In love and 5000 miles away

I am very much in love, but sadly, my love had to go back. I don't know when she will be back, but I am believer that love knows no bounds; a thousand miles is just a step away.

*Waiting for you feels like eternity*

To my beautiful slonko, this is my song to you: w w w.mediafire.com/?0mueb9mxohe .

If that is your song, then you are a pretty good artist.

...Hmm.. I think I've heard this song somewhere. I don't remember where.

Congrats on finding your love :)

There's an old GF of mine that I was with for about a year that moved to australia, she had no choice as her family made her go. I still talk to her even when I haven't seen her for just over two years. She tells me she loves me and stuff.

We still see other people but we both know that what we have is special. Hopefully see her again in a year or two's time.

One thing for sure , it is possible to do the whole long distance relationship, I was dating a guy for 2 yrs and he went to iraq for a yr and we managed everything went well until he got back but beside that , if you truely feel that connection there is nothing that can stop your love from staying strong. Communication is the key.

but how you can trust somebody who is so far away and you don't see each other often?

I don't know, distance relationships were always hard for me and i try to avoid that...

It's true. Being apart is so very, very hard. It's hard enough being apart from family members but also to be apart from someone you're in a relationship with...I can't like it!

ldr almost never work. look around online for stats.

Well.. I'm dating a polish girl and i'm brazilian (living in brazil so far) and so what???? It's 10000km distance and we deal with it very well.... I trust her a lot and vice-versa...

The question is: Why would we cheat and keep on with a relationship like this? I mean... why would i have a girlfriend here and still have her 'online'???? We see mostly 2 times per year and we send a lot of presents trough mail service... This is my most expensive relationship so far hahaha :)

But it's all about love.. i'm sure she's the one i want and i'll never cheat on her, and i really believe she won't do the same... Love is above any flesh needs (in my opinion)

hmmm.. that actually means it didn't work and you're fooling yourself thinking otherwise.

can you really know each other ?? do you really know her??

So what are you planning for the future? She will move to Brasil or you will move to PL?

love knows no boundries, its a small world. so if you think its worth a shot, just put your trust into her and give it a shot. you have nothing to lose in the long term:D

wise david has spoken, now he goes to get pissed up for the new year:D

except the one under your nose that's not on the other side of the world..yeah, good thinking.. NOT.

agreed.

I can tell she knows more about me than any of my friends or family... And i know things about her that her family/friends doesn't know..

I know her for 2 years... and we talk everyday trough skype/msn... everyday means 3/4 hours :) So jea.. i know her a lot and she knows me too

And jes... i intend to marry her and have kids :)

And i'll move to poland.. no way to live in brazil

It's not the fact that it can not work , it worked for us but his x gf was all up his ass when he was in iraq and I wanted him to just stop talking to her all together bc she was harasing me and him. She sent him 13 paper letters the first week he arrived to iraq, then kept showing up at family events uninvited. And bc she knew I knew she was sending letters , she send me withered roses with maggots for valentines day witha lovely note saying this is how your relationshi is gonna go. She pittied him into talking to her saying her brother got arrested , and her mother was leaving her and her other brother for another family which was all a lie. When he came home I layed it out that I am not gonna be with someone who can not stand up to a psycho x and tell them to just go away or stop . He ended up get a restraining order on her ass and by the time everything hit the fan he came begging me to come back to him and nope didnt do it. Now before she came into the picture everything was great and having him not near wasnt as hard as i thought it would be , bc i made sure to keep busy with school and work and keep in touch with family and friends. But communication was lost and that was the worst part and there is nothing you can do once that is gone.

thats the problem with long distance, communication slowly goes bye bye.

Don't forget that today you have: skype, msn, mobiles, phone, voip (if you think a phone call is too expensive) and the old, but not worst, paper letter.... So i think it's hard to have a "communication slowly goes bye bye"...

Unless you REALLY want it...

yes but-communication- it can come back as it has done for me

yes, you have all the above ways to talk, but its lacking the personal touch, you know that face to face being next to each other.
talking on the phone and such is great and all, but if you want to get laid, its not happening.

I'm just beginning to know someone in Warsaw - so there are 6000 miles between us - all we have at this moment is communication. I think its all about dedication and then being a person of integrity and knowing how to listen for little hints of their integrity.

well my gf went back to poland in september i went over in november for a while and have not seen her since.im going over soon again. its diffcult probley the most diffcult thing i have done yet. not being able to hold hands, kiss and stuff its really diffcult but i think it will be worth the weight. we both love each other so much and its like this if u can do the distance together you can do anything together

Good! Completely Agreed!!!!

I agree with both... But Marek, i can tell it really feels good to be far for a long time... I think that when you meet the person you love after a long time... Things get tastier than it really is :))))))