Is Indian/Polish relationship possible?

I am Afro-Asian. I have more indian blood in me and look more Indian I think than black. My boyfriend is Polish and he is the love of my life. An Indian/Polish relationship is 100% possible as is any combination of two different nationalities in this world. I think your remark about Polish women opening their legs when they are drunk is disgusting and totally disrespectful.

Hi, I'm Polish and my boyfriend is Malaysian-Indian.
We are together 1,5 year, living together for a year now. Some things were new to me:
He does meditate and light incense sticks in the house. (Which I think is cute.)
Takes care of his family- sends money every month, takes care of his sister's education etc. In Poland you should respect your parrents and help them but to certain extend- being a son responsible for the rest of the family is unusual.
He also eats meat, including bones- which was disgousting for me at the beginning, but love means compromises :)
One think I have to say is him being extremly clean- many Polish boys I know, haven't been bothered to shave every day or to use perfume, I know that everyone is different, and maybe I had bad luck with Polish guys, but here I see clear advantage.
Considering the alcohol /cigarettes/parties etc we have similar attitude- everything is for people, but you shouldn't make clown out of yourself when you've drunk too much.

I visited his family and obviously I haven't been drinking or smoking in front of them,(neither I exposed my tatoo) but I would take it for granted that from the respect to oloder people/parents many of you would do the same. BEHAVE!
Although I'm catholic and he is hindu, noone from, his family said anything against me or my religion. They were asking questions about how is it and how we do stauff, and I was asking back, so there was a lot of communication between us. (if anyone has any issues about the religion and customs, I'm happy to help).
He was in Poland as well, meeting all my family and again- a lot of communication between him and my parrents, sitblings and friends.
My mum and dad-especially thought that when we get merried he will take me to India (Malaysia) and introduce to his other five wives:), or that he will ask me to stop working and to become a housewife etc... so Imagine how did I feel introducing him on christmass time. But, I can't stress enough... COMMUNICATION is the key, he talked a lot with my dad -who speaks broken English, and with the rest of the family and they got along well. So well, that now my mum asks me when we finally get married:)
To sum up- there is many differences but if both sides want to be cooperaqte and communicate - everything will be all right

why wouldn't it be? highly likely, maybe not, but possible, yes absolutely

Everything's possible as long as you want to ;)

You sound like a pseudo. Their is no real certain extent. Poland is not the U.S. where the kids let their parents whither away. My Polish gf cares for her family alot. Their is no limit as long as they love her.

You obviouly are a disgrace to India or really dark skinned almost black Indian. I dated many Polish, Indian, Czech, Slovak, Russian, Ukranian, Brazilian, and Latin girls. Even my Indian friends have said Polish girls make or made better girfriends then Indian women.

Guess what the Polish girls were the MOST loyal. Indian girls were good, but some of them were as bad as the American women and were looking only at my wallet.

Polish girls are a billion times hotter then U.S. women. Also Polish girls are alot hotter then Indian women.

Polish girls know how to kiss and they are great when they go for my ear.

i am wondering what is it in the poland that makes the women specifically 'hotter' and 'better' then other women,

is it the food? the way the mum gives birth, the way the child is concieved, the schooling, the dress code, the pierogi, the christmas celebration, the alchohol,

i am just trying to work this out.. it will help us to genetically engineer women that fulfil the polish criteria

Its not too difficult. Most of the women in Poland realize that in order to be a real woman they must be hot and have values.

Also Poland is not like the U.S. Not everyone ownes a car. Public transporatation forces many people to walk. Simple walking burns calories. Yes and they smoke, but thats balanced by the fact that they excecise alot.

Also they dont have the vast amount of fast food we have. Even then, fast food franchises offer more localized meals.

And again the portions of food are small and not big like a tank.

to uk
sorry foe late response..but isnt eastham pakistani area as far as i now all this including green street rorest gate romford road and ilford is pakis so shut up ghanduuuu

Dziękuję. That was very nicely said.
I, as a Polish girl don't drink, don't smoke, don't "spread my legs around". I value my morality and go to church. I appreciate what I have or don't have and respect the guys.
I don't care about money because you can't take it with you.
There are all kinds of girls everwhere in the world. It doesn't matter what country.
It depends on the person and how she was brought up in the society and family.
There will be bad apples everywhere.

True.

Polish girls rarely become amerianized aka feminazis unless they are one of the few ugly ones.

I am sure you are also hot as well. I dated all types of hot girls, and the Polish ones had the best combination of hotness, brains, and trad values.

Very few bad Polish girls I ran into, and they generally were the ugly type.

as for U.S. anglo women, most are bad apples.

hi guys im new to this,im looking for a polish girl to maybe ,marry if things are right.i have never dated one but see many of them around where iwork,my cousins have married polish girls,i think polish and indians(not muslims) can mix and marry because we have the same family values and out look on life,i find them very attractive could any body tell me how to approach one or go about dating one???

anything is possible between sanes... impossible between insanes

We are all semi circles floating along the cosmic path of life. Ever so rarely we meet another semi circle whose circumference may be bigger or smaller than our own.

The one with the bigger circumference needs to sacrifice or shed some of his or her attributes to shrink in size to fit the semi circle with the smaller circumference. While the smaller semi circle, needs to make efforts to gain or augment some attributes in order to increase in size to fit the bigger semi circle.

So as the bigger one sacrifices and the smaller one enhances itself, there will come a time when both semi circles have the exact same circumference. That's when they become soulmates and form the perfect circle.

Until then, we just go about in circles. The bottom line - if you're not with a soulmate, you're just with an ass0le, who is too selfish to sacrifice or too lazy to enhance oneself.

Another bottom line - Polish women have an inner beauty that is more intense than their good looks. My advice to Indian men - romance the beauty within her, and be honest with your Polish girl - earn her respect before you earn her love.

hippy

whats ur problem with polish girl???r u ever refused from anyone?everybody is human being.u talking about bin.r u ever visit poland.i did ,i visit ur london aswell.according to london all poland is 100 times clean and tidy.if u dnt belive me go and have a look.

hmmmmmmmmm have you been playing in the condoms again ?? lmao

sorry admin, I had to say that.. Naughty me..

Czesc people,

just wanted to toss my two bit here. I am an Indian and I live in smaller city in northern Poland.. I went out clubbing last night and met 4 Polish girls who danced with me and gave me their REAL mobile numbers to call again. I have also been to other Polish cities and met some other absolutely fabulous other girls. I also met 2 Polish blokes who came over and had a long chat with me in broken English and one helpful young lad who actually tried to make me go along with him and dance with some lovely girls. I had to decline however.

My point is that Poles are very open and hardly racist at all. At best I would think they are either curious about people who are different from them as they have not travelled as widely as Westerners or sometimes they feel apprehensive as they don't know what is expected of them in such crosscultural social situations.

Mind you I am rather dark looking Indian bloke and I have been clubbing in European bars for a long time I very rarely experience racism and people are generally very kind and polite and want to know more about India. I do get the odd dunken and sullen guy who moans about how we only like blonde and blue eyed Polish girls and some other silly stuff. but meeting 2 such twats in every 550 Poles is a very good ratio.

I think Indian Polish relationships are very possible if the Indian partnber is willing to try and remember that his Polish partner is not a sex object but real human beling trying hard to bridge culture, colour and convention to discover a fellow human in him. I have met a lot of cross cultural partnerships in the course of my travels and I think the fundmental attribute needed is a desire to discover good in the other partner and also ensure their happiness. Also dont sweat on the small stuff as the couple must climb out of their own nativecultures and work out Third Culture rules that will guide their relationship. Love is hard work....so they should keep on working at their communication.

Indians watch out for sterotyping Polish girls and our respect Polish friends, please dont box us in either.

Good luck to all the others in cross cultural relationships.
catch you guys soon

Aw gee,

I am so ashamed as I just went back and read my post and noted the typographical errors.. it just because I type with 2 fingers and not too familiar with the keyboard layout.

I promise to proof read my next post a couple of time before I submit it. Though I hope grab the essence of what i meant to say..despite my frequent long tirade...share your comments and thoughts.

czesc

Though I hope you grab the essence of what I meant to say..despite my frequent long tirades...Pls do share your comments and thoughts. Enjoy your Sunday evening.
Czesc

why some of u indians termiante pregnancy when u find out its gonna be a girl?

hi tarek
i read about ur post of jan yes ur obsolutely right about pakis and their attitude
not all pakis r same but most of them. i appreciate that u know the truth about them.

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hi halloween

not all indians terminate babygirls in pregnancy some who r not that matured and educated. only some fools do that but most of them dont care i mean the present generation.

hi kunalchoski

happy to hear this even i am same like u married to polish girl as u said they can adjust anywhere.

Yes Halloween,

It was a big problem some 5 -10years ago when it was discoverd that there was widespread infanticide in a couple of North Indian states. This is because many poorer Hindu familes did not want to have daughters as the financial burden of marrying them off was too great. I think that you must be aware that the familes of Hindu brides must pay a dowry to the groom's family. Hindus comprise some 79 percent of India's population.

But it has been banned by the Union govt since the late 90s and its currently illegal to abort of a female foetus...with severe penalties for the doctor. So the info you have been given about killing of a female foetuses is rather dated information.

Do feel free to post some more of your legitimate queries and we will try and help you through this maze of mis information and ignorance. BTW... there is a thing called www-en-wikipedia-org.. You might try checking that out that option first next time.

Czesc

yes I know but thanks I prefer to get information like u just gave me, u can feel honored cause had chance to write to me, u dont know who I really am...

czesc Halloween,

I try my best to do my bit for the old mother country... and yes I am considered to be quiet patient even with feeble minded individuals. As for writing to me..go get a life mate as I merely posted helpful info for all persons who have been following this thread.

As for feeling honoured.... I think not... You should count your self fotunate that no one has yet discovered that you are either intellectually handicapped or have a serious learning disability and need professional help and therapy. I hope you dont have a job and career that you could lose once we get to know your true identity.

Take my advice, get yourself tested. Good luck with your life

papa

thats why ur not gonna get to know...

but seriously im only messing with ya... chill out, I know one Indian guy and he takes jokes deep when I mess with him as well

Yeah yeah, Polish girls are just after money. And British girls are just after sex? ha ha. The racism in UK is not Polish peoples' fault, its YOUR fault because you are racist. Dont say "we", speak for yourself you coward. Rant as much as you like, it wont make your issues go away so maybe try live with them?

Mediteranean guys the only solution for polish girls.