How many people pick up on someone's body language?

How many people actaully pick up on this?

Some of you might remember me posting asking for some advice about a girl I like. I was unsure if she liked me or not and it kind of got put to the bottom of the pile of cards as we both had exams on etc. Well, looking up body language tonight on the internet, I think she likes me after all.

When I'm sat with her or where she can see me she always cross's her legs and dangles her shoe of the end of her foot. I can remember her sitting up straight and with her legs slightly apart when I was with her afew weeks ago. Her grabbing my arm and getting my attention to talk to her. It's like, subconscious speaking in a way.

Maybe I'm just thinking a lot out of something little. But how many people actually pick up on someone's body language?

That's pretty seductive, I'd say :)
Your body, face expressions, eyes...all can give away a lot, no matter what the mouth is saying.

or you're stalking her.

isnt it easier to just ask ?

why not go to a website about that specific thing? this is the world's largest database y'know.

I haven't see her since the middle of december...

What I mean is, Alot of people come here asking "How do I know if he/she likes me?". Most of the time because either/both side/s isn't speaking up about how they feel. But if people clicked on each others body language, then it makes it much clearer how either person is reacting to the other person.

me and it leaves me more confused than before .... arrggghhhhhhh crazy moment ... !!!!!

(seen someone NYE daytime hadnt seen in 13months at all ... !but ended the year smiling because of it)

Body language................ Isn't that easier if you just talk to her and try something out????? Or instead of crossing legs and grabbing your arm, she should talk to you......

People make things so harder... :/

Isn't this connected to the art of flirting too.

body lanuage does give clues to how someone is feeling -you stare a lot a someone you like and smile-its not easily controlled but actors do use body lanuage people can learn how to use body lanuage to his or her advantange-but normally its a subconsious thing.

when you are sexually attracted to someone you puplis dialate -this is subconcious-you lick you lips more. you stand closer and touch people you like-i mean you touch their hand , arm when talking-if someone likes you this body lanuage is reciprocated. if not the opposite normally happens-they do not look at you when talking-stand away from you-little smiling- body language doesnt lie!! but it can be confusing if you get these non-verbal clues yet verbal clues are the opposite -this is the game people play when scared-not in tune with body lanugage-, or in a social situation which doesnt allow the person to act upon these non-verbal clues

As a teacher, I've learned the various body language features that express boredom on behalf of the students, hehehe.

Exactly what I mean. People can't lie and hide themselves with their body language. Even if they say something different because it'll make them look better socially, what they really think is still shown.

I can. When one has met and dealt with people in many different types of situations one can attempt to read them first and then apply the correct or false response.

A simple example: is he serious, bull$hiting, telling a joke or telling porkies. Some times you never know.

If the speaker is in control he can make you believe anything. If you doubt me then answer this.

What makes a salesperson so believable that you buy what you don't want and never needed ?

I can too - I use it loads of times not only when I'm having interviews with potential employees, but also for fun. You'll be surprised how easily you can fool ppl into thinking something else than what is really on your mind. If you know all the poses and all the gestures and practise them, you will find that you can have ppl think what you want them to think, or sending out mixed messages, just for fun. It doesn't matter what you say to them, as long as you don't lie. If you lie, it will not work. For me it always works as I don't lie. Just find yourself some books about the issue and start practising and try it out in some club or on friends.

M-G (am I getting through here?)

I think the shoe dangling off the foot means she is comfortable being around you. and the grabbing of the arm means she is interested in you.


But I'm just going from what I feel doing those things and I'm a woman but no body language specialist.