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Polish girls hard in relationships

Seanus Threads: 19
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  ♂   Aug 22, 2010, 12:54am  #

Hmm....some men are like that, yes.

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  ♀   Aug 22, 2010, 12:58am  #

EwaFromPoland:
women`s seesaws are connected with what a man did or did not

you're right, unfortunately. I wish more women would stop to give a damn whatever he did or did not do and move on.

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  ♀   Aug 22, 2010, 01:24am  #

ok I see you like boys:)

southern Threads: 97
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  ♂   Aug 22, 2010, 06:07pm  #

My Polka tried to read my messages,see my photos and check my internet addresses in mobile.I told her are you crazy?This is private stuff.

trener zolwia Threads: 1
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  ♂   Aug 22, 2010, 06:31pm  #

southern:
My Polka tried to read my messages,see my photos and check my internet addresses in mobile.I told her are you crazy?This is private stuff.

Chicks are naturally curious and suspicious and a little insecure. Maybe you could let her a peek one time just to set her mind at ease and see you're not hiding anything threatening to her. Then if she continues to pester you can call her nuts and tell her no because you already showed her what you're up to. This should do the trick and get the chicks off our backs. (That is, so long as the man really doesn't have anything bad to hide from his woman.)

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  ♀   Edited by: Allison  Sep 8, 2010, 02:52am  #

damo:
basicallyy ive been with mine over 1 yeah n half, shes good butt shes gt emotional problens, depressed, angry, and omg shes strong lol sum one explain why polish girls are really emotional thnxx


LOL thats me except I am not really depressed. Guys always tell/told me I have a difficult personality and they don't understand why I am so needy and angry. I think its really just that Poles have a tendency to react emotionally to things. Some non-polish may feel just as angry and depressed but not come across that way. I was always told that my emotions show all over my face, I cannot hide how I feel. Being around non-poles makes it worse because you don't feel like the other person understands you. I have no idea why Poles have to be stuck with this degenerative quality.

trener zolwia:
(That is, so long as the man really doesn't have anything bad to hide from his woman.)


lol knowing Southern there is without a doubt something to hide.

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  ♂   Sep 8, 2010, 03:03am  #

Allison:
thats me except I am not really depressed. Guys always tell/told me I have a difficult personality and they don't understand why I am so needy and angry. I think its really just that Poles have a tendency to react emotionally to things. Some non-polish may feel just as angry and depressed but not come across that way. I was always told that my emotions show all over my face, I cannot hide how I feel. Being around non-poles makes it worse because you don't feel like the other person understands you.

You seem quite self aware and honest about your personality foibles. More so than many twice your age...

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  ♀   Sep 8, 2010, 03:09am  #

trener zolwia:
You seem quite self aware and honest about your personality foibles. More so than many twice your age...


lol I had a shrink for a short period of time when I was about 14 or 15 and he would always say how aware of myself I was and how I seemed to always be ready to face the truth. He almost kinda resented it, I thought it was strange.

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  ♂   Sep 8, 2010, 03:16am  #

Allison:
lol I had a shrink for a short period of time when I was about 14 or 15 and he would always say how aware of myself I was and how I seemed to always be ready to face the truth.

Don't laugh, being so self aware is good. It puts you ahead of the game compared to many others.

Allison:
He almost kinda resented it, I thought it was strange.

Just as many here rip on you for the very same reason. ;)

zetigrek     Sep 8, 2010, 10:13am  #

Allison:
lol I had a shrink for a short period of time when I was about 14 or 15 and he would always say how aware of myself I was and how I seemed to always be ready to face the truth. He almost kinda resented it, I thought it was strange.


Your parents are ctritisizing types, aren't they?

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  ♂   Sep 8, 2010, 11:54am  #

EwaFromPoland:
why not, when it`s true...I know it`s funny for you. Men has such a huge ego that he would never ever say "sorry, it`s my fault". And if he does, most probably he`s afraid of a girl he`s with


Typical. If we don't say sorry, we're wrong because we have such a huge ego, and if we say sorry we're wrong because we're afraid of the girl we're with. Typical indeed.

xD

Seanus Threads: 19
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  ♂   Sep 8, 2010, 12:15pm  #

Well spotted, A J. Catch 22 all around. It's always worth remembering, 'give them an inch and they'll take a mile' here. Giving back is not a strong point.

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  ♀   Sep 8, 2010, 04:08pm  #

A J:
It seems you do plenty of observing yourself.

I do. He just writes a lot about Polish women even though he is happily married. I don't understand the point.
zetigrek:
Yep, we know. But it seems that you really like to talk about women.

that was my point.
Sorry Sheep, nothing personal, just observation.

I am in general not a big fan of bashing the other sex on the internet, but that just me.

Seanus Threads: 19
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  ♂   Sep 8, 2010, 04:18pm  #

Well, there are rewards in terms of harmony. If you let a woman play to her strengths and enable/facilitate that process then she will be grateful. However, gratitude is usually a fleeting moment in otherwise turbulent minds ;) ;)

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  ♀   Sep 8, 2010, 04:22pm  #

Seanus:
Well, there are rewards in terms of harmony. If you let a woman play to her strengths and enable/facilitate that process then she will be grateful. However, gratitude is usually a fleeting moment in otherwise turbulent minds ;) ;)

you know what you are talking about:)

zetigrek     Edited by: Moderator  Sep 8, 2010, 04:26pm  #

Seanus:
If you let a woman play to her strengths and enable/facilitate that process then she will be grateful. However, gratitude is usually a fleeting moment in otherwise turbulent minds ;) ;)


wow, you should be a poet ;D


Four pages of off topic posts in this thread have been dumped in the bin.

Please, keep to the topic.

Thank you.


Seanus Threads: 19
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  ♂   Sep 8, 2010, 11:58pm  #

Polish girls tend to have a 'bring it' kind of attitude to life. Slackers tend to get a rough ride and you really need to be constantly moving forward. I often feel like I am being judged. Standards are high, whether it be in the workplace or at home. In Japan, they say 'cockroach husband' (gokiburi in Japanese, karaluchy in Polish). However, Japanese women are submissive (uległy) and Polish are not. They attempt to whip a man into shape.

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  ♀   Sep 8, 2010, 11:59pm  #

Seanus:
They attempt to whip a man into shape.

That's good!

zetigrek     Sep 9, 2010, 12:01am  #

Seanus:
I often feel like I am being judged.


We all feel that.

Seanus:
However, Japanese women are submissive (uległy) and Polish are not. They attempt to whip a man into shape.


Sorry for insolence but it sounds like you are rather unhappy with your marriage. Maybe just have an honest talk with your wife that you feel too much pressure...

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  ♂   Sep 9, 2010, 12:03am  #

Silesian women have a reputation for being like that. I've met many hard nuts here but, as southern would say, they have a delicateness about them in some way. Some Scottish women I met were pure nuts. It's all relative!!

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  ♂   Sep 9, 2010, 12:06am  #

I think polish women are rather submissive.They fulfill even the most extreme desires.For us they are easy targets because they lack the balkan slyness rampant in greek women.

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  ♂   Edited by: Moderator  Sep 9, 2010, 12:08am  #

Allison:
untermensch

Oh god, you are really spilling the sh1t tonight eh ? :D

please keep on topic

zetigrek     Edited by: zetigrek  Sep 9, 2010, 12:12am  #

dtaylor5632:
Oh god, you are really spilling the sh1t tonight eh ? :D


Discussion over Allison take 4 pages today, all landed in trash ;)

southern:
I think polish women are rather submissive.They fulfill even the most extreme desires


hahahaha

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  ♀   Sep 9, 2010, 12:13am  #

dtaylor5632:
Oh god, you are really spilling the sh1t tonight eh ? :D


Apparently it is a bad innapropriate word so I won't use it.

southern:
I think polish women are rather submissive.They fulfill even the most extreme desires.For us they are easy targets because they lack the balkan slyness rampant in greek women.


They are just doing reverse psycology on you. Being submissive in a relationship actually gives the woman a lot of power. If I play my cards right, I can really walk a man on a leash like a dog by being submissive. It doesn't work for ugly women though, because they are not desired and can't use sex as a weapon. Thats why ugly women resort to feminism in order to get power.

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  ♀   Sep 9, 2010, 12:15am  #

Allison:
If I play my cards right, I can really walk a man on a leash like a dog by being submissive.

That's not true. He will just take advantage of you and not respect you. You need to be assertive from the very beginning.

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  ♂   Sep 9, 2010, 12:23am  #

Allison:
Thats why ugly women resort to feminism in order to get power.

The girl has a point here! Most Fems are ugly...

PlasticPole:
You need to be assertive from the very beginning.

What do you know about being assertive to men? Whip em into shape, do you? :p

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  ♀   Sep 9, 2010, 12:23am  #

PlasticPole:

That's not true. He will just take advantage of you and not respect you. You need to be assertive from the very beginning.


I used to think that way, but it doesn't work. I pretend like I really want to please him but I don't actually do it.

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  ♂   Sep 9, 2010, 12:35am  #

The man notices when the girl swifts from submissive to dominant and stops her.When this happens I burst out in temperamental shouting and slavic women stop the manipulation.

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  ♀   Sep 9, 2010, 12:41am  #

trener zolwia:
The girl has a point here! Most Fems are ugly...

There are plenty of attractive feminist lawyers. Sure, they might not publically label themselves as feminists, but, by their own example, they clearly are! They just don't announce it to the world and yap about it. It's obvious by the way they live. Any career minded woman is a feminist.
Being submissive works sometimes, but it should be tapered with assertiveness whenever necessary.



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