having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child)

i'm 26 :-)

I'm 37 and married. Want to date?
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Just kidding.. I'm not really married

thats funny

Its not that big an age gap, they're both adults...

age aint nothing but a number

first, you have to ask your self mobile, do you really love him or only passion?? no body fault in this case...but he is not good man... how he guarantee you that he doesn't love his wife...?? don't waste your time for the guy like him... there is someone you deserve happy with... may take time..but all decision depend on you... coz only ourself who know very well what really make us happy.....wish you luck...

Why does anyone actually give a toss what this woman is doing.....and why the hell would anyone post such a thing on a forum, I wonder how this Polish guy would react if he knew his life was being spoken about in such a way!!! Just let her get on with it!

I always said that when my wife turned 40, I was going to trade her in for 2 20yr olds girls

If he cheats on his wife that is his problem, not yours - but it shows that he is not to be trusted and that may affect you .............. please listen to my advice , drop him and find a man who is unattached , you deserve to be with someone who is available and wants ONLY YOU !! I am an English woman in Trowbridge seeking to meet a Polish guy with handsome dark looks - but he must be single with no wife or children !

very funny WOOF WOOF !!

Usually, Polish guys have "light looks". Many of them. What do you mean by dark looks ?

the ones i notice have light looks too (and i have noticed quite a few and some catch my eye more than others ) but i have never noticed a polish man that looked dark in complexion at all

My father has quite dark complexion( for Polish standards ) but green eyes and blond hair at the same time... I haven't noticed Polish guys with dark looks. Maybe she met people from South of Europe and she has taken them for Poles. (?)

I think I must have the right country?????? !!!- there are lots of Polish people here in Wiltshire and not many other Europeans the guys that have caught my eye are the little ones with dark brown eyes and hair but they have pale skin complexion . ...........But it is not just looks , is it ? - The few Polish men I have met have been intelligent and polite and hardworking and that character is what appeals to me........

Ok, Gaby, Good For You!
Good Luck Then!

They all are .... one i like and i have two pic's taken different times of the year feb 2006 and sept 2006 (this one i even got to take twice as he turned round and said 24hrs after it was taken .. and it hadnt turned out brill ... oh no no no you cant have that you will have to take it again ... what a sweetie .. now i am resigned to the fact that i have lost contact with him and i cant trace him anyway .. the shame)

after reading all this, what goes around.. comes around, tell us sometime later in life how does it feel when someone cheat on you mobile ;> have fun^^

GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP!!! HAVE SOME RESPECT!!! Imagine how would you feel if your husband went out of the country to bring bread on the table and you found out he was cheating on you. You must stop seeing him, and you must also force him to stop seeing you and return to his wife and daughter finally!!! If he was married for 13 years his daughter is a pre-teen not a teenager she is mostly likely a 11 or 12 year old girl who needs an outstanding male role model and having you around ruins that, so just STAY AWAY!!!! It sickens me how people have no respect for themselves or for others. Maybe perhaps you are with him because the sex is great and so is the money, but as a women respect and honor should come above everything else.

maxine

Just another kurwa..hope you get caught!!!!
HOMEWRECKER

Its called Adultery. Didnt you learn that in church?
Or the rules dont apply to you????????

She sounds like a piece of rubbish

It's not right for him to be doing that ... and it's not right for you to support it. Think of the way it's making YOU look towards other people ... at the very least, think of the way it will affect the child.

If "your" guy doesn't love his wife, he should leave her ... It's not fair for the wife and child to be in this situation.

havent been around here for a few weeks so have only just come across this thread... I just wanted to say that some people on here are incredibly judgemental, perhaps based upon their own experiences in life.. but everyone is different and what is right for some is not right for others.. i'm not saying having an affair with a married man is a great thing to do, but sometimes these things happen and it if wasnt her, it would have been someone else.. and I feel Mobile has taken quite a bashing for this. I dont mind admitting that I too am having an affair with a married man (polish).. he left his wife for me and we have been together for 2 years. His wife lives in London and still wants him to go back and his family wont speak to him unless he does... but he chooses to be with me as we are in love. Im not saying this to brag, merely to lend some moral support to someone in a similar situation. So, maybe this guy will leave his wife and maybe he wont, but it takes two to tango.. so dont be laying all the blame on this girl.

Ok. I`M Polish man, she was German (she had the bigest green eyes I ever seen and lovest smile). She was 15 years yonger. (My son was 10 years younger than her). **** happens. ...When she wanted me to declare I want to be with her to the rest of my life, I was seeing me, the old one (needs glasses to read a paper) and her needs an active man... It was 2 years ago. I still dream about her lips and eyes...

AAH DEARY DEARY DEARY ME
mobile i can understand how your feeling and i can understand other peoples ways of thinking also
mate, stop what your doing honey, i can see this turning into ww3 in the end
he will manipulate and play your head making out that you could be the one for him lalalala then ditch you with an aching heart, he might go back with his wife or he might be going with her you and other woman..how would u know?..the last thing you want is to be riddled with std's and sti's even if you use condoms, if you have oral sex you can still catch stuff...just be careful my dear
why should you be chained to his tail end? and be lumbered with all these issues
your gonna get hurt and screwed up
you sound like a lovely girl who has her heart,hopes, mind in the wrong place at the wrong time
i wish you the best of luck with this cause at the end of the day,the ball is in your coart

sapphire, who isnt judgemental on this planet? youve been there? ive been there shes been there everyones been there
i agree with what your saying saff, and yeah everyones experience is different from others, thats human nature..... people do judge

I think mobile needs to keep her mind open and alert for any new changes
and try not to get involved untill she knows where she stands and so on.

good luck on the both of u and u mobile

thanks mate... are you Scottish?

GOOD LUCK to ypu MOBILE...I DO believe you guys actually feel in LOVE and this guy seems to be a good intelligent man...and he is gooood in BED as I understand...CONGRATS to you and I am POLISH myself living in the US. I could be a witness to your marriage if you so desire.....))) GREETINGS to YOU AND YOUR POLISH LOVER.)))

hi i hadnough of bashings o i didntvisit this site for a while. sorry to all the people who hate me and i wishi never met this guy but its too late now