Quoting: NHQ, Post #6
i've learnt alot especially about myself since the split
That's the way life is. Years ago I tried to reconcile with my ex after she cheated on me but it was hopeless so I asked her to stop calling me. Eventually I got over her and started dating again. I must have gone a week straight without even thinking about her and she called me up out of the blue and ruined my day.
Work on yourself, not on your relationship. Women are attracted to confident men who will carry on with or without them. Women want to be wanted, not needed like mothers.