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Do mix culture marriages work?
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FISZ
  May 24, 07, 16:47  #31
Because other cultures can make discussion more interesting. When you're in a relationship with someone, you want to learn everything about that persons culture. You can live by both. F ex I have no culture in America, but I try to learn everything about my gf's culture because it's interesting for me and it creates many discussion points.

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sapphire
  May 24, 07, 16:47  #32
because the sex is great

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FISZ
  May 24, 07, 16:47  #33
...and because the sex is great :)

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shewolf
  May 24, 07, 16:54  #34
Quoting: sapphire
because the sex is great


Quoting: FISZ
...and because the sex is great :)


Is it better? What makes it better? Seriously. I'm dying to know here. :)

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southern
  May 24, 07, 16:56  #35
Quoting: shewolf
Is it better? What makes it better?

EE girls have a master qualification in b..I forgot the other letter.

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shewolf
Edited by: shewolf  May 24, 07, 16:59  #36
Quoting: southern
EE girls have a master qualification in b..I forgot the other letter.


So do American girls. What's different?

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southern
  May 24, 07, 17:08  #37
American girls are second class in that.Even Marlene Dietrich stated it.

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Matyjasz
  May 24, 07, 17:09  #38
Quoting: FISZ
F ex I have no culture in America, but I try to learn everything about my gf's culture because it's interesting for me and it creates many discussion points.



Don't be so harsh Fisz. Pop-culture is also a kind of culture. It has its bright and dark sides. Personally I can't imagine my life without Ramones, Stephen King, Tarantino and Woody Allen. :)

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shewolf
  May 24, 07, 17:19  #39
Quoting: southern
American girls are second class in that.Even Marlene Dietrich stated it.


I didn't know Marlene Dietrich had experience with women. :)

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southern
  May 24, 07, 17:25  #40
Quoting: shewolf
I didn't know Marlene Dietrich had experience with women. :)

Maybe she had.However she did not talk about women pleasing women but about women techniques on men.

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southern
  May 24, 07, 17:29  #41
She stated clearly.European girls do it better.

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adilski
  May 24, 07, 18:59  #42
it depends if you want to make it work.. commitment respect caring and sharing and sometimes keeping ur mouth shut
if people werent always thinking of short term fun and long term happiness everyone would be happy... respect each other as people not as someone who is polish or english or muslim or jey as people.. if u take all the excess bagage out then marriage is a success

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curlyspy007
  May 24, 07, 19:02  #43
Quoting: adilski
it depends if you want to make it work

i think it does work, its the love and bond between two people...

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adilski
  May 24, 07, 19:06  #44
love isnt the only motivation, because it is evident in western cultures that many people fall in love many times.. marriage is a loving commitment that requires two people to share one common factor - continuation - till death do us apart - that way you both will be patient with each other and make it happen...

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curlyspy007
  May 24, 07, 19:17  #45
Quoting: adilski
love isnt the only motivation

i totally agree that there is the cultural factor to think about and the continuation, but do you think they have the patience to take the time to make it happen?...because till death do us part has almost become meaningless when two people are blessed as man and wife...and its happening in a lot of cases...sad but true my friend

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adilski
  May 24, 07, 19:22  #46
yes you are surely right, gone are the days when a tv would last generations the little 14 inch black n white passed down from gramps... if people stop n think about wats happenin in the world n talk to each other we can make peace n love n long lasting marriages

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curlyspy007
  May 24, 07, 19:23  #47
here here my friend

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curlyspy007
  May 24, 07, 19:25  #48
Quoting: adilski
yes you are surely right

you posted the last msg in that forum about black guys and polish girls

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sapphire
  May 25, 07, 03:54  #49
Quoting: southern
EE girls have a master qualification in b..I forgot the other letter.

Quoting: adilski
sometimes keeping ur mouth shut

this made me laugh.. surely not at the same time!...........and I wasnt actually referring to the girls :)

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Karima
  May 25, 07, 04:23  #50
Quoting: 99nat122413
Do mix culture marriages work? share your thoughs with me

Of cours my family and me we are alive example it work great..
-not always is that but its still possible

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sapphire
  May 25, 07, 04:41  #51
sex..............

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curlyspy007
  May 25, 07, 05:07  #52
Quoting: sapphire
sex..............

i agree with you there

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unicornes
  May 25, 07, 05:11  #53
Quoting: curlyspy007


Quote . Today, 05:07 . #53

Quoting: sapphire
sex..............

i agree with you there


b***t!! why do u ppl base good relationship on sex?? or maybe i am the one who live in another world?

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curlyspy007
  May 25, 07, 05:16  #54
Quoting: unicornes
maybe i am the one who live in another world?

maybe...

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curlyspy007
  May 25, 07, 05:21  #55
Quoting: curlyspy007
maybe i am the one who live in another world?

ok, jokes aside yeah, a good relationship is based on honesty, communication, culture, commitment, the love for one another, and good sex...

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vanda1 [Guest]
  May 25, 07, 05:59  #56
Quoting: Justyna69
I guess you're asking me if I would marry one of them... Yes I would if i'd loved them.
Love doesn't know races, countries, religions etc........ If it's a true love...


I totally agree with u, some ppl still cant look past colour ,nationality and religion but every1 should to be judged by their individuality

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sapphire
Edited by: sapphire  May 25, 07, 06:06  #57
I was joking... there is more than sex of course... but it is important too

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vanda1 [Guest]
  May 25, 07, 06:06  #58
Quoting: unicornes
it may works, but ppl in mixed marriage must work harder. there are girls from europe who marry arabs, without any preparation, i mean, they know NOTHING about that culture, how should they behave, what shoudl they expect. 'because i fell in love'. after some time differences start to pinch. . and lack of knowledge appears to be reason to divorce. but if we try to find out as much as possible about our future - let s say- arab, moslem husband, if we accept his way of life, if we know what should we be ready for in relationship with him-then it should work!


you really know what ur talkin about .
i also fell in love with a muslim guy i though i could adjust to their way of living but after while pressure got me ,his family got too involved and i realised i couldnt change who i was to please him he wanted me to be some1else .

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sapphire
  May 25, 07, 06:12  #59
Quoting: vanda1
i realised i couldnt change who i was to please him he wanted me to be some1else .

thats always a good thing to remember.. but sometimes difficult to put into practice.. when we fall in love we want to please our partner, and sometimes try to change things in order to do so. subtle changes are OK, but when your partner wants you to change who you are, you are losing your identity and the very thing that probably attracted them to you in the first place.. you both end up unhappy .. you because you no longer are what you want to be and them cos they no longer recognise you.

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davidpeake
  May 25, 07, 06:13  #60
totally agree sapphire

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