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BubbaWoo
  Oct 9, 07, 10:47  #331

Quoting: jareck
you are not looking at this logically and that it is scary? you are using emotions based on your compassion to a fellow man which is good but for the greater scoiety it is not.. if the system of homo behaviour was natural then the world would be different... if we look at natural selection then hetro behaviour will supercede...


what you consider logic is really scary

but youre only young, arent you?

 
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Ranj
Edited by: Ranj  Oct 9, 07, 13:21  #332

Quoting: jareck
i appreciate that peopel can do what they like bu the poor inocent child needs the love of a mother who can breastfeed,

So are you making the argument that a woman who cannot have a child of her own, should not be allowed to adopt a child, just because she cannot breastfeed? Keep in mind, many mother's who give birth don't breast feed or are unable to for various reasons.....are you saying a child is only truly loved if they have been breast fed? What a crock!!!!

 
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Ranj
  Oct 10, 07, 07:47  #333

Quoting: esmoczynski
Why are there no Polish gay bars in Chicago? Do gay Polish men avoid gathering so they cannot be identified as gay? My guess for a partial explanation is that many are married and have children. Any thoughts?

That's an interesting question and observation.....

 
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jareck [Guest]
  Oct 10, 07, 07:55  #334

Quoting: Ranj
So are you making the argument that a woman who cannot have a child of her own, should not be allowed to adopt a child, just because she cannot breastfeed? Keep in mind, many mother's who give birth don't breast feed or are unable to for various reasons.....are you saying a child is only truly loved if they have been breast fed? What a crock!!!!

no you are reading ebtween the lines, i was expalinging the entire system a man and woman exchange things this results in somethign else etc etc.. woman have been gifted with the ability to feed their child this is what i ma saying that men cannot? everyhting needs to be looked at in a whole. there are many woman who cannot breastfeed i acknowldge that.
Quoting: BubbaWoo
what you consider logic is really scary

its easy to look at ings not in perspective and in half, life is more then just 'romping' around for 2 men, becasue if you assess research you will see the dangers of this type of behaviour. its early days now and people are in this all free mood love fore all etc but when it comes down to the crunch whats right and wrong will conintue. anal sex is not feasible.. ic an send soem research if you please.
in terms for women - emotionally they require sexual satisfaction, whic can be achieved with the help fo a mans private parts, dont think about these artiifcial toys.. if you look at sex in details its more then just a 'quickie' the real satisfaction comes with the true love you have fo your partner.. naturally since the creation of this earth there must have been men and women for it to survive, if there were always 2 men n women then the world would never have continued.

 
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Polson
Edited by: Polson  Oct 10, 07, 08:00  #335

Quoting: jareck
naturally since the creation of this earth there must have been men and women for it to survive, if there were always 2 men n women then the world would never have continued


There are enough women/men couples in this world, to let some men/men or women/women couples live ;)
Plus, we think that the world is going to be overpopulated within a century, and not enough food for all !! So it's a "chance" there are homosexuals to limit the amount of new borns each year ! LOL

 
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jareck [Guest]
  Oct 10, 07, 08:03  #336

Quoting: Polson
There are enough women/men couples in this world, to let some men/men or women/women couples live ;)

thats justified it - straignht to the point, i ilike it!
Quoting: Polson
going to be overpopulated

well maybe you should visit quebec in canada lovely place,, needs a few extra heads..
actually canada is a very beautiful country well worth a visit, i would like to drive from west to east supposed to be very scenic

 
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BubbaWoo
  Oct 10, 07, 08:06  #337

Quoting: jareck
if you assess research you will see the dangers of this type of behaviour.


exactly what sort of research are you reading...?

Quoting: jareck
its early days now and people are in this all free mood love fore all etc but when it comes down to the crunch whats right and wrong will conintue


early days of what - homosexuality...?

hardly... go and do some proper research

 
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jareck [Guest]
  Oct 10, 07, 08:23  #338

Quoting: BubbaWoo
exactly what sort of research are you reading...?

i have journals on another machine will forward it to you sir,
Quoting: BubbaWoo
early days of what - homosexuality...?

hardly... go and do some proper research

the dangers of anal sex have not been ecamined as they are today, yes peopel have commtied this act, doesnt mean that its right.. what i am saying is that with the advancement we have we can understand the risks of certain behaviours more physical, emotional and social.

 
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Polson
  Oct 10, 07, 08:27  #339

If 2 people of the same sex love each other, what could you tell them ? It's love, there is no weird love, so let them live their own way of life ;) I don't care !

 
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jareck [Guest]
  Oct 10, 07, 08:34  #340

Quoting: Polson
If 2 people of the same sex love each other, what could you tell them ? It's love, there is no weird love, so let them live their own way of life ;) I don't care !

i could not agree more, the danger is as humans we someitmes misunderstand what is right and wrong, what would you say if someone said i love my dog and i mean proeprly love like they say i have dreams about it and i want to live my life with my dog only........ you would say i think not' becasue this is unatural, the reason you know it is unatrula becasue firstly no one does it, secondly its hard for the love to sustainas it will be one sided and secondly one elemant of love is to fulfil ones sexual needs and this will be difficult.

now if we look at the relationship between man and woman we see they have different physical features, different mental apporach. they are equal but in soemthings they are different.. the difference is what makes them compatible.... like two magnets N & S atteracts.
now thing of 2 men they ahve smae physicla body many similar emotional traits the love will always be there but incomplete..

to be honest peopel are free to choose what hey want.. but rememebr we will be responibsle for our actions in this world and the hereafter

 
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Polson
Edited by: Polson  Oct 10, 07, 08:50  #341

Quoting: jareck
its hard for the love to sustainas it will be one sided and secondly one elemant of love is to fulfil ones sexual needs and this will be difficult.


Homosexuals love each other, it's not one sided love...
I guess you're right about sexual needs, even though there are people that do it... *_* LoL

You are straight, so you can't understand homosexuals maybe, i'm straight too, but i think there are no risk in letting them live their life, and us our own, we can all live together, independantly of what we like or love ;)

 
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jay uk
  Oct 10, 07, 09:50  #342

I have always thought if you and that person love each other and it doesn't involve anyone else,does it really matter if your gay,straight or lesbian....
What harm can it do?
If the feelings you have for each other is strong enough and genuine,it makes you stronger and you dont care what people think.

 
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Polson
  Oct 10, 07, 09:54  #343

Quoting: jay uk
I have always thought if you and that person love each other and it doesn't involve anyone else,does it really matter if your gay,straight or lesbian....
What harm can it do?
If the feelings you have for each other is strong enough and genuine,it makes you stronger and you dont care what people think.


Exactly jay uk ;) Thanks

 
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Lukasz
Edited by: Lukasz  Oct 10, 07, 09:55  #344

as to opinion pools

there was a question If gay should have the right to marry another gay

and answers
defiantely yes
rather yes
rather no
definately no
I dont know

ereggdf

so in Poland the debate is rather about their status in society, than if it is normal/sick ...

 
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Polson
  Oct 10, 07, 09:58  #345

very mixed opinions, right...

 
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jay uk
  Oct 10, 07, 10:02  #346

Quoting: Polson
Exactly jay uk ;) Thanks

Thats ok,your very welcome :)

 
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jay uk
Edited by: jay uk  Oct 10, 07, 10:22  #347

Quoting: Lukasz
so in Poland we have rather debate about their status in society, than if it is normal/sick


Really? its abit like the English supposedly dont get on with the scottish but my mum and dad still got marrid and had 3 kids...and one of them was me !!

When my mum and dad found out about me,my mum cried,my dad was pissed off and my brother.....well...every time he came home drunk,he used to come into my room and beat the **** out of me and told me how much he hated me.I was 15 at the time and by this time my parents seperated and my mum had no control over him.
so i moved out.

so yes i have experienced the bad side too.When you dont have your family to be with,it is very tough.Unless you been there,you can never comprehend it.
I suppose i was brought up in a very homophobic family.
Just sharing my experience with you....i dont expect anyone to feel sorry for me. ok!!

Still speak to my sister though.

 
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Polson
  Oct 10, 07, 10:27  #348

Wow ! And have you still any link with your mom and dad ?...

 
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jareck [Guest]
  Oct 10, 07, 10:51  #349

Quoting: jay uk
When my mum and dad found out about me,my mum cried,my dad was pissed off and my brother.....well...every time he came home drunk,he used to come into my room and beat the **** out of me and told me how much he hated me.I was 15 at the time and by this time my parents seperated and my mum had no control over him.
so i moved out.

sorry to hear it my friend, violence is no solution to any problem,
i understand you have feelings but have you ever thought about contoling them, dont take it the wrong way, imagine the benefits of a family a mother and father and what they can offer to children and society as a whole, i will not say that having feelings for another man is wrong but it seems rather unnatural.
can you imagine if people who are aged 60 start claiming equal rights becasue they want to have sex with children, i know the situations are not so similar but it makes you think how far will we come from the boundaries, how much will we sacrifice in the name of freedom and materialism. please dont be offended... one should think of there life in this world and the real purpose, if life was just to enjoy on a material sense then the world is a bad place - there is so much inequlaity peopel dying of hunger in africa and india, we enjoy life in the west, becasue we do so through material means

 
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Lukasz
Edited by: Lukasz  Oct 10, 07, 10:54  #350

Quoting: jay uk
Really? its abit like the English supposedly dont get on with the scottish but my mum and dad still got marrid and had 3 kids...and one of them was me !!


I just wanted to show, about what we debate in Poland.


What is more gay parades which were very controversial at the beginning (stoped, baned, contr-manifested), this year were calm and succesful for gay/lesbian society in Poland. What you should notice: there are huge differencies in way of thinking betwen others parts of Poland and it is important as well ....

 
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Polson
  Oct 10, 07, 10:59  #351

Quoting: jareck
have you ever thought about contoling them


And you jareck, have you ever though about controlling your feelings about women ?...you don't understand that there are people that love men, as you love women... ;)

 
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jareck [Guest]
  Oct 10, 07, 11:01  #352

Quoting: Polson
And you jareck, have you ever though about controlling your feelings about women ?...you don't understand that there are people that love men, as you love women... ;)

i have indeed? bonjour.. the thing is that its innate to have feeligns for women vice verse fro women to have for men.. can i ask why is it then that some lesbian women become rather butch - act like a man.. and many people who call themselves gay act in a rather feminine manner

 
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Polson
Edited by: Polson  Oct 10, 07, 11:33  #353

Quoting: jareck
i have indeed? bonjour.. the thing is that its innate to have feeligns for women vice verse fro women to have for men.. can i ask why is it then that some lesbian women become rather butch - act like a man.. and many people who call themselves gay act in a rather feminine manner


Bonjour ;) We are an evolved species. At the beginning, men used to hunt and work, while women stayed home taking care of children. Now both men and women work and have the same rights. The time has changed, and people as well. You have to understand that feelings may be different from one person to another. I prefer a gay or a lesbian among my friends, than a serial killer ;P LoL

 
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jay uk
Edited by: jay uk  Oct 10, 07, 12:36  #354

Quoting: Polson
Wow ! And have you still any link with your mom and dad

I have not seen my dad since i was 8 years old but i still see my mum.
She is more accepting of it now but,she asked me is it just a phase im going through? but i told her that it wasnt and it is for real.

Im not bothered what my dad thinks because he used to hit her about when i was a kid.

Quoting: Lukasz
there are huge differencies in way of thinking betwen others parts of Poland and it is important as well


Its very similar in the UK.
Most people here are very accepting and most are just not bothered,its what you are as a person.
Of course,you do get the type that will dislike you,even though they can see that your ok as a person...as they dont know how to deal with it and thats when you can get trouble.
But i have never been beaten up or anyone trying to start trouble with me if i go to a night club or pub...but i know some that have.

 
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Polson
  Oct 10, 07, 12:48  #355

Quoting: jay uk
Im not bothered what my dad thinks because he used to hit her about when i was a kid


I understand, don't care about your father, you are much better than him ;)

 
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sapphire
  Oct 11, 07, 07:01  #356

thanks for sharing your experiences with us JayUK. I have lots of friends who have been through similar.. which is why I was making the point that most people would not choose to be gay, given the **** that they often have to deal with.. they just are. As for Jareck, I reckon he is in-line to become the next Jerry Springer.. I did see one once where a woman married a horse.

 
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jay uk
  Oct 11, 07, 08:52  #357

Quoting: Polson
I understand, don't care about your father, you are much better than him ;)

Thanks Polson thats very nice of you to say so :)


Quoting: sapphire
thanks for sharing your experiences with us JayUK. I have lots of friends who have been through similar.. which is why I was making the point that most people would not choose to be gay, given the **** that they often have to deal with.. they just are. As for Jareck, I reckon he is in-line to become the next Jerry Springer.. I did see one once where a woman married a horse.


I dont mind sharing my experiences and i appreciate that you and others,like to at least see the other side to the coin.
But i dont think being gay is a problem its the stereotyping and views of ignorance that causes the problem and its just a sexual preference which is so badly tainted especially if you have to deal with it in a deeply religious country....i dont want to remark about religion again,as i have done before on this thread,but it certainly doesnt help the situation.

For example....say it was straight and as my family is homophobic (apart from my sister) i would most probably be saying and believing the same garbage as the other homophobes and jumping on the bandwagon of "I hate gays"

Sometimes i am ashamed of being a christian because of the sheer hatred i can stir about something it doesnt approve of and this topic is one of them.
But i was born into a christian family (Church of England) so really,im ******** to speak.

 
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AvJoeUK [Guest]
  Oct 11, 07, 08:55  #358

Quoting: sapphire
I did see one once where a woman married a horse.


Hey Horses have feeling too ya know! :D

 
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sapphire
  Oct 11, 07, 08:59  #359

and very large wedding tackle too :)

 
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jay uk
  Oct 11, 07, 09:02  #360

Quoting: jareck
sorry to hear it my friend, violence is no solution to any problem,
i understand you have feelings but have you ever thought about contoling them, dont take it the wrong way, imagine the benefits of a family a mother and father and what they can offer to children and society as a whole, i will not say that having feelings for another man is wrong but it seems rather unnatural.
can you imagine if people who are aged 60 start claiming equal rights becasue they want to have sex with children, i know the situations are not so similar but it makes you think how far will we come from the boundaries, how much will we sacrifice in the name of freedom and materialism. please dont be offended... one should think of there life in this world and the real purpose, if life was just to enjoy on a material sense then the world is a bad place - there is so much inequlaity peopel dying of hunger in africa and india, we enjoy life in the west, becasue we do so through material means

Im just going to ignore this its not worth the proccesing power of my brain.
I assume your straight.....you must be to say something like that.
you have not offended.I just find your text abit patronising.

 
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