HOW MANY TIMES CAN YOU LOVE IN A LIFETIME? Once, twice or many ...

People like this are living lessons for others :)

To place this in a purely scientific context, I suppose the number of times you can fall in love is related to: how many people you meet that are your type; how successful you are at starting relationships with them; how long these relationships last; and finally how soon you are able to go into the next relationship and thus “wash the overwhelming feelings from the last”. If the answer is high on most counts than you can indeed fall n love a very high number of times… if you have a “problem” with any of these “obstacles” than you will fall in love a much lower number of times.

It's definitely possible to fall in love more than once. It might seem like that one real love is not possible to find again but it does happen and it's more intense the second time. You feel more alive and free with the new person because you've already loved before. You know how not to take it for granted and how to enjoy it more.

Many times , people always want to bumb and grind hahahaha

tak, jestem Polką;) i planuję w przyszłości podrozowac, nie tylko po europie ale afryce i wszędzie:P będę studiować arabistykę:P

Hello,

I Know why this is the way it is , many men are like this also i have found some woman have no value of love and only consider sex to be the way we all link together, the answer is plain and sample its to do with poor educating of love , at school all is talked is sex education nothing to do with love hence this post , you should be talked about the science behind love as well as what it is all about maybe then people will be less shallow and less self conscious , they will realize that things like a boob job and eating nothing isn't needed because love happens no matter how your boobs look or how big you are ,
I myself am poorly educated i have an IQ of 132 in logic and reasoning and my academic drags my IQ down to 120 witch is a fine example of how much i was talked about love and life at school,
Thanks to the Internet i am now as knowledgeable as i am smart in everything that interest's me and of coarse love is included, i wont explain in my own words about love i will give links to must read information its stuff that 100% of the population should know it should be talked as much as sex i find it disappointing that it isn't.

You will need to remove the spaceing for the links to work.

http ://gavincorder.blogspot.com/2005/10/insane-love.html

The info in the above link is from the site below

http :// www .bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

other intresting must reads.

http :// www .oxytocin.org/oxytoc/love-science.html

http :// stason .org/articles/sexuality/can_love_and_sex_be_separate.html

http :// blondesense.blogspot.com/2005/11/how-long-does-love-last.html

Anything that you want to know just google it i got all this info from asking direct questions into google , google has been just like the old wise man i always wanted to know to ask questions, i hope it will be the same for you :)

Kevin.

yeah... i miss that so much

I guess I am not that experienced when it comes to love, but I know that we can fall inlove many times in our lifetime, only in different levels and different times.

When people say that the first love is always the greatest, i disagree. The succeeding ones are those I consider the most true. Because it is when you learn to let go of one thing you hold dearest and start sharing yourself again. Its during this time when we are broken that we became whole again because of that person who came to heal our broken heart.

I'm really inlove right now with my boyfriend despite the fact that were miles away from each other. I loved before him too, but it doesn't make what we have any lesser. Even if we don't end up together, for now I can say that... I had love the deepest.

sorry to disagree with you about first love, i would say and know throu experience my first love was the greatest, we are divorced now its been along time, no-one will ever share what i had for my first love. ok we fall in love again and again but the smell of your first loves perfume the curves of her body the sweetness of her lips upon mine the sweet little words you whisper into each others ears, the way your heart beats faster when you look each other in the eyes and say i love you, no my first love was the best always will be, even thou she turned out to be a *****, sorry poshnpink, but thats how i feel, good luck to the others,

I think you can fall in love more than once without question. I fell in love the first time at 19 and thought that was love. It felt like it, but looking back I was not yet the woman that I am now at 36. My understanding of real love was not yet developed. I fell in love again when I was 22 and ended up being with that man for 13 years and having two of his children. I thought that was love too, but it wasn't equal and it didn't have the depth I needed. I left him and it was the best thing I ever did.

I can truely say that the last time I fell in love will be the last time. I met my Polish boyfriend over a year ago and the first time we kissed it was like no experience I have ever had. I have never felt such an instant connection in my life. It was so strong and powerful words can't describe it. We kissed non-stop for an hour and it was as if everything around us was no longer there (we were in a very loud club). It was like kissing the love of my love who I had been with for 10 years. I know it sounds bizarre. It was like I already knew him. It was tender and beautiful and not what usually happens in the surroundings that we were in. I have never been so loved and he has given me what I have always dreamed about since I was a young girl.

I don't really have a right to speak here and usually when i don't have a right i don't speak but this time i will.

My theory is pretty simple, if you fall in love and you are really both 'in love' your relationship will last out until either one of you dies. If you break up it means you were not in love because something got in the way of your love. Therefore it was not love because love is eternal. This means that although i have had girlfriends that i have really liked, unfortunately with my theory i have never loved them or they have not loved me. Which is a real shame as i don't like to go into relationships that have no future.


thats kind of contradiction, your really involved but miles away, with respect for a proper relationship you need to be able to spend a lot of time with each other, not just spending time on the phone or with e-mail exchanges. Love cannot live if you do not spend a durable amount of time together.

Its funny how some people look at what my relationship is with this guy that way. I mean, its your perception and I respect it. But love works in entirely different situation for me. It hasn't been easy keeping our love, but more than the words we exchange with each other, we exchange dreams and plans. It doesn't end where we are right now. Love works mysteriously. Who are we to question that?

Its not an end.. Only the Beginning.. Whats to come is worth the wait.
What some people dont understand is. If what you have can survive the distance.
Then it was meant to be..



Scholars everyhere have spent years trying to understand it..
But only the Heart really knows the answers..

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most: saying something and wishing you hadn't or saying nothing and wishing you had? I guess the most important things are the hardest to say. Don't be afraid tho tell someone you love them. If you do they might break your heart... but if you don't,you might break theirs.

The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesnt hurt her anymore...Yet regardless whether you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them... it matters not.Because once in your life whatever they were to the world they become the world to you.When you look them in the eyes traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without a trace of sound you know that your own life is inevitably consumed with the rhythmic beatings of her very own heart. We love them for a million reasons, no paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of a mind, but of the heart. A feeling. Only felt.