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Nov 19, 06, 00:31 #44
DG, the one thing you should say to your friend is, I know you like him alot, love him
and he does you, but, could you both please not be so rude and ignore me while I am
standing here, cause if I had a boyfriend, I would try to be more considerate towards
you as there is a time and place for such things and would enjoy your company rather
then ignoring you when my boyfriend is around. you two have your time, but when
we are all together, it makes me feel like the third wheel and I dont think you would
like it, I know you both dont mean to, but if I dont tell you how I feel, and get this
out, I will blow up with anger, and I want to be open and let you know.
young love makes us do alot of things we wouldnt do normally.
so , she may not realize she is upsetting you so much, which we all feel like the
third wheel when invited along with a couple.
I did that a few times, but mostly seeked out my single friends, not losing touch
with the ones who were into their boyfriends, but it was more fullfilling for me to
go have fun with single friends rather then couples as they would get in their
kissy face mode and all that cooing and hugging and making out made me upset
too, least till I found my own, but when I did, I spent my time with everyone till
me and B/F were alone.
anyway, hope this helps.. just asking nicely, please dont, or I will just not come
along with you both anywhere because I dont feel comfortable.
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