Quoting: wilson2008
used to have several polish fremale freinds from chicago
Aren't you in touch with any of them? You missed a big opportunity there. Ask yourself why?
You're 24 and thinking of getting married - and having children? You're rushing life, couldn't put it more simpler for you. First forge a successful career/business... reading in between your lines, I figure your dad's transportation is pretty much your dad's, so shouldn't you try and find a career for yourself first or focus your energy on developing your dad's business?
One observation about this generation of Polish girls: I've got a Polish girlfriend who's 22. I've met her friends at her university as well, and they're all career-focused, dynamic individuals. They hate to be seen as porcelain dolls, housewives, or breastfeeding mothers until they're about 29-32. So if you're throwing in the marriage bait, no one's gonna bite it - at least not in your age group! Check out a member named "Wsypianka". She's kinda represents the new generation confident Pole. And if you're trying to play the marriage and kids card with such as her... they'll roll it up and smoke it, or even worse, shove it up an orifice in your body.
Anyways, it's your life. Run it or gun it. It's up to you.