Hey 23yrs african male in ukraine looking for polish females as friends

hi am looking for english speaking polish girls to be friends with, penpal, chatmates and all,all interested should please email me on bignsirim@yahoo.com

Czesc bignsirim,

I am sure you will find a quite a few replies to your post.. I hope you are enjoying the Ukraine...as its a nice country and far more welcoming than Russia to coloured people. I am am sorry but I am not Polish girl but an Indian male so dont expect an email from me. However, a couple of questions come to mind and thought you might help out in explaining it to me.

First,, You did not explain why you want to make friends with a Polish girl ???

Secondly, why an ENGLISH SPEAKING one....why not just get Anglophone pen pals from the Anglosphere countries..eg UK/USA

Thirdly,, what is wrong with the Ukrainian girls ? I have a Ukrainian friend myself and she is very nice.

and finally, aren't there enough ethnic Polish girls in Western Ukraine..eg in Lvov and other cities... to meet up and practice your Polish/ English ?


Anyways a lot of Eastern European women find dark skinned men attractive....which i why a lot of them marry Turks, Arabs Indians and Africans. So give the Ukrainian lasses a closer look. Good luck in your life and studies...as I assume you are studying in the Ukraine.

Czesc

When you have spent all your money on ukrainian girls,polish girls will be a good alternative.Bignsirim cares for the future.

that isnt quite true, but turks/arabs/indians like to think so.



ouch, somebody sounds bitter here.

u mean, we're cheaper? ;P

Perhaps he means that you must always save the best for last?



No it is just Southern being Southern

Ukrainian girls accuse you of that.You lower the price of women in the market(opposite tendency from russian girls).

yet still, we get accused of being gold diggers. its a mad cirlce.

Czech,russian and ukrainian girls are accused of being gold diggers.You are accused of being cheap which I find absurd.Men being sad because they do not have to pay.

Anyway I find a lot of similarities between polish and ukrainian girls.I would prefer ukrainian for fun and polish for long term relationship.

cheap isnt exactly what i, for example, would like to be called. i have never demanded of any man to pay for me, and if they would offer id turn them down. in a relationship i like to share the cost of things etc so its not just the bloke spending his hard earned money. that is not being cheap, that is having some self respect.

Yes but the russian girl thinks how will I ask for a present if this stupid polish girl gives it for free?
That is why I like polish girls.You have honest attitude.

Czesc JustysiaS,

Just to clarify what I meant...when I made the comment earlier.

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Quoting: Indya
a lot of Eastern European women find dark skinned men attractive....which i why a lot of them marry Turks, Arabs Indians and Africans


Quoting:JustysiaS that isnt quite true, but turks/arabs/indians like to think so.



If you look at the figures of Turks, Arabs and Muslim males from the Indian subcontinent, you will a high per centage of them marry European women. Hindu males are bit more focussed on marrying Hindu girls from India to preserve their ancient culture.. I think its because you cannot convert to Hinduism but must be born a Hindu.

So if 60 percent of the non Caucasian foreign males you meet here have married with local woman in Europe...that is large number...compared to European colonists intermarrying with natives in Asia or Africa in the good old days of the Empire.

of course it always easiest and best to marry someone from your own cultural, linguistic, religious and socio economic group..as this makes it easier to deal with other common marital issues. When there is a cross cultural partnership..then the couple have additional pressures on the human relationship.

I also admit that not every European woman is attracted to dark skinned men... actually its the other way around..most of them are actually repulsed or frightened by them. As mentioned in an earlier post, the ones who cross the lines are frequently the young and bold... who wish to experiment or merely escape their present reality...once European women are in their mid twenties..have a secure job and become rooted to a place..they seek partners similar to themselves.

I am dark skinned Indian man... and lived in Asia for a decade before I moved to Europe. I noticed that even Asian women seemed anxious or repulsed when approaching dark skinned men from the Indian subcontinent. 10 years later I observed the same thing in Europe as older women and pensioners seemed either uneasy or troubled when they observed me approaching from the opposite direction.

Mind you I am a pleasant faced brown I suppose guy with a good job and look very upper middle class in Europe... and so it cant be ascribed to the fact that I might be a vagrant illegal immigrant . This is just social conditioning and we must learn to factor it in when we deal with people less socially exposed than ourselves. I noticed that once you start working with these people and interacting with them.... then they lose their fear and treat you like a normal person.

The only exception to this Dreaded Darkman Syndrome seem to American ladies and most female Britons. I have studied in American schools and worked with Britons so I am basing my observation on that.

Hope you are not offended again...Justysias

Whoops..there I go on ranting again... actually I am looking forward to meeting my new Polish friends again this weekend for darts and beers... Thats the cure for all this weird racial stuff..most of us just want to get on with our lives and have a good time.

Czesc

if you expect getting presents for sha*ging somebody then seriously, you are a sl*t. a decent woman, polish or not, will not demand gifts or money for sex. sex is a part of a relationship, not the way of getting presents.

Slavic women prefer white males.Western women also.The same is true for latin and asian women.All prefer white caucasian men in general.
On the continent we have three variations.Western-germanic,slavic and mediterranean variation of caucasians.The big conflic is what variation is more popular among slavic women(the ones generally preferred by all male variations).

In russian culture giving presents is part of generosity,necessary for girls' generosity in love and physical relationships.They do not regard it as wh#re mentality.
In polish culture girls view it morally degrading to accept presents.I do not disagree.

that is very true, presents are just a bonus. doesnt make Polish women cheap. well if thats what happens in Russia, no wonder Polish girls are more popular. if gifts are "necessary" in order to have a sex life with a Russian gilr, its almost like having a prostitute you have to pay for instead of a girlfriend/wife.

Pros are actually cheaper.

probably. and you dont have to put up with them 24/7, just give 'em a call when you need them.

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Some interesting opinions from ukrainian girl Nataliya about cheapness of polish girls.

can u post the url again, that link doesnt work...

Yes,they know exactly what is needed and what is not.(by men).
I corrected the URL.Now it opens.

well well, ukrainians the only true East-Europeans. thats funny. so what is so special about the ukrainian girls?

You would know if you had met them.

well i havent, so why dont you enlighten me a little

Too much eye candy.Beautiful girls on high heels and sparse clothes.It is like model parade.
If all polish girls started wearing super mini skirts,blouses or tops with big cleavages and high heels,they would resemble ukrainian beauty.In terms of bed qualifications they play in the same category.

sounds like sl*ts and exhibitonists parde to me... thats not beauty. that is CHEAP.

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Some devushka style fashion from Kiev in September.

its like wanting to get raped/stalked if a girl goes out like that... dont wanna think what they put on when they go clubbing... not much i guess.

Very interesting.