Married and engaged couples with wandering eyes...

Would u be angry if u knew ur spouse was looking at other people? U know checking out other people in a sexual manor? Is it wrong for some1 to so? Would u want to breakup with the person if it was a regular occurance?

what's your thought on this rocky? you never seem to want to share your side of things.. you just ask, ask and ask. hmmm.. are you really a man? hehe

Well if it was a reoccuring thing with my GF i'd break up. I feel its like cheating. I would probably assume she'd cheat on me later after those wondering eyes saw something she just had to have! Im very loyal and i expect the same out of my GF!

Wondering eyes are disrespectful as hell. I'd dump his pathetic dupa.

disrespectful, i'll agree but it depends as some people like to look around. you don't know if they are actually checking someone else's goods or just have turrets.

How do you know if they are wandering or wondering? Maybe the partner is checking out other people and comparing them to you and they are coming up short. Which is reaffirming that they are on to a good thing already.

oh dj u can tell when some1 is looking at some1 else in a sexual manor. At least I can! If u can't ur just not very perceptive!

Sounds like you are paranoid. Scared a polish guy will steal your girl???
Unless someone is blatantly obvious (tongue out dribbling, not really paying attention, spinning head when a good looking member of the opposite sex walks past etc) then how do you know what they are thinking?
You dont.

HA omgah omgah i just almost fell out of my chair. No I am not worried at all. I haven't yet met a polish "boy" who is up to par with me. Not even close. I actually started this thread b/c I have a friend who always says in front of her BF "ooo look at that guy if i was single i'd xxxxx him." Just whenever she sees some guy she thinks is hot or watever

Im really bothered by this and i feel terrible for her BF and just don't understand how he can put up with it!

Shes cheating on you Rocky, sorry pal.

they can look, but they cant touch. you sound very insecure here, Rocky. u caught your lady checking out some hot hunk? we always tease each other with my man saying 'ooh id tap that' ha ha when we watch tv or see someone nice on the street. it doesnt mean anything. its not very attractive to be so jealous and possesive.

It's always a "friend". Man up. :)

Personally in my relationship, this wouldn't bother me, or her. We are such incredible friends we joke about this type of thing occasionaly. The trust issue is just there for us is all.

On the other hand...saying something in the lines of "if I were single I'd..." is sketchy, depending how it's said.

GL Rocky, hope you work this out.

tough one, i think it depends on the couple, some men/women cant stand it some dont bother their arse, (my girl and myself are the latter), even if its as trival as ogling somebody on the telly that can be enough to cause ruptions.... ive seen it for myself...

it depends on two things, trust and jelousy......

Wise words indeed.

I bet u'd know from experience huh justysias? =D I love how i post this topic to stir up some fun and every1 tries to imply that its me or my GF who has the wondering eyes!

..........is that the one you got from realdoll.com!

Yes GD exactly!

........so you got the one with the moving eyes? I hear you pay extra for that Rocky.
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you seem to know a bit much about the blowups. how many of these do you have?

I know huh plk!!!? I didn't know they had them with moving eyes. Dude ur the one giving me websites for them and telling me the features! Creepo r u a blowup doll salesman or something?

i think he's also a satisfied customer. hahahaha

Ok, I admit that was funny.

I agree with Justysia that you must be very insecure. If you trust one another then you wouldn't worry about it. Take for an example a famous movie star who is happily married and has fans around the world, fan mail all the time, yet they are married and their spouses understand. There has to be trust and understanding between couples but of course, sometimes there isn't.

then you better throw away those playboy mags soon or your going to get
tossed to the curb :) lol

haaaaaaaaaaaaa i have my own playmate in my bed next to me y would i need one thats made out of paper?

Kidding rocky..

and I think your exzaggerating a bit..

anyway.. time to get going :)

wise words, me and my previous gf always used to tease each other, i always won because i had more ways of saying 'i'd like to bang that' :)
i know he seems a really hot prospect for a life of love and marriage don't you think Dzhaklin??? Dzhaklin are you there??? Dam i think she's already on the plane to go marry this guy :)

Is that why shes a previous gf??? :-P

lol, i see your thinking but no, she had to go back home, which was another country, so we broke it off

i am quite an experienced person thank you so if you ever need advice, hit me up ha ha