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WHAT TRAITS DO POLISH MEN LOOK FOR IN A FEMALE?

Polonius3 Threads: 1,160
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  ♂   Jul 21, 2009, 09:39am  #1

As a Polish male, in what order would you rank the following traits of a potential girlfriend, fiancée or husband? Feel free to add any additional traits you like. Of course there are those who look for something different in a gf and a future spouse, in fact some say there are 2 different kinds of girls: those you want to date and those you want to marry. If you agree, please feel free to distinguish between the 2 categories.
-physical attractiveness
-libido
-personality (extrovert-introvert, sense of humour, gift of the gab*, etc.)
* I can't see too many males wanting to link up with a human chatterbox!
-education
-professional prestige
-size of income (generous wealthy father)
- interest in maternity, no. of kids desired
-age
-nationality
-common goals, priorities and interests
-religion (same or different, religous or irreligious)
-family (eg nasty future mum-in law, cool future bro-in-law, holiday home on the Riviera?)
-other


Polonius3 Threads: 1,160
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  ♂   Jul 23, 2009, 03:37pm  #2

Sorry for the "husband". As you probably imagine, I copy-pasted the one addressed to the ladies and neglected to make all the necessary adjustments. The item should read:

As a Polish male, in what order would you rank the following traits of a potential girlfriend, fiancée or wife? Feel free to add any additional traits you like. Of course there are those who look for something different in a gf and a future spouse, in fact some say there are 2 different kinds of girls: those you want to date and those you want to marry. If you agree, please feel free to distinguish between the 2 categories.
-physical attractiveness
-libido
-personality (extrovert-introvert, sense of humour, gift of the gab*, etc.)
* I can't see too many males wanting to link up with a human chatterbox!
-education
-professional prestige
-size of income (generous wealthy father)
- interest in maternity, no. of kids desired
-age
-nationality
-common goals, priorities and interests
-religion (same or different, religous or irreligious)
-family (eg nasty future mum-in law, cool future bro-in-law, holiday home on the Riviera?)
-other

southern Threads: 96
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  ♂   Jul 23, 2009, 04:26pm  #3

Polonius3:
WHAT TRAITS TO POLISH MEN LOOK FOR IN A FEMALE?

Albos look for a tail no doubt.

adrian11224 Threads: 8
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  ♂   Jul 24, 2009, 02:53pm  #4

I butt big lips rich dad rich mom cute, funny smells good, not cheap, knows how to appreciate something worth something.

Brown skin Chinese are out but in the rare occasion I might take her.

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  ♂   Jul 24, 2009, 03:24pm  #5

adrian11224:
I butt big lips rich dad rich mom cute, funny smells good, not cheap

Probably a polish girl.

George8600 Threads: 16
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  ♂   Jul 24, 2009, 05:23pm  #6

Hi Polonius! I see you have reposted this thread again; but rather changing females into males. ^_^

I will have to say that the same apply. Surely it's been psychologically proven that men are a tad bit different than women. However there is no hardcore research/study saying that they are different when it comes to searching for relationships partners. But nonetheless I am interested to hear what some people will have to say. Good luck.

natasia2 Threads: 1
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  ♀   Edited by: natasia2  Jul 27, 2009, 10:23pm  #7

Pretty sure Polish men go for a woman who is:

- thin and likely to stay that way after kids
- hard-working (in the home and at work ...)
- immaculately clean and crisply dressed at all times
- excellent cook and cleaner who keeps house with pride and would never ever dream of expecting her guy to lift a finger in that department
- good at looking good in primark clothes
- would spend not more than £15 on a hair cut but always looks as if has been to tony & guy
- expert at home hair-dyeing
- keen on having children (not too many) - but only at a time that suits financially and emotionally
- always positive and smiling
- a perfect hostess to guests
- very clear on her boundaries - should he overstep the mark, she would not reproach and beg, but rather banish him to the garage or car or sofa and withold conjugal rights until he has learnt his lesson
- superb at ironing
- preferably a virgin when first met ...

= oh, and, of course, POLISH
; )

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  ♂   Jul 28, 2009, 01:01am  #8

natasia2:
Pretty sure Polish men go for a woman who is:

Probably also perfect at oral skills.

krysia Threads: 26
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  ♀   Edited by: krysia  Jul 28, 2009, 08:02am  #9

Polonius3:
WHAT TRAITS TO POLISH MEN LOOK FOR IN A FEMALE?

One that would put ketchup on her pizza and eat it? Maybe?

plk123 Threads: 15
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  ♂   Jul 28, 2009, 08:38am  #10

southern:
Probably

probably???? this is #1 on my list. :D :D

natasia2 Threads: 1
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  ♀   Jul 28, 2009, 04:48pm  #11

ketchup on pizza and consider it normal rather than a travesty - yes, forgot that one. ketchup on lasagne too. and a genuine liking for tinned meat.

one 'orally skilled' - ah yes. bit of a problem with some Polish girls, as I have heard. excellent cleaning skills + natural aversion to anything 'dirty' can complicate things. i think there is a tendency to spit. (I'm sure some Polki will now set me right on that one ...)

szarlotka Threads: 13
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  ♂   Jul 28, 2009, 05:08pm  #12

natasia2:
Pretty sure Polish men go for a woman who is:

Your list is an excellent start. Could I just add a few more requirements:

- No interest whatsoever in Jimmy Choo shoes
- Fear of credit cards
- Ability to change a lightbulb without calling in an electrician
- No inclination to want to learn golf and insist upon accompanying their partner on to tthe course
- Encyclopedic memory for all things other than those said by partner
- A mother who is at least 5,000 miles away and who cannot master the use of a webcam
- A father who recognises that losing a daughter is a very good thing
- Must like football
- Is happy to serve beer to partner and mates watching the big game but then withdraws without saying a word
- Can be out of the bathroom in under two hours
- Can tolerate toothpaste tubes without the caps on

If anyone knows an available female who satisfies both lists then PM me and we'll arrange a deal (trade in);)

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  ♀   Edited by: natasia2  Jul 28, 2009, 09:25pm  #13

szarlotka:
Must like football

strikes me that this (and a few other of yr additions) are decidedly English ... could it be that you are looking for the best of Polish and English girls??

call me ; )


ps
and have my own solution to the toothpaste caps thing - put them back on WITHOUT resentment (my god i'm good, aren't i?)

petite88 Threads: -
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  ♀   Apr 25, 2010, 02:32am  #14

you mean, someone who is very good with conversation? :)


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