I have met a wonderful Polish woman, but she has a 9 yrs old daughter

im sorry but i cant agree, if the guy wants to be with that woman he should make the effort to be friends with the daughter, after all - whatever happens the daughter comes 'inclusive' with her mom and if the kid doesnt like you cos you dont give a sh*t about her than the mom aint gonna be happy either. dont underestimate a womans maternal instinct, the daughter will always come first especially that shes still very young and needs her mom a lot. that is a very selfish and immature statement, bajka. how would you feel if you had a kid and your lady didnt give a sh*t about him/her?

There's at least for a month of meat on a 9 year-old - should be a good investment in the future...Kids are great in filled soups and stews.

M-G (in a funny mood today)

I wouldn't have gotten myself in that position........ in the first place !

What's wrong with boarding schools, maybe the kid will grow up better educated than its mother !

Damn, JustysiaS - that's a sexy pic !

And what's wrong with the mother's education? If she has a kid, she's not allowed to have a relationship? If you had a wife and let's say she died or left you, you would be alone for the rest of your life?

Well as you put it that way, if i did have a kid left with me by a mother that departed in which ever way, then i would do my best to focus on that child and put its needs first, not mine - otherwise i'd end up with 10 kids and no partners !

But i'm not in that position !

and anyway, get back on track, its the bloke thats having the issues not the woman....

you cant say that, you cant tell whats gonna happen in the future. your wife (or gf) might dump you for someone else and leave the child to you, or die in an accident... then youre stuck with your kid, all alone, so does that mean youre uneducated? there are plenty of life related situations where you might find yourself as a single parent, and poor education or even poor knowledge about contraception is just an easy way to condemn someone who is a single parent.

Just for info, i have been married twice, my first wife (English) died during our 10 year relationship she was highschool sweetheart, then i got remarried to a Russian girl, from Taganrog, she was 5 years younger and such a pretty thing, a face like a doll..... she died too after 3 years in our relationship....... I'm currently on my 3rd engagement and things are going fine.....

No, it isn't. Didn't you know that?



M-G (good mood)