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foxylitious
  Sep 27, 07, 18:04  #1
what is love. is it different 4 a man than a woman? when do we know that the man is really in love? any toughts?

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galewindz
  Sep 27, 07, 19:25  #2
i believe that when a man is in love. he goes above and beyond for the one that he loves. flowers and gifts. dinners and shows. showers her with hugs and kisses. wants to c her every second. He also might act silly and not himself. goofy when ur all to each other.

woman show there love kinda the same way...more with wanting too c thae person more than gifts.

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beckski
  Sep 27, 07, 19:36  #3
Quoting: galewindz
showers her with hugs and kisses


Receiving these types of special affection, are much better than being showered with gifts.

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AvJoeUK [Guest]
  Sep 28, 07, 03:17  #4
Quoting: foxylitious
what is love.


Baby dont hurt me, dont hurt me...no mooore.

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foxylitious
  Sep 28, 07, 13:37  #5
Quoting: galewindz
believe that when a man is in love. he goes above and beyond for the one that he loves. flowers and gifts. dinners and shows. showers her with hugs and kisses. wants to c her every second. He also might act silly and not himself. goofy when ur all to each other.

seems 2 me u talkin 'bout the first weeks or months. but how 'bout if u r in a rellation 4 some, lets say years? how would u show it then? is there a difference in feelings towards the other half and ways of showin' them?

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galewindz
  Sep 28, 07, 15:04  #6
Quoting: foxylitious
seems 2 me u talkin 'bout the first weeks or months. but how 'bout if u r in a rellation 4 some, lets say years? how would u show it then? is there a difference in feelings towards the other half and ways of showin' them?


i guess doing things like take u somewhere special. (dinner, dancin, or drinks) Comes home with flowers. ive just ended a 4 year relationship because she wasent doing anything to show she cared or loved me. i did and do these things because i like too and if my partner is happy i am happy......relationships are very hard and it takes both sides to make them work......

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foxylitious
  Sep 29, 07, 08:40  #7
Quoting: galewindz
because she wasent doing anything to show she cared or loved me

how would u like to be shown that the other half cares? what a girl has 2 do 4 a man to realize she cares?

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Murzynka
Edited by: Murzynka  Sep 30, 07, 04:55  #8
Love is unconditional. A man will love you for being the way you are naturally, without expecting you to change yourself.

He will make you feel loved and you will never feel that you are alone in the world.

When he is wrong he will say sorry and mean it.

He will never make you feel that you are not good enough or bad about yourself.

He will want to be with you and do things with you. He will enjoy being in your company. He will text you and call you to make sure you that you ok because he is thinking of you.

When you are sad he will feel it too because he hates to see you unhappy.

He WONT look at other women when he is with you (or by himself), in a way that is humiliating to you. You will be the most beautiful woman in the world to him and important person in his life. If he says youre beautiful first thing in the morning with messy hair, no make-up and tired eyes, then you know he is genuine.

You have to do all of the above for him also, which makes your love flow between the two of you and much stronger, so it can grow.

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johan123
  Sep 30, 07, 05:12  #9
Quoting: Murzynka
Love is unconditional.

Nothing is unconditional!

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Wyspianska
Edited by: Wyspianska  Sep 30, 07, 05:31  #10
Oh a topic for me
i think im just falling more and more in love
so weird, first such situation in my life
Ugh, i should wake up. Would like to be back just old, scurvy, cold Wyspi but i think i cant right now
This feeling is just too strong

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AvJoeUK [Guest]
  Sep 30, 07, 07:21  #11
With your boyfreind I presume? :P

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Wyspianska
  Sep 30, 07, 07:30  #12
no haha ^^

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AvJoeUK [Guest]
  Sep 30, 07, 07:49  #13
For reaaaaaal?

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krysia
  Sep 30, 07, 07:54  #14
I agree with you murzynka. Some very good observations. But it also depends on the person itself.
Sometimes it can happen that one person does everything for that other, treats him like the number one person in the world and spoils him too much. The other person then doesn't appreciate what he has and wants more and more. Then comes a point where he will just degrade her.
Just a personal observation.

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Wyspianska
Edited by: Wyspianska  Sep 30, 07, 08:05  #15
Quoting: AvJoeUK
For reaaaaaal?

k, its not a good place to talk about it ;)
let ppl think about love without anything personal

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AvJoeUK [Guest]
  Sep 30, 07, 08:08  #16
alright I'll zip it :) hope you get it sorted anyways.

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Wyspianska
  Sep 30, 07, 08:09  #17
no i havent
but im still working. come on, im ewi! i can everything
soon he will be mine ^^

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porta
  Sep 30, 07, 08:12  #18
I told you wysp, feelings are bound to happen sooner or later! ;)

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AvJoeUK [Guest]
  Sep 30, 07, 08:13  #19
well aslong as your current boyfreind gets told!

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tornado2007
  Sep 30, 07, 09:25  #20
if anybody can define love then go ahead but there is not 1 real explanation its a combination of emotions, actions, beliefs, feelings etc etc something that even i am lost for words to describe :) lol

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Wyspianska
  Sep 30, 07, 11:09  #21
Quoting: porta
I told you wysp, feelings are bound to happen sooner or later! ;)

ha, yeah and obvioulsy u was right
was it u who told me that love isnt easy? Oh damn, ure clever ^^

Quoting: AvJoeUK
well aslong as your current boyfreind gets told!

which boy? actually im single ;)

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turkishfriend
  Sep 30, 07, 12:48  #22
love means wyspianska :D

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Wyspianska
  Sep 30, 07, 13:24  #23
love means jinowiski

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jnowiski
  Sep 30, 07, 13:48  #24
Quoting: turkishfriend
love means wyspianska :D

don't be flirting with my girl you dirty bastard

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tornado2007
  Sep 30, 07, 13:50  #25
Quoting: jnowiski
don't be flirting with my girl you dirty bastard

wow the claws are out, we even have 'my girls' on here now, i have missed lots :)

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Wyspianska
  Sep 30, 07, 13:52  #26
indeed torny, why should we hide it?
i told u jn tousand times that we should tell them over pf about our relationship

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osiol PREMIUM
  Sep 30, 07, 13:59  #27
I agree with the age old advice from Jesus: 'Love thy neighbour',
but my neighbour runs and hides every time I appear.
This doesn't stop me being in love with life!

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Wyspianska
  Sep 30, 07, 14:02  #28
Quoting: osiol
but my neighbour runs and hides every time I appear.

lol thats kinda pity. pity for him for sure hehe

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foxylitious
  Sep 30, 07, 15:01  #29
Murzynka, what u just said is very beautifful and I belive all women whant that. so do I. but it feels that after certain time we have soo much pain towards each other. it's due to the feelings. the stronger u feel 'bout somebody the more hurt u feel when arguments start. we feel missunderstood, sometimes used, empty maybe. I'd love 2 b with one man all my life. but is it realistic, is it achiveable nowadays?

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marek s
  Sep 30, 07, 18:12  #30
Quoting: Murzynka
Love is unconditional. A man will love you for being the way you are naturally, without expecting you to change yourself.

He will make you feel loved and you will never feel that you are alone in the world.

When he is wrong he will say sorry and mean it.

He will never make you feel that you are not good enough or bad about yourself.

He will want to be with you and do things with you. He will enjoy being in your company. He will text you and call you to make sure you that you ok because he is thinking of you.

When you are sad he will feel it too because he hates to see you unhappy.

He WONT look at other women when he is with you (or by himself), in a way that is humiliating to you. You will be the most beautiful woman in the world to him and important person in his life. If he says youre beautiful first thing in the morning with messy hair, no make-up and tired eyes, then you know he is genuine.

You have to do all of the above for him also, which makes your love flow between the two of you and much stronger, so it can grow.



you have been reading to many books and watching too many movies.

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