having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child)

hi i hate to admit it but i am seeing and having sex with a polish man who is living and working in uk at moment.. the problem is he has a wife and child in poland

same story that most come up against mobile. Cant say i am in that position myself though i like a polish male but havent seen him since october last year and i never really found out what he actually thought of me managed to get two pictures of him which he himself allowed me to take at work, we'd talk and affectionately touch each other (like give each others hugs and tenderly place a hand on each others arm but alas nothing)

Did you want advice ? or other?

hi thanks its a bit deeper than that are you polish?

are you pregnant from him mobile

no i am not that stupid..

thats good then

Im english mobile ... learning the language .... moving there in 2008



Dont think davidpeake meant any offense hun


How deep is it if you dont mind me asking?

was not even thinking of being offensive, but deeper than having an affair is either love or ?

The world has enough to provide for every human's needs...but not enough to provide for their greed.

ok sorry i didnt take offence, love i dont know maybe its a bit difficult ashes married he does say maybe in the future he will divorce but not yet as he has teenage daughter and doesnt want to hurt her.. i understand this.. he has been married 13 yrs and im the first person hes slept with since his marrage. i do belive him i can see it in his eyes, but who knows. men move in strange ways!!!!

lonestranger maybe thats why your alone!!!

how can you make a comment like that?... I recommend you ask yourself 'Why you made a comment like that?'...without knowing the life and achievements of the person you are making this comment about.

Was my line so much offending? So much false you found in it?... or was it like a blazing flame filled with the worlds most greatest reality.

Whatever it was, it was not meant to burn anyone....but just share the light of my opinion....which you can fully disagree with.... but, ur comment was rather intruiging to me...

Best wishes ......

I think you burnt yourself LoneStranger ...Obviously the subject touched your spot of bother ...
I will keep myself in silence otherwise someone will get more offended.
What it would be like if people would take the resposibility of their own acts instead of finding the most sophisticated excuses...
Dont you think that the all situation above looks like waiting in a line for someone's tour ...

Im sorry of not being politically correct.

I think you need a reality check here.
most likely Mobile, he will go back home to his wife and you will remain in the UK with a broken heart and lonely.
Or, he will stay in the UK, will divorce his wife and feel guilty about it for the rest of his life.
Or, none of this will happen, I guess the time will tell

Both of you are not doing the righ thing and you are both parners in crime.
He is judgeling 2 women already, so are you willing to have a commited relationship with him in the future? Do you want to have a family and children in the future with him?

Or you just having fun.
Fun is good, but at one point we need to take time to think where it's going, what is our part in it, what do we want out of this and are we willing to make sacrifices.
I migh sound like a moral know it all, but life has it's requirements and it usually corrects itself in a long run.
Unless it's love.
All the best to you

And how do you know this? He is lying to his wife right? Don't get involved with someone elses marriage. Would you like to be in his wifes position?

And those are the best words of wisdom mobile will get today

Yes

no i wouldnt like to be in his wifes position, but i wouldnt put myself in that position in the first place. he has been away from his wife forthe past two and a half years and been with me for only two months.who are we hurting? nobody!! if i was in happy relationship i woulnt be away for 2 years in the first place.. and besides he is a very good ****!!!

there might be other reasons why he is away, but you sound like you feel good in the relationship and he is a good****, so good for you.
I just don't understand why why created this tread, to let the hole world know that you are having a good ****? Thanks for the info.

do you know what i wish i hadent bothered!!!!

yaaah....

You may not be, but he's breaking his trust with his wife. Think about it, if he's doing this to his current wife, what makes you think that he won't do it to you?

i know him and i know me and he wouldnt have to do thatwith me

how long have you know him mobile

about nine weeks

Hmmm... ok maybe you know him just a little..or have you known him prior to getting together?

lol...ok so you don't know him. Takes a bit longer than 2 mths to really know someone. In my opinion of course.

i met him at parents evening he is my sons teacher,we became friends and so on

i know what i need to know lol