is spoilt You're not going to like what I have to say. You knew he was married (though "separated"). That was a red stop light to you. Did you know he had children in Poland? Second red light. If he didn't tell you, I doubt he's feeling guilty. He's looking for a way to run or has he already? pipeczko: I wasn't stupid. At worst, I was naive. I think you knew what causes babies. You have a 12 year old. Was the baby planned by the two of you? Or did you just stop using the pill? Perhaps to prod him into marriage? pipeczko: the judgementalism of this site never ceases to amaze me!! I'm not trying to be judgemental. I have pointed out the above with the hope you'll take a good look at your self and not rush into another relationship too soon.	Member Posts: 331 Joined: Jan 14, 08
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	pipeczko
	May 6, 08, 17:49 #32 F15guy: Or did you just stop using the pill? Perhaps to prod him into marriage? I have heard there are women who do that kind of thing, but I am certainly not one of them. Pregnancy was a result of failed contraception.	Member Posts: 34 Joined: Feb 27, 08
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	F15guy
	Edited by: F15guy May 6, 08, 22:20 #33 pipeczko: Pregnancy was a result of failed contraception. That's a shame, but you've been blessed with daughter and I hope you and he will love her and always take care of her. Please don't rush into a new relationship. You're vunerable right now.	Member Posts: 331 Joined: Jan 14, 08
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	RockyMason
	Edited by: RockyMason May 6, 08, 22:23 #34 pipeczko: ok, this will make you laugh: i am English but i speak Polish - lived in Poland 16 years ago and have had Polish connections ever since (i know that bit wasn't hilariously funny, but the next bits are, in a dark kind of way, when you put them in the context of this ad ...) i had a baby 4.5 weeks ago - she is adorable, and her daddy is Polish i want to be with him, but it turns out he has a wife and children in Poland (i thought he was separated when we met - he wasn't) although he has lived with me for the past year, now the baby is born he feels so guilty that any relationship between us is spoilt i also have a son, aged 12, with my ex-husband ... who is also ... Polish so i SHOULD get out of this, find someone who truly loves me, and who i love, and who won't mind not one but two children, with two different fathers, and a sobbing hormonal breastfeeding mother (ie me), who doesn't really want to be separated from the father of her (recent) child. and the someone has to be Polish, for various obvious reasons, not least continuity : ) (a feeble attempt at a joke - very half-hearted, i can tell you) - and because my baby girl must speak Polish. oh, and this 'someone' would have to be a saintly kind of person, given what i would be asking of them. but i also give a lot back - a hell of a lot. wow. now there aren't many adverts like that, are there?!! and in a normal state, i'm actually quite nice, honest... HAHAHAHA okay well I am the one who laughs! Ever heard of a condom and birth control? WE DON'T NEED ANY MORE BASTARD CHILDREN IN THIS WORLD WITH 5 DIFFERENT DADDIES! Polish guys love to cut and run they r notorious for it my GF has told me numerous stories about people doing that in chicago! Some even have 2 families at the same time! Polish guys r mostly bastards! Good luck finding a halfway decent one in the bunch! They lie alot 2 so u can't ever know for sure. U shouldn't have had children u nitwit! 2 mistakes god damn! How about this instead of looking for some guy with ethnicity being a huge factor just go for watever is nice and will take care of your children! u need a father not a pollack a brain! If the guy u find is polish then so be it but don't presume so! That is just absurd! U have had 2 bad experiences with 2 polish guys!!! Broaden your horizons and just date whoever is nice regardless......... and some1 with a decent job 2 who doesn't drink!	Member Posts: 381 Joined: Nov 20, 07
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	djf
	May 7, 08, 02:55 #35 Rocky, your such a cipka.	Member Posts: 165 Joined: Dec 18, 07
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	F15guy
	May 7, 08, 07:15 #36 djf: cipka So, what's a cipka.	Member Posts: 331 Joined: Jan 14, 08
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	RockyMason
	May 7, 08, 12:20 #37 djf: Rocky, your such a cipka. hahahahaha! Say wat u want but it won't take away from the validity of my statement! U know u cannot even make a good argument against it so u call me names! =D that's very childish of you!	Member Posts: 381 Joined: Nov 20, 07
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	z_darius
	May 7, 08, 13:17 #38 RockyMason: my GF has told me numerous stories about people doing that in chicago! Some even have 2 families at the same time! Polish guys r mostly bastards! I feel sorry for your GF, but hey, don't get discouraged. Bastard girls are humans too. Or is it her daddy who is a bastard?	Member Posts: 1961 Joined: Oct 18, 07
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	Easy_Terran
	Edited by: Easy_Terran May 7, 08, 14:04 #39 F15guy: So, what's a cipka. A p.u.s.s.y.	Member Posts: 207 Joined: Mar 31, 08
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	dariusz
	May 7, 08, 14:22 #40 That's right you tell them like it is!! I agree with you it would be better for the children if they had a positive Polish influence in their lives, I did'nt have that and I regret that. Good Luck!!! dariusz	Member Posts: 11 Joined: Apr 18, 08
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	pipeczko
	May 7, 08, 15:14 #41 RockyMason: WE DON'T NEED ANY MORE BASTARD CHILDREN IN THIS WORLD WITH 5 DIFFERENT DADDIES! Are you ill? dariusz: I agree with you it would be better for the children if they had a positive Polish influence in their lives, I did'nt have that and I regret that. Thanks Dariusz. Personally I can't see what their problem is - for fxxx's sake, there are hundreds of people on here looking for 'polish woman for wife' or 'sexy polish guy', based purely on the fact that Polish people are often quite hot, and I am simply saying that due to my children's heritage, I'd like a Polish partner (not ANY OLD Polish guy - OBVIOUSLY one who love me, and who I love - I thought that bit was too obvious to say!!!!!! But obviously not!!!!!!!!!!!). No, really, thanks for seeing what I am actually trying to talk about - a responsible and loving concern for my children! And as for the guy who refers to my month-old daughter as an unwanted bastard ... actually makes me feel sick. Frankly we could do very nicely without his sort. Surely the merit of a person is in their individuality, and nothing to do with race, colour, sexual orientation or the circumstances of their conception?? I didn't realise there were so many Nazis on this site... (and I know that will get them all going, but I don't care - their attitudes are incredibly unsound - I am not used to such opinions).	Member Posts: 34 Joined: Feb 27, 08
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	Sophia
	May 7, 08, 15:20 #42 RockyMason: Polish guys r mostly bastards! Good luck finding a halfway decent one in the bunch Come on - I must be extremely lucky then. I'm not saying they all are but I can honestly say every Polish guy I have met [and come to think of it this applies to the women too] so far have been a lot more than decent.	Member Posts: 157 Joined: Apr 8, 08
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	BubbaWoo
	May 7, 08, 15:24 #43 pipeczko: Surely the merit of a person is in their individuality, and nothing to do with race, colour, sexual orientation or the circumstances of their conception?? then surely its hypocritical to make a partner choice based on their nationality??? really pipeczko - some of the things you have written are shocking - perhaps that partially explains the reaction you have got	Member Posts: 4941 Joined: Sep 26, 06
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	dariusz
	May 7, 08, 15:57 #44 pipeczko: Thanks Dariusz. Personally I can't see what their problem is - for fxxx's sake, there are hundreds of people on here looking for 'polish woman for wife' or 'sexy polish guy', based purely on the fact that Polish people are often quite hot, and I am simply saying that due to my children's heritage, I'd like a Polish partner (not ANY OLD Polish guy - OBVIOUSLY one who love me, and who I love - I thought that bit was too obvious to say!!!!!! But obviously not!!!!!!!!!!!). No, really, thanks for seeing what I am actually trying to talk about - a responsible and loving concern for my children! And as for the guy who refers to my month-old daughter as an unwanted bastard ... actually makes me feel sick. Frankly we could do very nicely without his sort. Surely the merit of a person is in their individuality, and nothing to do with race, colour, sexual orientation or the circumstances of their conception?? I didn't realise there were so many Nazis on this site... (and I know that will get them all going, but I don't care - their attitudes are incredibly unsound - I am not used to such opinions). If you want me to tell you the con's of not having a Polish male role model growing up you can email me though my member profile, avoid this for your children if possible	Member Posts: 11 Joined: Apr 18, 08
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	LondonChick
	May 7, 08, 16:25 #45 Pipeczko, I'm not being judgemental - that's not my style, but please do answer the question in my earlier post: What is the point of your thread? 1. To seek a new Polish partner or 2. To make sense of what is going on in your head / life?	Member Posts: 747 Joined: Nov 19, 07
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	pipeczko
	May 7, 08, 17:44 #46 LondonChick: What is the point of your thread? 1. To seek a new Polish partner or 2. To make sense of what is going on in your head / life? I don't need help from a website to make sense of what is going on in my head/life - I know exactly what is going on. The point of the thread was a pretty half-hearted attempt to see if there was anyone out there with whom I could strike up at least a conversation. But not a conversation about how I have ****** up, because I haven't: life is as it is, we have a beautiful daughter, and I don't need therapy! I am quite sussed. Perhaps my sense of humour is too oblique for the general public, though. These dating ads always involve the seller presenting themselves in the best light possibly. My amusement with my own situation is that I am so un-saleable at the moment that never in a million years would anyone respond to such an ad!! But hope lives eternal and I had thought there might have been someone out there who got both the joke and the pathos.	Member Posts: 34 Joined: Feb 27, 08
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	xxupallnytxx
	May 7, 08, 20:05 #47 hi how is everyone.:).am living in Ireland..and i think polish men are very attractive..!! but all the ones i meet near my home has children or is married in Poland..i dont want to get between them and their wife's in Poland..!! is there any single polish men over here in Ireland??	Member Posts: 5 Joined: May 7, 08
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	Kaylyn
	May 7, 08, 20:49 #48 dariusz: If you want me to tell you the con's of not having a Polish male role model growing up you can email me though my member profile, avoid this for your children if possible Honestly whats the big deal. How about being concerned about a good male role model as opposed to a Polish male role model. That is silly. Good men are good men no matter the ethnicity. The children are not going to learn everything about being Polish anyway, they live in England. It doesn't sound like she has the option of being that picky. Children need a loving father, I've never heard of anyone with lifelong scars over their father not being Polish. My mom is Polish but my dad is Hungarian. Somehow I have succeeded in life. It sounds as though you are too concerned with a man being Polish and not enough about him being good for your children. Your priorities are mixed up. Finding a good man who will love you and your children is hard enough, being picky about ethnicity at this point is stupid.	Member Posts: 38 Joined: Apr 22, 08
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	RockyMason
	May 7, 08, 22:32 #49 dariusz: That's right you tell them like it is!! I agree with you it would be better for the children if they had a positive Polish influence in their lives, I did'nt have that and I regret that. pipeczko: But hope lives eternal and I had thought there might have been someone out there who got both the joke and the pathos. Say all u want but poolish male and positive is a contradiction. Drunks aren't positive! I love how hopeless people always cling to little witty quotes or concepts that they think are universal or meaningful! THERE ISN'T SOME1 OUT THERE FOR EVERY1! U should know that by now! U have had 2 pollack children and 2 poolack a brain walkouts! Say all u want but in the end it's just words! Ur lack of a husband for your children is reality not just a bunch of words!!!!!!!!! U are a terrible person! Don't feel bad for my GF! I will take care of her and wait until after I am married to have children! I plan on being a good father! unlike most pollacks who r more concerned about vodka and girls!	Member Posts: 381 Joined: Nov 20, 07
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	Wyspianska
	Edited by: Wyspianska May 8, 08, 03:06 #50 pipeczko: he has to be Polish ... I'm Polish and I know something about guys there. I fell in love first time when I was 18 already and.. with English bloke :D He appreciates the fact he's my first serious boyfriend who I have such strong feelings for and who cares for me a lot. He has a respect for me because I was a virgin when we met and he treats me like a princess while Polish guys care for bang bang bang under the sheets only. We still are together and I can't even imagine being with a Polish guy. I think there are good people in every nation but.. Polish mentality is what you should know already after what these men did to you. They think they can lie just because they are far away from home and be with two women and have two families in one time? My boy would never do that to me! Maybe it's a time to move on and look for someone who's worth your feelings and who's not Polish at all? Look around :)	Member Posts: 1284 Joined: Jun 27, 07
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	pipeczko
	May 8, 08, 05:57 #51 RockyMason: with a decent job 2 who doesn't drink! neither man drank - both teetotal, almost Kaylyn: It sounds as though you are too concerned with a man being Polish and not enough about him being good for your children. Your priorities are mixed up. Finding a good man who will love you and your children is hard enough, being picky about ethnicity at this point is stupid. Sorry, I thought it was obvious that of course someone who is perfect for me and my children is the object, but just that they be a Polish someone. Heritage and language ARE important, but of course I never said I wanted a bastard who would just do because he was Polish. Why does everyone presume I am mad? Jeez. RockyMason: U have had 2 pollack children and 2 poolack a brain walkouts! Say all u want but in the end it's just words! Ur lack of a husband for your children is reality not just a bunch of words!!!!!!!!! U are a terrible person! Real nice, Rocky. Way to go. 'Polack', by the way, is a racist term. And nobody walked out on me. Where did you get that from? I have a great relationship with my ex-husband, and his partner, and they are going to be godparents for the baby. You see, we live in this place called THE CIVILISED WORLD - have you heard of it? They don't let people like you in. You'll have to be satisfied with just pressing your nose to the glass and longing. Sorry.	Member Posts: 34 Joined: Feb 27, 08
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	pipeczko
	Edited by: pipeczko May 8, 08, 06:44 #52 ps And did I anywhere say my ex-husband was a crazy drunken polygamist bastard? I don't think so. He was and is a perfectly nice guy, we met, we went out for 4 years, we got married, we had a kid, and it didn't work out. A common story, I think. Him being Polish was neither here nor there. But yes, I agree about the father of my baby - wives, children, lies, babies, more lies - lies to everyone. He doesn't drink, but boy does he lie, so I have discovered. But I wouldn't presume to make a generalisation about the whole nation because of that. I know you all love to get on your soapboxes (and I'm a bit surprised how negative people are about Polish guys), but really, this is a sorry little tale of real life, and it can't be blamed on 'terrible' characters or appalling national traits. It's just life.	Member Posts: 34 Joined: Feb 27, 08
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	dariusz
	May 8, 08, 07:01 #53 RockyMason: Say all u want but poolish male and positive is a contradiction. Drunks aren't positive! I love how hopeless people always cling to little witty quotes or concepts that they think are universal or meaningful! THERE ISN'T SOME1 OUT THERE FOR EVERY1! U should know that by now! U have had 2 pollack children and 2 poolack a brain walkouts! Say all u want but in the end it's just words! Ur lack of a husband for your children is reality not just a bunch of words!!!!!!!!! U are a terrible person! Don't feel bad for my GF! I will take care of her and wait until after I am married to have children! I plan on being a good father! unlike most pollacks who r more concerned about vodka and girls! That is a very steriotipical statement to say all male's in a perticular nationality (Polish) are drunks!!	Member Posts: 11 Joined: Apr 18, 08
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	JustysiaS
	May 8, 08, 07:02 #54 pipeczko: and I'm a bit surprised how negative people are about Polish guys unfortunately it is not a secret that this is what SOME Polish guys are like. they go abroad by themselves to support their family but after a while they will get lonely and SOME of them will choose to do what the father of your baby did to you. we had a few sad stories here on the forum and i personally know one Polish guy who is a bit "lonely" like that away from his wife and kid and he tried it on with my (attached) Polish girlfriend, plus a few of my English girlfriends had similar experiences with Polish guys, too. So yeah it is happening, i know that not every Polish bloke is like this, but obviously the word goes around when they are being jerks and thats how people create stereotypes. I had a wonderful relationship with a Polish guy back in the day but now im with a Scot and if you ask me i wouldn't trade him for anyone ;). Its wrong though that everybody seems to think now that all Polish guys are players and cheats. Kinda unfair to judge the whole nation by a few pathetic examples...	Member Posts: 1093 Joined: Oct 14, 07
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	RockyMason
	May 8, 08, 11:32 #55 pipeczko: l nice, Rocky. Way to go. 'Polack', by the way, is a racist term. And nobody walked out on me. Where did you get that from? I have a great relationship with my ex-husband, and his partner, and they are going to be godparents for the baby. You see, we live in this place called THE CIVILISED WORLD - have you heard of it? They don't let people like you in. You'll have to be satisfied with just pressing your nose to the glass and longing. Sorry. Poles aren't a race so no it isn't racist lol! U didn't know that poles aren't a race? Dude I am in a much more civilized world than u! I associate with people who are worth 10s of millions and politicians! The world isn't always nice and sometimes u need to be blunt! I am perfectly content not being in your imaginary world! My world is by far more universal and influential! =D u need to stop having bastards! Stop spreading your legs u rag! Get sterilized we don't need more people like u!	Member Posts: 381 Joined: Nov 20, 07
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	LondonChick
	May 8, 08, 11:35 #56 RockyMason: I associate with people who are worth 10s of millions and politicians! as you so often like to remind us	Member Posts: 747 Joined: Nov 19, 07
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	szarlotka
	May 8, 08, 11:40 #57 Lend us a tenner RockyM... I need to eat tonight. No make that twenty bucks as I have a Guinness addiction....	Member Posts: 1934 Joined: Feb 20, 07
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	Shawn_H
	May 8, 08, 11:41 #58 szarlotka: I have a Guinness addiction.... and an Omnibus Edition to crank out...	Member Posts: 1610 Joined: Apr 6, 07
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	szarlotka
	May 8, 08, 11:42 #59 Shawn_H: and an Omnibus Edition to crank out... No Guinness no Omnibus Edition.... I need a creativity source	Member Posts: 1934 Joined: Feb 20, 07
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	polishgirltx
	May 8, 08, 11:43 #60 szarlotka: No Guinness no Omnibus Edition.... i knew that's the reason...	Member Posts: 1141 Joined: Feb 23, 08
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