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having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child)

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	Maati
	Jan 27, 07, 06:24 #151 Mobile, I am sorry, but I have to admit that hate women like you. Do you pay bills for this guy or sometimes help him financially ? And can he speak English, at least? You know now, what he's going to tell his wife to explain himself... Can't you find somebody single, even divorced, whatever? You have never met his wife and kid and you don't know what the real situation is.	Member Posts: 223 Joined: Nov 4, 06

	KUKULKA [Guest]
	Jan 27, 07, 06:28 #152 seldom polish men settle with a foreign women...Yes, I do mean that... in a way ... you are being used...	Guest

	KUKULKA [Guest]
	Jan 27, 07, 06:29 #153 Maati she is gona get what she deserves... I am certain	Guest

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:32 #154 Quoting: Maati, Post #151 Mobile, I am sorry, but I have to admit that hate women like you. dont be srry u can hate me as much as u like!!No i do pay anythig i wouldnt do that. yes he can speak perfect english he i a teacher at local school (maths and pe this is where i met him). no i dont know what he is gonna tell his wife to explain himself. he is more concerned about telling his teenage daughter. its easy to say meet someone else but hard to do now we have feelings for each other	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:33 #155 Quoting: KUKULKA, Post #153 Maati she is gona get what she deserves... I am certain and what do i deserve? i am not a bad person i just got into a bad situation	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:33 #156 Quoting: KUKULKA, Post #152 seldom polish men settle with a foreign women well i dont know where you have been i know loads	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	Maati
	Jan 27, 07, 06:37 #157 It's almost obvious here that this woman is being used. The most probably it's about survival to that Polish guy. He's having fun as well, if the woman is as attractive as his wife or Polish chicks. If not, he prostitutes himself for help, money, support. He will not divorce his wife, regerdless of what he's saying...	Member Posts: 223 Joined: Nov 4, 06

	KUKULKA [Guest]
	Jan 27, 07, 06:40 #158 You put yourself in this situation therefore you are the guilty one...even more guilty than he is...he is lonely, in a foreign country, missing his family...he closes eyes and is with his wife really not with you. Many polish men have to work abroad and they come back to Poland after years of separation. Don't get fooled by his words he is saying that only to keep you ...I don't blame him it is very hard to be among strangers alone...I rather blame you for it is easier for you to make the right decision but you are having too much fun ...)	Guest

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:40 #159 Quoting: Maati, Post #157 It's almost obvious here that this woman is being used. The most probably it's about survival to that Polish guy. He's having fun as well, if the woman is as attractive as his wife or Polish chicks. If not, he prostitutes himself for help, money, support. He will not divorce his wife, regerdless of what he's saying... what is the point of me even saying anything you seem to know it all and u have never even met any of us	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	Ranj
	Jan 27, 07, 06:43 #160 Quoting: Maati, Post #157 It's almost obvious here that this woman is being used. I don't agree with this, Maati. She's using him as much as he's using her (great sex). I think it's time to put an end to the Mobile bashing. Quoting: mobile, Post #155 i am not a bad person i just got into a bad situation I don't think you are a bad person----like you said, you got yourself into a bad situation and only you can get yourself out of it, if that's what you choose to do.	Member Posts: 1685 Joined: Sep 29, 06

	Maati
	Jan 27, 07, 06:44 #161 Quoting: mobile, Post #154 he is more concerned about telling his teenage daughter. its easy to say meet someone else but hard to do now we have feelings for each other That's what he told you... It doesn't mean anything , if he's a math teacher there. He could be even university professor. In Poland they earn less than plumbers. I hope he told you that too. It is still about survival to him, since teachers in the UK don't make big money aw well. I am a teacher myself. Fortunately, I teach in a private school in Warsaw plus I do other things apart from teaching. Some of my friends are teachers and teachers assistants in the UK. Obviously, it is a better job than cleaning but still, nothing special financialy.	Member Posts: 223 Joined: Nov 4, 06

	Ranj
	Jan 27, 07, 06:46 #162 Quoting: KUKULKA, Post #158 You put yourself in this situation therefore you are the guilty one...even more guilty than he is... Hey Kuk, it takes 2 to tango---he's a grown man and if he had any sense of integrity, it wouldn't matter how lonely he got.	Member Posts: 1685 Joined: Sep 29, 06

	KUKULKA [Guest]
	Jan 27, 07, 06:48 #163 I see you don't want to understand ... so why are asking for opinions? You made your mind already...you want him ...regardless. It is not going to happen. Prove it to yourself observe him...how often he talks to his family, does he call, write letters, support them financially? I bet the answer is YES ... of course that is why he is there not to split ... he decided to work abroad for them...it was hard decision based on his love for them ... you are only a helper in his hardship. When he was talking about divorce didn't you pressure him for some asurance?	Guest

	Maati
	Jan 27, 07, 06:48 #164 Quoting: mobile, Post #159 what is the point of me even saying anything you seem to know it all and u have never even met any of us Because I live in Poland and I heard thousands stories like yours... Math teacher, plumber, whoever... I wish both of you good luck. You'll need it...	Member Posts: 223 Joined: Nov 4, 06

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:48 #165 Quoting: Ranj, Post #160 I don't agree with this, Maati. She's using him as much as he's using her (great sex). I think it's time to put an end to the Mobile bashing. thankyou, but i really dont mind i can see why they hate me!!! i spoke to him earlier today and he isnt some young stupid child who is using me i can assure you all of this.. he didnt want to fall for me or hurt anyone but this has happened. do u really think i should finish with him? he says he cant consentrate, get me out of his head he even asked if i would tell him what time i would be in the supermarket just so he could see me.. does this sound like a man who is just using me for sex? we dont have sex everytime we mee alot of the time we just talk	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:49 #166 Quoting: Maati, Post #161 am a teacher myself. Fortunately, I teach in a private school in Warsaw plus I do other things apart from teaching. Some of my friends are teachers and teachers assistants in the UK. Obviously, it is a better job than cleaning but still, nothing special financialy. he isnt just a teacher and as u asked i told you	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:53 #167 Quoting: Maati, Post #164 I wish both of you good luck. You'll need it... you talk like this never has happened before, yes i hope he does send money to support his family what kind of man would he be if he didnt. we have only known each other 9 weeks its not gonna suddenly all stop	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:54 #168 Quoting: KUKULKA, Post #163 When he was talking about divorce didn't you pressure him for some asurance no its too soon i want him t make tha decision not me	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	Maati
	Jan 27, 07, 06:55 #169 Quoting: mobile, Post #154 yes he can speak perfect english he i a teacher at local school (maths and pe this is where i met him). I told you he can be even university professor with 5 degrees from Harvard University. It does not matter, as long as he's a Polish citizen working in your country... What he's telling you, it's typical, kind of romantic, women always fell for that...and Polish guys can be very, very romantic, but it does not mean anything. Did you hear about Slavic romantic soul?	Member Posts: 223 Joined: Nov 4, 06

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:55 #170 Quoting: Ranj, Post #162 Hey Kuk, it takes 2 to tango---he's a grown man and if he had any sense of integrity, it wouldn't matter how lonely he got. i think we are wasting our time everyone seems to have made there mind up. he isnt lonely he has many friends	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:56 #171 Quoting: Maati, Post #169 told you he can be even university professor with 5 degrees from Harvard University. It does not matter, as long as he's a Polish citizen working in your country... What he's telling you, it's typical, kind of romantic, women always fell for that...and Polish guys can be very, very romantic, but it does not mean anything. Did you hear about Slavic romantic soul? everybody is different maybe we are meant to be	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	Amathyst
	Jan 27, 07, 06:57 #172 They're adults and have their own minds, he's the guilty one, she's not in a relationship and if he is a P.E. / maths teacher he is earning circa. 30k so I dont think he needs any financial help either, matti, if he's been away from Poland for 2.5 years then what does that say for his marriage, you also make out that this guy is using her, why does that have to be the case, can it not just be he is in love with her or is that hard for you to understand....as for Polish guys not getting in to relationships with other women other than Polish women this is rubbish, what about the Polish women in relationships with other men.....just like yourself!	Member Posts: 1929 Joined: Nov 10, 06

	Maati
	Jan 27, 07, 06:57 #173 Friends don't give him sex and "feminine" emotional support. It's obvious...	Member Posts: 223 Joined: Nov 4, 06

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:58 #174 Quoting: Maati, Post #173 Friends don't give him sex and "feminine" emotional support. It's obvious... yes but its not all about sex we do really like each other if it was just sex then i wouldnt bother	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 06:59 #175 Quoting: Amathyst, Post #172 They're adults and have their own minds, he's the guilty one, she's not in a relationship and if he is a P.E. / maths teacher he is earning circa. 30k so I dont think he needs any financial help either, matti, if he's been away from Poland for 2.5 years then what does that say for his marriage, you also make out that this guy is using her, why does that have to be the case, can it not just be he is in love with her or is that hard for you to understand....as for Polish guys not getting in to relationships with other women other than Polish women this is rubbish, what about the Polish women in relationships with other men.....just like yourself! i couldnt have put it better myself	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	KUKULKA [Guest]
	Jan 27, 07, 06:59 #176 it is not about not having friends but missing closeness of another person hugs, kisses, warmth..you will give it to him for a little while...	Guest

	Amathyst
	Jan 27, 07, 07:03 #177 Quoting: mobile, Post #175 i couldnt have put it better myself I have my moments Besides I dont think all this bashing is right, they are judging you, what about him??? As for all this he is using you rubbish, it sounds like he is very smitten and only time will tell what the outcome will be...good luck	Member Posts: 1929 Joined: Nov 10, 06

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 07:04 #178 Quoting: KUKULKA, Post #176 it is not about not having friends but missing closeness of another person hugs, kisses, warmth..you will give it to him for a little while... so u also think its not possible for us to actually fall in love	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

	Amathyst
	Jan 27, 07, 07:04 #179 BTW, maybe his wife is up to the same thing back in Poland, you know all those hugs and kisses and warmth you cant get of your friends!	Member Posts: 1929 Joined: Nov 10, 06

	mobile
	Jan 27, 07, 07:05 #180 Quoting: Amathyst, Post #177 Besides I dont think all this bashing is right, they are judging you, what about him??? As for all this he is using you rubbish, it sounds like he is very smitten and only time will tell what the outcome will be...good luck i know i am not stupid we are as bad as each other its not just sex on either part he is smitten bless him and we both hate the situation but its too soon to try and sort it	Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 26, 07

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