Help me! I fell in love with a Polish man!

HAHA no way! Probably he is not from my city. Why should I do so? I can help you, he wouldn't know who is calling him in email, I can get his GG number talk to him and know something more for you, the only one problem is how to start talk to him. Maybe I will ask something about UK - is there a job, etc. I'm not sure if he will be willing to talk to me on GG, cuz peoples don't talk to strangers very often but at least I can try. My email is This: pavka_koper@yahoo.co.uk and you can download GG communicators: http://download.gadu-gadu.pl/gg76.exe - this is the only way to contact to him via net communicator. well you can try my help, right know I have a lot of time so I can do something to help you.

I am sorry to be so defensive. That is a very kind offer.

okay - what do i do first??
I am on Apple Mac - not sure if this download will work. What is it for exactly anyway?

Give me his email, I will write to him, You have only his email, so this is the only way to start, you can write to me in email his email: pavka_koper@yahoo.co.uk and I have to think what write in this email that he will not think this email is a spam.

If you really love him, how come your belief is so weak that you will bring the topic in here. Here lives many kind of men and women. Some are innocent, some are pigs (and ms. pigs), some are polish cakes baked in USA oven, some are people who just cannot stick with one person.

Everyone views the world with their own eyes. Every Individual is carrying a unique picture of this world. Some are bad, others are worse, few are good to learn from.

For example:
I know a POLISH woman (a widow) of around 80 yrs of age. Her POLISH husband died in a road accident when she was 43!! She has a son and a daughter. She stayed his widow, she raised her children well. And her children are remarkable human beings with wonderful warm family lives. They are a family whose presense makes people believe in real love. So I love this family! Some may find their attitudes towards life very poor! Some might even feel that they are DOGS. It depends on people's thought.
But the important thing is that they are all happy and healthy. They have their own lives. They take the decision that gives them comfort in all respects. Now this family is not very religious...very rare in churches!

I know another women (my friends mom), who have married 1 man (and divorces), and by now has lived with 3 different men. She is now again looking. She is around 40. Her husband used to be better than the rest of her boyfriends (as my friend says, about her dad). However, she felt she found her real love with another man...and so on...etc. But, didnt work out later. So this lady is a strict Catholic, and a strong Polish Nationalist. She also brought up her children (with the help of her x-husband in many major financial matters). Her children are wonderful and intelligent people.
I personally have no wish to have a life like her (or be in any kind of love with a lady like her). It doesnt mean that I dont respect her (its my opinion).
But some people would do everything what she has done in life, because they might find it more logical. Some can have a different explanation of love and relationship. Some might even despise this life.

We all have various opinions. They might not (or might) give you any help. Out of this many views on the same topic...how will you choose?... Everyone will give a good presentation...because they follow that (and they feel confident about that).

One way is to talk with the PERSON INVOLVED. Dont think about anyone here, or that: MEN ARE PIGS, WOMEN SHOULD KEEP LOOKING, BE ALONE BETTER, GET KICKED AND CHEATED BY THE MAN AND STILL BE WITH HIM!!.... Just go ahead, see what kind of man he really is, talk with him, meet any relatives he has. Get married! Go home, and then disscuss some topics in computer or with friends (not being influenced by any of them). Only then you can have a happy life.

Happy New Year ...And in my next talk i will propose my Japanese Girl friend...and i care less of the MYTHS of humanity...

Is it a chatting, Instant meenger? I think I already have this on Adium

rowan

ICQ Number: 374-985-425
Nickname: Koper

this is my ICQ details, so we can talk.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gadu_Gadu

Click on this side and You will know what this is : Gadu Gadu, I can assure you 100% that if he has a internet he has GG online all the time when he is on his computer.

Yes you have this on ADIUM so now You will have to wait for my work to figured his number as im saying if he has internet all the time at home.

I have sent you an email.

I have to go and take the dog for a walk now. Will try and configure you in Aduim later.

Ok thanks now I'm going offline and maybe be back in couple of hours. I have some ideas how to make he will respond and how to get the gg number, see you. Now I'm off line for some time.

guys are everywhere the same. They never call. Sometimes I'm wondering what they are doing with phone numbers, just collecting, or what? why they are taking nubers if they are not going to call??

but hey rowan, take a time.. even though that it's very easy here to fix the comp, we still have christmas break. till tomorrow. as I told you before. wait one week more, after that if he dont write or call, forget him

This is hateful feministic chuvanism...

Well...certainly its a personal opinion...based on a lot of pain....by the sound of it......pity...

rowan,

I can understand how you fell in love with him because Polish men are irresistible. But it doesn't make sense to have someone try to find him for you like Babylon offered. If you saw that he had feelings for you, then he probably did. But obviously there are reasons he hasn't responded to your emails and his privacy should be respected.

I think shewolf is right. If he has feelings for u, she will contact with u, but then when he realize that u ask sobody to find him u will look a bit silly..

Thanks Shewolf and Kaka. I feel quite a lot more realistic about stuff now and really quite angry about the confused sexual morals.
Will post agian if anything miraculous happens!

Well Ok, I have send one email to him, probably he will not respond, and i'm not going to sent another one like Rowan said, so good luck Rowan!

So now we have 16 year old (Kitten) and 38 years old (Rowan). Both in a polish man.
I hope it all turns out fine!

BOTH IN LOVE IN A POLISH MAN!

Polish men have a way of casting women of all ages under a spell.

a virgin in his twenties make a judgement on a 38years old woman.

he is 16 or 20?, and she is 38!!??....if so... its disgrace .... first time i say....Polish should really be against it!

NIE!!! Rafik was quoting the post from a young guy called UK who told me, from his wealth of experience, that i had made a mistake and then insulted me with his next question.
The polish man iofell in love with was also in his 30's. But thankyou for your long story yesterday. To answer your question, Lonewolf, the reason i 'bring it in here' is that i suspected i had offended the morals of Polish man by responding to his desire and as i don't know any Polish people I thought i'd go to Polish forum. If i could speak to the man in question i would but i can't - because he won't answer my emails.

Rafuk - thankyou very much for your post.

Eurola - we are both inlove WITH Polish men !!! hahahah!!

sorry - i mean Rafik

What if she were 40 and he was 25 and not a virgin, is it still a disgrace?

Very true statement backed up from a english female who fell for the personality and looks of a polish lad and nothing materalised not even a phone call ... oh has my number etc ... but ... but ... he allowed me to take a picture of him on my mobile phone not once but twice as the first time it never turned out and he went oh no no no you cant have a pic like that, so i said can i take another one then and surprisely he did let me!!!

Wow

Would you have said that this is quite surprising of a polish male to allow the pic taken or did you mean it saracastically Grzegorz? lol.
As i was quite surprised that he let me take the picture in first place

OH wow... you can just keep trying that is my advice!!! as well