why man won't marry?

i don't but on average strippers make more then most other professions. i know quite a few that have quit what would be considered pretty good jobs so they could make the money and have more free time.

so, do you ever uncover in front of a guy? you don't have to answer.

they will understand my point

i understand what you're saying but i don't agree...um...to each his own...i guess lol

marek, thats why your so bitter about the divorce you had ?
what did she take from you? cause if it was nothing theres no reason to be so
angry ,, least thats one way to look at it.

once you've been plaid, you may feel differently.

i have a friend who was married to a stripper, just got a divorce last week after she stole $43,000 he's been saving for 7 years and a new mustang GT.

no we know how to better ourselves. well here in vegas we do not take crap. go back to poland were you belong.quote to you I am selective.I hope soem woman takes you for a ride.

to be overly blunt, these have been the best 2 years of my life.
i was never bitter, but hurt for 5 months.
then one day a women 7 years younger than me picked me up and showed me some fun.
to make a long story short, i have been able to date younger women without being tied down or anything.

so now all strippers are scum? hey, maybe all women are.. lol

nomarriage.com

lol. very good. :D

i find it interesting there are 3 pages after my 8 points, and no one is arguing them.

Must have been some truth to what i wrote eh?

yup

Not sure I ever want to get married. I don't see the point really, unless you're planning on having a family.. even then it's not necessary. I'm in my late thirties and lots of my single friends around me are "panicking" because they haven't found someone to "settle down with". I don't think it's necessary at all... it's a social convention that you either go for or you don't, however, I do find it's more men than women that are surprised when I tell them I've never been married and it's not something I'm looking for. And I know more male friends than female who are panicking about it.. I reckon it's easier for women to stay "single" than men.. for men marriage gives respect, albeit an illusory one in societal terms. I mean how many times do you hear people ask "I wonder what's wrong with him..?" about a man who has never been married. Women are respected without the ring on their fingers...

sunflower, many of people say shes how old and never been married, whats wrong with her.
it goes both ways.
ive always noticed that men hear less crap than women for being single.

It's really a shame about the divorce rate these days (I am divorced.)

I think women need to try and feel a bit more compassion for men, and learn how to "manage" them.

And men need to not lose the romance they had early in the marriage as this is really demoralizing for us women.

Marriage is for babies. Most kids want a mum and dad. It's really a lot of work raising a child by yourself as I am now.

there is probably one of the reasons....


i think so too. kind of depends on one's circles though.


how can one argue with that? lol

trying to controll people is not healthy.

No, most people just chose to ingore it because you talk that much rubbish because you are a bitter man!

why hide, oh it's me? i think he hit the nail on the head. i mean, you really have nothing to say about it either except calling him bitter.

u will be surprised there are many beenfits to marriage, its only a matter of time when you actually will pass the age and will be stuck when you will recognise its importance, human beings have been created in an equilibrium fashion thus a relationship between man and woman works together in a lifelong commitment.

the nature of man compensates the nature of women and together they find love, peace and harmony, i know it sounds all god and in reality there are problems but in general there are more problems without marriage.

it keeps one commited, its healthy for children to have two individuals with different personalites and strenghts.
it makes society comfortable.
people are happy - they have a shoulder to cry o.

i have witnessed people who for many reasons have not engaged in marriage, i feel sorry for them. its never to late to find love.
i pray you will find the benefits of this relationship.

loving relationship doesn't have to = marriage. one can be perfectly happy without the piece of paper (contract)

really? you were arguing with me about it....

nope.. read it again.. i was just saying that marriage by definition is the piece of paper.. to me, that piece of paper really doesn't mean much. i don't need a permission or an extra tax to tell whom i may love.

if we move away from the paper but the spiritual contract. this is how human kind operates with membership to a certain group we feel valued - this group is known as husband and wife.

there can certainly be love wihtout a contract and there can be no love in a contract, one should re examine their thinking - we are in an era where we consume consume consume.. th eidea of marriage is not feasible in this day and age becasue we always want more... we need to stop being ungratfeul and be happy with what we have...
have we forgotten chritmas in poland.. the feeling of compassion to fellow man... with the most simplest things... care

what's wrong with wanting more? i don't care to settle for less.

i appreciate your comment, but wanting more is an excellent ideology to follow espcially in sport and education becasue you will always push yourself but in other settings it can be dangerous, i estimate you to be young in your mentality and you lack experience of the world.

the reason we should be grrateful with what we have is to avoid this consumption mentality which consequently results in problems in scoiety.
today women are always facing psychological problems becasue of their looks and beauty, magazines and the general media are categorising them as objects - this is unfair on them, we should treat them becasue of their character not looks, theyre is so much aggression in socity becasue people are jealous of each other.
stability and commitment have many benefits one should look at the overall pros and cons.
thanks my friend

thanks for assuming.

and agree with you to a point.. i think if you've found what you're looking for it's cool to settle for that but life is can be strange.. however an "if" is in the middle of that word and you never know what life will bring to your door step.

tell me about it, i dont mean to assume and dont take it in a bad way,,,, life is a game the right moves in the right places and you still hit the bar....

i just want people of the new generation to recognise where we are going... we have real good values and systems in catholocism which have been with us in poland for a long time atleast some of them we should keep.
theres nothing wrong with being old fashioned, but to stick to ones values really makes a human a strong human... i think this is why i like some policies of the kaczinskies... they r bringing hope

above is your own belief.


what problems are those??
i can name many problems marriage causes.



not everybody wants or has children



there are many happy single people.



i have witnessed many upon many married people that are unhappy, yet stay married, i feel sorry for them.