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Sep 11, 11, 17:37 #1

Hello Every one,

I am new in this forum and i hope i am welcomed.I am a Nigerian who Graduated from Akademia Morska in Gdynia living with his Polish Wife in krakow.I have been married for less than a year,i i must confess its kind of challanging living in Krakow without friends.I have a well paid job,and i work 2 months offshore,2 months vacation at home,but the marriage has been very challanging.We are very comfortable financially and in every material aspect.I tried my very best to be a loving and caring guy but something still seems missing.She a very good person,she makes a lot of efforts for the relationship too.I cant still figure out what is missing.But like every one ,we all need someone to listen to or talk,which makes us feel a lot better.My sitaution is kind of complicated,because i think we just lost it,if the is anyone out here in Krakow who wants to talk or is in the same sitaution cos sincerely i dont know what to do, i will deeply appreciate a listenning ears.It dosent matter is you are black,white or what ever,am very open to hear from you.

Many thanks

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Sep 11, 11, 21:09 #2

You have different upbringings, different culture, you don't have many common interests that keeps you going together.
You fell in love, got married and now what? You got carried away with emotions, thought life would be wonderful, had plans for the future and then reality kicks in and now you're stuck.
Happens all the time but life isn't over. Yet. You have made that decission to marry but you are drifting apart. If you feel trapped, don't have that same chesmistry with your wife like you did when you met her and feel like things aren't working out, then why suffer in this relationship. Things will not get better if you don't try to do things together, like going on a trip, walks, concerts. Don't know what you do together, but if that "click" isn't there, you need to get out and find happiness elsewhere, because it might get ugly.

umohThreads: 1 Posts: 3 Joined: Sep 11, 11 ♂	Sep 11, 11, 23:04 #3
Many thanks for you response.But i know that every relationship has challanges,just like life it self.I dont think its a good idea to give up on a relationship just becasue it not working for a whiel,i think life is filled with ups and down.

pawianThreads: 90 Posts: 5,396 Joined: May 30, 08 ♂	Sep 12, 11, 00:37 #4
=umoh]if the is anyone out here in Krakow who wants to talk or is in the same sitaution cos sincerely i dont know what to do, i will deeply appreciate a listenning ears.It dosent matter is you are black,white or what ever,am very open to hear from you. Why don`t you say you are looking for a lover???

umohThreads: 1 Posts: 3 Joined: Sep 11, 11 ♂	Sep 12, 11, 05:00 #5
common,you dont need to disguise tolook for a lover.The fact that i appreciate how other people think and see things dosent mean i am looking for a lover,you are a bit unfair for been in such a rush to judge me this way.

sma	Sep 12, 11, 08:23 #6
umoh, please ignore some of the idiots on here. They're just trying to provoke a response from you.

umohThreads: 1 Posts: 3 Joined: Sep 11, 11 ♂	Sep 12, 11, 08:32 #7
Many thanks Sma,i learnt to look towards the other side most times, i dont have to respond to what every body says.Is anything really wrong in seeking for an advice or sharing experiences?i dont get some dudes you know

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Edited by: pawian Sep 12, 11, 17:11 #8

=umoh]It dosent matter is you are black,white or what ever,am very open to hear from you.

It is good you are not racist.
Butn be frank and say openly: would you prefer a white or black or another lover? A man or a woman?

I insist on you looking for a lover because yours is a standard talk of men in sex need. They claim they want to talk, exchange opinions, and then all of them propose bed or other places for sex.
I heard it hundreds of times.

rozumiemnicThreads: 4 Posts: 1,020 Joined: Nov 16, 09 ♀	Sep 12, 11, 17:39 #9
I heard it hundreds of times. something you're not telling us Pawian?..:)

teflcatThreads: 6 Posts: 1,076 Joined: May 29, 11 ♂	Sep 12, 11, 18:21 #10
umoh. Perhaps your working regime is the problem. You are either away working, just got back and taking it easy, or getting ready to go away again. Women want stability. Can't you find a job that keeps you home more? Don't mind Paw. He probably had a bad mushroom weekend.

pawianThreads: 90 Posts: 5,396 Joined: May 30, 08 ♂	Sep 12, 11, 19:41 #11
=rozumiemnic]something you're not telling us Pawian?..:) You are intelligent.... :):):):)

rozumiemnicThreads: 4 Posts: 1,020 Joined: Nov 16, 09 ♀	Sep 12, 11, 20:06 #12
oh thanks Pawian! xx

urszulaThreads: 2 Posts: 362 Joined: Aug 31, 07 ♀	Sep 15, 11, 09:38 #13
umoh, please ignore some of the idiots on here. They're just trying to provoke a response from you. Yeah, don't ask us anything because we're all idiots. Next time tell him to talk to a psychologist, sma, coz we didn't give him the answer you liked.

pawianThreads: 90 Posts: 5,396 Joined: May 30, 08 ♂	Sep 15, 11, 20:32 #14
Next time tell him to talk to a psychologist, sma, coz we didn't give him the answer you liked. What if sma is a psychologist him/herself?

dtaylor5632Threads: 49 Posts: 4,459 Joined: May 2, 09 ♂	Sep 15, 11, 20:50 #15
Next time tell him to talk to a psychologist, sma, coz we didn't give him the answer you liked. No need for that, just talk to your wife and find out where you both think you are in regards to ur relationship.

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