catholocism is a religion that encourages tolerance hence there are many shades to the catholic tree.
in regards to your previous post, on marriage to a muslim chap, i understand that you do not have to convert and can live in peace but have you thought about educating your boyfriend about your own religion, the smallest things that happen before christmas, why you eat fish on fridays, etc etc, in islam they share similar experiences but they have a huge difference in their perception of jesus christ... there is toelrance and respect in the world, and families are very important. one thing you should think about are your children what values will you teach them and what values you wont. your husband may not be practising at the moment but people change, how will you cope, its not bad being a practising muslim in fact they are quite impressive as they are very disciplined, you should expect every situtaion, if the lord has writtin this then it will happen, have bible and koran classes, best wishes