Is Indian/Polish relationship possible?

So that's one Polish Girl...
Yes, you are.

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Maybe your's...
Maybe your's...
Maybe your's...
Maybe your's...
Yeah, right...
Maybe your's...
So you slept with the women of the entire nation? No wonder they are so used...
You must be a slow learner if it took you a year and a half to figure it out...

Admit it. you had one bad relationship with one Polish Girl, and it didn't work out. Yes, she may have been a real biatch, but to tar an entire nation of women with that brush...? give me a break.


This could be said of any woman in any country my friend.


Sorry, I have taken you negatively for generalizing too much, how could I not?

Is this a university level course filled with trustworthy statistical data to back up this statement?

And what is the problem with this (unless the perversion included children, food or food by products, live or deceased animals or medical like implements)? The kama sutra is not that straight forward, is it?

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Nice cartoon . Shawn, dude, if you knew many polish girls , you'd know what I'm talking about . Funny thing , when I told a friend of mine that my then GF and now ex wanted to have a threesome with me , he said... .Damn it. !! here in germany , girlfriends wont allow that..and now we are jealous of you :D

First of all I wish u all the very best for ur future relationships. There is no use of being bitter about relationships man!....as s**t happens in life big time....but that doesn’t mean that we generalise and say.......all Polish girls r unfaithful . I am married to one for many yrs now and very happy. I just came back from Poland and I love the country, although it’s very different from where I come from. But given a chance I would love to go back to Poland for holidays even if it takes me 23 hrs of flying from where I live. Polish women r really beautiful…. I guess u haven’t met the right one yet!!! (cos trash is everywhere).....hopefully u get to know the better ones and ur impression will change. I feel it’s not being fair to black list all the women of this country based on one bad experience.

What is your full name amit_m ? what does m stand for?

First of all i'm not bitter about relationships in general. It is useless to show frustration as it doesn't lead us anywhere. I liked polish people and I visited that country when i was in europe and that was the reason I had a relationship.

amit_m , I don't know if you are real or your using someone else's name ? (!!!)

As per your words, if you are happy then its good for you.

I see that many people on this forum, especially foreign men ,have a romantic notion about polish women that they are very feminine,beautiful and kind, giving etc .if you are polish then you would have a different opinion. I've heard this from Polish guys !! I guess it is more helpful if they can treat each woman individually and not fall for the generalizations that are associated with women in general that they are the best in the world or the worst. Whether they are polish or not because in my experience and that of other people in europe ,young Polish women are too easy, materialistic and not very loyal , sexually active since they are 16 or so and they look for bigger-better deals , all the time. I've met some great women too but as far i've seen in my personal experience most of their bodies are so used by lots of guys ( atleast 3 or 4 boyfriends or friends ). I guess this is socially acceptable in europe and america. it is their choice. You cannot question the sexual history of your girlfriend /wife as it would be against their freedom. They are liberated, remember ??They are free to use their bodies and this is true as they own their body and mind. As Young men, you are liberal and the society prepares you to have a wife or girlfriend ( who had atleast 3 boyfriends with whom she was sexual ). It is okay in society and none of your business to question their ethics , ways of living. You have to "love" them as they are . Virtue is no longer a quality men look for when choosing women and it applies for men as well. It is funny that inspite of the behaviors I mentioned , many polish women who are highly sexual, put a show for society /church with their religious views and men fall for it, especially who haven't had much experience with culture of poland or who have met polish women for the first time. I guess it is upto each and every individual to decide what is good for him whether to accept /tolerate or reject and it applies to women as well whether they can accept such behaviors/characterisitcs in men. Sooner or later people would really know the other person's true colors no matter how hard others try. In spite of all this, I would think any relation would be possible if your partner is honest and true to you and not make up something just to lure you. I guess it depends on how perceptive you are of other people.

In my case my ex gf had Histrionic disorder traits and this something which you dont ever want in your partner. I dont know if she really had the disorder but she is very close to it. She made me very angry saying and doing many sick things but I learnt how to recognize that she is the one who has issues and I shouldn't be angry because of someone else.Now i empathize with her and feel pity for her Self-destructive behavior with which she hurts herself. I have forgiven.

seriously do you know 5 women who by the time they hit their mid 20s have had just 1 or none sexual partners? maybe if you come from some muslim country then yes you do, but any "normal", young women who are good looking and still virgins? what do you expect?! you people choose to sleep with dozens of girls before you decide to setttle down and thats OKAY, but then you find out your Polish partner had some experience too, and you go mental, calling her a sl*t and going round telling people her body has been "used" and all Polish girls are like this. Wake up, MOST GIRLS are like this and if you fancy some "white meat" then that is what youre gonna, deal with it. i'm so sick of you selfish hypocrites moaning that Polish girls are all filth and gold diggers. Look at yourself and think that maybe it was you being simply not good enough. There are obviously some girls out there who look for money or for awesome sex, you obviously couldnt provide them with any of that, it didnt work out, so PLEASE stop moaning and move on. life goes on. you say its bad to generalize but that is all you do. many men have this so called thing about Polish girls but we all know its in most cases because of A. marrying a Polish girl will open the doors to Europe for some of the third world folk B. Polish girls are considered easy prey and good for a shag (which is mostly due to some gossip spread by bitter people like yourself, or some desperate Polish girls from tiny little villages in Poland giving themselves away for nothing in hope of a better life with a foreigner abroad). some girls also choose to have an active sexlife but for backward people like yourself it is absolutely despicable for a woman to let so many men "take advantage" of her. she should put her chastity belt on and wait for the ONE to marry instead eh, whilst you go play the field while you still can. get a grip mate, look at yourself and stop judging the whole nation by actions of one individual and what you HEARD from some bitter little men.

Polish girls rule.End of story.

Justysia ,Why are you whining so much? Does it help you in any way? . Please.. . I did provide my services.. and women didn't complain..I'm not little too ^^ They were happy as far as I know .. Want to try me? ...You would see for yourself..I dont know if I can satisfy you since you might have many men so far and honestly I don't known if I can match their performance . Really . This i have to admit . Anyhow I don't want try you as I don't want to get any STD since I dont know how many people you slept with .Polish passport ???? Seriously !!! are you kidding me ?? ? Your country is very poor compared to any western country or even a few countries in Asia . who cares to have a polish passport? Your standard of living is too low to aspire or even cheat/trick a gullible woman to get into poland. I don't mean to disrespect your county but when polish people like you say things like we are below your standard..it makes me laugh rather than provide any evidence to prove my point .I 'm not interested . sorry . I'm not backward by any means.. nor do other guys I know .. I think we are far advanced than you..in science , culture, human development and in many things i can name. These are not stories I heard .. but reality I've seen..which probably you haven't or dont want to accept, since you like to live in an illusion. You are right in one thing that it is unfair and wrong to call someone as a slut when we are ourselves are playing the field.I'm not a hypocrite but i think it is immoral to cheat when you are in a relationship and i've seen that polish women do this effortlessly with a smile.I think it is modern slavic culture and it is acceptable in your society.

But no one is above the other in this world.. anyone can become competent and
Justysia, if you are under the illusion you are better than others.. take a look at your polish people and you will find them somewhere in europe or america doing jobs which no one else would do.Someone has to do these jobs and it doesnt make people low but society is shallow ( which is the way , you and others like you think, when you said a few poeple are low ) Please don't joke again about living standards or achievement, it makes you look like an idiot. I've had good experiences with polish people in general . I do like them and they liked me too . I do like your country.But people like you , who are ignorant are best to be ignored. I moved on ... and I guess you do that too . I dont mean to disrespect you but your disrespect to others shows your ignorance explaining, where you stand.

You are right in some things . I dont have a right to say you are wrong completely and I cannot comment on ethics and culture I merely pointed out an observation for outsiders. It would be unwise for others to come to a conclusion about a topic such as polish women , just by reading something garbage on the internet. They have to learn what is good and bad by their own personal experiences.Maybe this discussion might help a buddy who is interested in a Polish-mail-order-bride and who learnt about polish women through websites of popular polish culture :/ ??

Good lord!!! u seem to very angry and blunt over things ....in a way I agree with you in certain views of urs like men want to play around and finally want to settle down with someone who is a saint (I have seen it with many Asian men, especially Indians)...I guess that’s being hypocritical and I despise that kind of thinking. But what I really found shocking is u generalised that men from Asian countries get married to Poles to move to Europe. There might have been a few bad cases like that but it’s not being fair to generalise. I myself run a forum for Indian and Polish mixed couples and have met amazing people and heard fantastic stories, where people have made such big sacrifices to be together irrespective of their nationality and religion. So good things do happen, please don’t label us as hungry, opportunistic individuals.
I just came back from Poland and its neighbouring western European countries. & I find Europe a gr8 place for holidays but very expensive to live. It’s not an ideal place for me to move as life is getting harder and harder in that continent, let alone the cost of living. Please don’t get me wrong here as I am just trying to share my views with u & I don’t want to sound like others who tend to generalise.

pfff, i rather die a slow painful death than come any close to that tiny indian or whatever dick of yours ha ha

See how much it hurts you when i say that SOME third world folk find marrying a Polish woman the easiest way to at least get to Europe? i never said Poland was the greatest place to be in Europe, all i meant was that if one gets a Polish passport, they can move freely around the continent thanks to Poland being in EU. so do you consider yourself a third world country person? i do feel sorry for you, surely THAT is even worse than being Polish. if you dont believe me about some 3rd world weirdos looking to PAY to marry a Polish gal, have a look in the personals section on this forum. i do not give a flying f*ck about how well educated your countrymen are, if that is so, why dont you all smart asses try make your countries better with all that knowledge and experience. surely Polish people are more hard working and more LIKED that you people anywhere in the world. Polish might be doing the jobs that others will not touch, but work is work and somebodys gotta do it, and Poles tend to do it right, whatever is that they do for a living. Its funny how you asians complain about all the bloody Polish everywhere. I am so proud and happy to be Polish when i read all these stories about your girls getting killed by their parents for not wanting to marry their cousin. I am not ingnorant at all, im very open minded and there are many things that i tollerate. You made up this story in your head cos your relationship didnt work and you are blaming everything on the girl just because she was Polish. You know nothing about me and my background, definitely nothing about my health or any infections that i supposedly carry, but im sure you know all about them, coming from the 3rd world country where condoms are still just for the rich people. Dont make the same mistake next time then and maybe try to go out with your own women instead, surely they will undersatnd you and your needs much better. mix with your own kind and keep breeding idiots and hypocrites like yourself, that seems to be the only thing you are good at.

I think Indian guys are used to women being submissive. Their ideal utopian vision seems to be a submissive Polish woman. Think twice bucko!! Polish women are not walkovers, life has taught them to be hard and straight to the point, often to the point of being abrupt under stress. This will and has stood them in good stead.

I may have some criticism, largely constructive I might add, but at least I acknowledge that I'm a guest here in a foreign country and don't try and shape people as I want them to be. If u don't like Polish women, leave the country.

I think not... yawn...

Both Indian and Polish science are of a high standard, let's just leave it at that.

Neither of the above are as advanced as Scottish or American science, that's a fact. Esp Scottish. Scottish culture, need I say much? One of the most original and intriguing anywhere.

I like Vishy Anand tho, he's a smart guy

However only polish girls are of high standard.

Polish man killed his indian wife...

policja.pl/portal/pol/1/21138/Zabojca_zakopal_cialo_zony_w_przydomowym _ogrodku.html

Well, some Indian girls are quite pretty. They have enough to choose from after all.

Some Polish girls have too much attitude, NOT attractive

And... ?

and....she's dead

Is Indian/Polish relationship possible?

Yes!

Yes it definitely is possible .but .one needs to put in a lot of effort, as its a cross cultural relationship. I know many cross cultural relationships that couldn’t make it to the end or stand the test of time. So it again depends on individuals, and how hard r they committed to each other. Yes is a very subjective answer. Maybe is more appropriate...answer to this question

I would say that all relationships in this day and age take time and varying levels of efforts to make them work. There are many relationships that fail where both parties are from the same culture, grew up in the same area/ environment, share identical values, believe in the same religion etc. Relationships these days can fail because of any number of reasons.. saying "Yes" or "Maybe" when someone asks if the jeans makes their ass look big is almost a sure way to end one. :-)

Polish – Indian relationship possible

If the Indian doesn’t see the girl as a gateway to European passport

If he realizes the fault lies in the indian.Some indians see himself as different, refuses to change his irritating habits like burping after eating hot curry food, believing in the caste system, disapproving western culture, upholding indian values and culture ( in the process giving a thumbs up to corruption, lack of regard for human life, poverty, selfishness ).

The Indian’s intention is just not to sleep with a white women

If polish girls stop falling for stupid Indian/Pakistani guys following bollywood themes.

As long as Indian doesn’t try to change the Polish girl to the Indian culture (stopping her from eating meat, insisting her to wear vale etc)

I THINK its always easier/practical/better to move into a western culture rather than a westerner moving into Asian culture

AND GUYS…..DONT ASSESS THE POLISH GIRLS LIVING IN UK. COME TO POLAND AND YOU WILL GET TO KNOW POLISH GIRLS ARE NOT CRAZY ABOUT MONEY

Justysias…..you said well


Advice for polish girls going to U.K. Please don’t fall for useless immigrants from India,Pakistan,Bangladesh etc. If you realy fancy Asians find some educated, broad minded, modern(thinking) Asian man.
And please don’t go after money, you are ruining your nations pride.

By the way my origin is Indian. I’ve lived in India, U.K and now in Poland. I did have polish girl friend in U.K….i think this qualifies me to write the above comments

I am simply a passing new member to this website...

But I attended a London Catholic religion church based opposite a Seekh/indian temple on sunday...

Everytime I went with my family, there was an indian guy with a blonde blue eyed polish girl attending polish mass which was not really polish but an attempt by an english priest..

I later learned his family owned several businesses... which explained her interest.. he did not marry her and she had no children...

During all of this.. there was a woman in her mid 30's who came every week with her young son who looked of arabic origin, but there was no father to be seen, she attends with him every week religiously.

ABCD,

You seem analogy doesnt seem valid because not all indians are like you described. . They have pride in their culture and are not after women ( irrespective of race) . Moreover i've seen the behaviors you described ( burping, farting etc ) in polish people too.. Many polish girls and men dont use toilet paper and if you think these things are repulsive , then polish men or women should be avoided too But if you are okay with it then it is good for you.
But you are not qualified to say some things about Indian men in general. I've seen polish men living off cheaply and doing all the things you've described and the same applies to polish women . There are such people in many countries and many people in eastern europe ( eg. poland) are like what you've described ( burping , farting, not using toilet paper etc) . I dont know what justysia has seen. Perhaps she has seen a few samples but she should see the samples in poland too as well as in UK. I dont think Indians in UK touch the toilets in UK but i've seen polish people doing it very happily since they are professional cleaners. What do you say about that?

ABCD, you must see the villages in poland as well and it might be a surprise for you that you would see polish people doing the same you described about Indian men

Forgive me if I am wrong but this is what western europeans think of some Polish people.Ofcourse there are educated types(poles) in poland and men and women ( irrespective of nationality) that can be found in western europe or America or asia.
Primitive people are present in Poland and any country you can name.

It doesnt matter whatever the country is there are people who are cultured and there are those who aren't whether you accept it or not.

Regarding your statement that some men want to sleep with polish women . I think polish women sleep with whoever they can get or gives them the slightest attention and they are after guys to get sex than guys going after polish girls. Ofcourse they would make it seem like they dont want it ..but they are really sexual. They like variety and they do it before they settle down. Your statement that Indian men are after polish girls.. isnt entirely correct. There polish girls who chase men from all countries and they sleep a lot with others too. I knew a polish girl who slept with an american, Turkish and a swedish guy .. within a very short timeframe. Sorry but this is what i've seen.


I'm sorry if I have to prove you wrong in this way, but this is the truth and reality.

cheers

Edit: There are many indians who dont like the caste system and all other stupid things which are ascribed to Indian culture.Many of them are not religious too and they dont force others to change their practices or force them to do things which are not part of their upbringing .. Many indians who are modern , eat almost everything. Ofcouse the caste system is part of Traditional Indian culture but there are people Who dont follow it or even hate it..very much like the people of europe who arent religious and don't affiliate themselves with any church or have confessions. If is upto your perception and wisdom on how you want to judge others ( irrespective of nationality).

what the hell?! where did you get that information from you weirdo?



err im Polish and i lived in Poland for 19 years, i think i know what i'm talking about. you obviously don't and you're talking rubbish about Poland and Poles cos youre Indian and it hurt your feelings that we were talking badly about your country men. tough sh*t, that is the sort of a reputation you people have over here and not only over here. cut the bullsh*t, you havent proved anyone wrong with your false statistics and statements. idiot.



go and look up how many men get through a British, American or Geramn girl's bedroom before she decides to tie the knot? yet again, where did you get this information from? made it up? with how many women on average does an indian male sleep before he gets married? or does it not matter cos he's a MAN and he can do whatever he wants without explaining himself to anybody?

Justysia,

I'm not denying your facts but what i'm saying is that your facts apply to polish people as well whether you admit or not.



The same places where you got Information about Indian men. You are the one who is a weirdo .. not me sorry :(

ohhh i beg to differ. Poland is not a 3rd world country. maybe some old people in the countryside dont use loo roll cos they're poor and they never used it before so they dont feel the need, but your country surely has areas where people live the same way they lived 100s of years ago, dying from starvation and not being able to read or write.



cos you say so? ha ha

I agree with 'Mav34' ONLY ON THE LAST TWO PARAGRAPHS. Those 5 men are paid for clients through an escort agency.

Imagine Polish girls being liberated like Iranian muslim girls when the E.U accepted the Polish nation in it's circle. Suddenly you have women with equal rights and go high/crazy at the thought when mixing in western country, doing stupid (sometimes sexual) things without a second thought...

I was born in the UK from immigrant Polish parents and have sisters who all but one married into different cultures.. at my parents permanent heartache/depression..

This open confession of mine, half shows that young Polish women are not familiar with cheap fun/casual sex as they should be, not familiar with protection and not a male partner commitment over a charmed one night stand..

Remember I saw this first hand within my family

You are right..that there are poor people everywhere .. in developed countries as well.. I've seen homeless people in Detroit . Americans ( a first world country and the wealthiest in the world) who live like you've described , Americans who cant read, dont have money to eat. Dont have good clothes to wear and who are on welfare who live much below the living standard of a vast majority of polish or other people. I guess , Justysia, You should travel a bit and see a few countries beyond poland or Uk to come to a conclusion and judge people correctly. The americans i've described are not inferior or dumb. They were just unlucky to be born on the streets or in poor families . You will find such people everywhere.And if you understand what you've said and if we apply your logic: Poland is like a 4th world country when compared to america or even the UK.

Expand your horizons !

I think those Americans which i've described are much worse than you or me and america is much richer than poland

maybe thats some silly little girls who are naive enough to think that once you had sex with a starnger you get what you want from a man. also many Polish females find men of different nationalities more appealing and attractive, due to the fact they havent had much choice before, and Polish men are, well, Polish men lol. it would NEVER break my parents heart if me or one of my sisters married a foreigner. as long as we're happy, they're happy. women in my family, and in fact the great majority of Polish women i know are not stupid or naive, are aware of contraception and one night stands aint their cup of tea. that's the British girls fave way to end a saturday night ;). only joking. how old are your sisters, whitey? and how old were they when you witnessed them do the things tham seem to be so typical of POlish women to you? plus, if you dont mind me saying, you were born on British soil, life and people in Poland are totally different.



there are homeless people everywhere. the majority of the homeless in USA are immigrants who didnt fulfill their american dream though.




sorry, but i dont consider myself as a second class citizen or someone 'below the average' just because im Polish. Polish people's living standards are probably not amazing, but not as bad as some Indian people's for sure.



my horizons are wide enough, i have been to a few more places than Poland or UK, i also have internet access and watch the news, so even if i havent been to some places, i do have an idea of whats going on in the world.