is it that my love is worthless? (a sad heart)

...my prayers for both of ya...

I am a Pole... I love someone of different background too.... I hope it dont happen to me ...

Those crushes....lusts....etc and all those kinds....they break but dont stay for long. But God Forbid ... Love shouldnt break buddy!... nope NOPE ...!... must not break

Well, if you have nothing to say to me, then why launch into this tirade?

I'm offering you the chance to talk to me, i'm here.
You seem to have issues with me, so now is your chance to tell someone, whom you've never met, what exactly it is you think is wrong.

So that we can sort it out, have a virtual handshake and laugh about it in a few days.

dont worry , you have alot going for you

were all scared dear brother, everything in life is scarey, every new step .
we sometimes talk one step forward and end up two steps back. its hard
everyday, sometimes this is our only defense against the odds.

it dont always mean people are like that truely

WHAT! He's blaming me for Miranda leaving the forum?

Biased behaviour with the two SAD people in here.

Being too tough on the first one.

However... not judging you in any way again. These I just couldnt swallow. Even if I had met you, or you were my brother...I would say the same thing, and not judge you. Only God can judge (I believe).

Again... if you think you were right for some reason! Fine with me... because I dont want that arguement. I dont find myself correct either. In my first post in this SAD thread... I didnt behave honest with myself either for the first sad person. My apologies to him.

Actually....when true love breaks....i can only imagine how it must have felt. I love someone truly (she is not Polish). I dont even wanna think about it!...

no, I am probably wrong on that, it was my mistake, "i do make them "

maybe let him finish his post, I am sure this will get cleared up

I read the post earlier today, about why people are leaving, I saw your apology

I dont remember seeing any picture that was offensive or bad. your pics were
nice. unless I missed something.

Post #95 ....on Huegel's request!

I dont have nothing against this guy... just again....didnt like that squasing of heart POST. :S...

OK LS you just burnt your bridges with me. Sorry Pat, your brother or not. Not interested.

I have to go back and read, I am maybe off track. bb in a m.

Never had any. Dont need any.

I am... again...as always....FIRM in my opinion.

Bigoted is the word i'd use.

keep using.

I don't want to argue with you, because we seem to be going around and around without understanding each other. You say I was biased, and I disagree....to be biased, I would have to intentionally give advice to one because I favored them and not the other.....I don't know either of them, so I gave my opinion based on my own life experiences; not because I thought one was better than the other.

It would be a little hard to judge me as your brother because I am a woman but I understand what you are saying here. I agree that the only to judge is God, and I'm sorry if you felt I was judging someone else in anyway.....it was not my intention nor do I feel I was doing such.


I sincerely hope you never have to find out....I don't wish heartbreak on anyone, because I know what it feels like and it can be a paralyzing feeling.

excuse me again...... what can I say!! .... that was FOR Huegel



see...

I edited it and took it off because Miranda found it offensive, and it was.....I actually wondered if I had made a mistake in posting it, because after seeing it myself, I found it to be a bit too much, even for this forum. I apologized to Miranda and thought she had forgiven me my transgression. Not much more to it, unless there's something else I have done to offend and am not aware of it?

... ok dear... forget about it!... its something sad to discuss about!...
I wonder where Arien is!

I dunno Ranj, looks like i've grown horns. Run girl whilst you've still got a chance, being associated with an evil monster like me is going to get you ostracised if you're not careful!

Fun while it lasted. One sad case to another.

If I get ostracised, Huegel, I'm sure it will be by my own doing! But hey, we could always start our own forum in that place we eventually are going to end up


I think a lot is lost on the forum and sometimes we can see through the words people posts to see that they are good people, which I know deep down you are, with just a smidgin of deviance

As long as we get to wield the ban stick, (pitchfork shaped naturally!) i'll be happy.

See you there.

oh wow !!

Ranj, not to worry. I dont even know which pic, I am the last to know lol.

ps. did you win the remote? LOL

huegel,

I dont think this was anyones fault. and your trying to protect, of course that
is expected. I think theres a mixture of things going on here, but we all have to
get along. this is our place together

All of us together

so lets shake hands, kiss and make up or hug, whatever it takes to get back to
being who we are and accept who we are

MUWhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ... big smooch for yas!!!

Absolutely. I have no problems with you. As Ranj put it so well earlier on I won't try to best her, rather i'll just quote her:



But I offered the guy the hand of friendship twice and both times he decided to decline. That's his choice, can't get on with everyone etc.
Not a problem.
We could have sorted it, instead he chose to walk away. Well i'm not going to stand there with my hand out indefinitely, especially if you start insulting my friends.

ps. Thanks for the kiss. Back at ya..

Understandable, I think its all misunderstanding.

I am not going to go on with what i think, I just dont like to see this among friends
and you are trying. I just think sometimes maybe my brother might be slight bit
more stubborn at times and he probably will put me in head nugi hold for that one

trying to maybe lighten the mood

He wanted to put out my points...and I did exactly that!

I actually at first refused to take this matter further! But he wanted all things cleared himself :S... so I brought out what I didnt like with his posts (as he requested). And the answer from him is right there in the thread above!

However... his reply was about some bridge that was burning!

If you read that Pat... please explain where actually was that hand which he gave to shake?

I am calm... mood is upset though... But if ever someone gives my a true hand of friendship...I never turn that down.

ALL these for easy reading

You didn't talk to me mate, you preached and to be honest, I didn't really understand what the hell you were gibbering on about. If however, something you wrote was aimed at me, please make it clear.

When you band the word sad around and shout it (CAPITALS IS CLASSED AS SHOUTING ON THE INTERNET!) <annoying isn't it?> you need to be aware that sad means pathetic in british slang. So, when you call someone sad, it is derogatory.

I offered you the chance to sort it out and it appeared that you were throwing it back in my face.

If you mean sad as in heart rending, then I apologise, as I misinterpreted what you meant.

Let's try again shall we mate?

<extending hand>

Ok. I think i see where you're going.

Boy it's been a long night. They call internet forums relaxing.

Right, have you read my very first post to the first guy? If not here it is.



Is that being harsh?

His reply made me wonder if he was genuine. So, told him what I saw, and told him conincidentally, what a Polish girl said to me:



If you think that is harsh, then you should look at your OWN countrywomen. There I go shouting again.

To the second guy, I didn't even read his story, as it hurts my eyes to read it...hence the request to add some spaces. So, if you want to say I treated the two unfairly, yes I did. I couldn't even read the second one, so offered NO advice.

Why do you want to know where Arien is?