I had to read this thread a few times. Sometimes I think I wandered into another dimension

Hey, why do people say one nationality is this or another nationality is that? My girlfriend is Polish. I didn't choose her because she is Polish, she just happens to be Polish. For all I care she could be from outer space. I like her for the person she is, not for where she comes from. How do I know what country my soulmate comes from; if I meet someone who I get along with, then I'm not going to say "Oh, you are Polish, I don't like Polish women because I heard they are not special" - eh??! What century do some people live in