How much do you HATE POLISH PEOPLE and POLAND

You're missing the point:

1. So the fella strayed... it happened with Magda in Krakow - but it could so easily have been with Donna in accounts.

2. So Magda from Krakow realised that she was onto a meal ticket... fair play to her.

I think you've become too involved in this. What happened? It riled you so much you sat down at the computer and searched for a Polish web site in particular just so you could blow off steam?



Good points.

The saying "it takes two to Tango" springs to mind...

First the married guy is just as guilty as the gold diggin girl, if he kept his di*k in his pants than he would not have gotten in the trouble he has......

With that said, though innocentlady went overboard because such women can be found in every culture and this happens in every part of the world.... There is no good excuse the women can have for her actions..... I don't care if it was to help her child or not.... You want to help your child than stop being a wh*re and get a real job....

She was the only one making a decision here? It takes two to cheat. And the woman wasn't married.

Yes, you are upset but this is so bizarre to include all Polish women in this category due to one instance.

No, dont think it would have been Donna from accounts. His job played a part in this too, working away puts people in situations that they would not normally find themselves in, so he had more opportunity to spend more time with this woman than he normally would. And she did turn up wherever he was by finding out through her boss where they would be, and making herself very available. No excuses for him, he should have kept his dick in his pants. The reason I'm so upset- well i'm the wife concerned, and yes, i do hate all Polish women at the moment, think you would too, and yes i did go looking for a site to vent some anger, but he has chosen me because he loves me, and he feels real stupid for being made to look a pratt. Good. But he thinks she is a money grabbing ***** too. And I am really looking forward to his next trip to Poland, I'll be going with him from now on, and i cant wait to meet her....

It looks like you are going to stay with your hubby and good luck to you. We all make mistakes. Its going to take some time before you trust him again and there will be tough times but.........25years and two kids counts for a lot.

The passport, money grabbing thing is just a distraction. Whats he going to say to his wife - " yeah I made a mistake, but hey, what a babe " ?


Stick around the forums and pick up some tips on how to make the most of your trip.

Hey, I kind of guessed you were the wife involved yesterday but I didn't really want to say because obviously, you are hurting. Can I just say, I wouldn't hate all Polish women in a situation like this. If the woman was from say, Bridlington, would you then hate all women from there and find a Bridlington forum? Nope. You hate this one particular woman and she just happens to be Polish. Don't lump everyone into the same catergory.

I hope you and your husband can get through this but you won't make any friends here if you come here and call all Polish women whores etc, you'll just get a negative reaction and that won't help your healing any. Otherwise though, people here can be very helpful and sympathetic.

Good luck :)

Polska doll you are blessed with sincereity

Why do I get the feeling that innocentlady is talking about her own husband? If it were just a friend, I would call him an *sshole, but I would leave his business and troube be his...

Oh shoot, didn't read PolskaDoll's last post - I was too quick again :) Sorry about that, but anyway, I do think that innocentlady is talking about her own husband.
M-G

Maregaea, have a coffee and read the rest of the recent part of the topic ;)

Hi innocentlady - I did wonder if perhaps you were the wife, and I am sorry to hear what you are going through.

I am by no means an expert, however I get the impression that this all happened fairly recently, so the feelings are still quite raw. I hope that you are your husband can worth through things.

I also echo szkotja2007, if you are going to be making frequent trips to Poland, do stick around on PF as Poland is a fascinating place to visit. I first went there on a business trip a couple of years ago, and have been back on short trips and holidays ever since, exploring the rest of the country.

Ok, ok, I'm going to get some coffee :) Ah well, it's still early, eh? :)

M-G

Hmmm I hope that it resolves the issue for you if you do go. What sort of a bloke though wants his wife to confront someone he has had an affair with ? Stinks of humiliation to me for the wife concerned. I think he should have the guts to sort it out himself, grovel to his wife and prove to her that he really is sorry, draw a line over what's happened and make it up to her in other ways. Or maybe I'm just very inexperienced and don't understand such scenarios :(

I am so sorry for what you have gone through. I agree, he should grovel and be making it up to you. She is a money grubbing 'ho and if I were in your place, I'd want to go to Poland and kick her ass. His too, though, because he should have been thinking with his other head and his heart. I do hope you go and find that Polish women should not be judged by one greedy 'ho although I suspect you know that already.

That just goes to show you have never been in that situation. I know when an ex of mine went off with a foriegn forefathered chappie I wasnt too keen on members of his community for quite some time.......but once I realised she was just a b itch I soon enough got over it and reverted to type :)

How do you know this ?

now im lost !!!! polish women r that bad ?????????????????????

yes they are the worst from all over the world :P

they just look so sweet lol :P believe me ... they are true vampires ...

Lenght of life in Poland:

Men 70 y

Woman 79 y

...

you should better stay in Egipt ...

u really scared the hell on me !!!!!! and its too late to stay im comming to warsaw to visit my gf after 10 days !!!! i hope u r joking !

I am not joking, Polish girls are so sweet and naive at the begining ... later everything changes ...

read it man

http://www.polishforums.com/polish_girlfriend_obsessive_not-36_18365_0 .html

and think twice ...

cheers ;)

:)

I am thinking about moving to Egipt, do you think it is good option to find woman ?

welcome to egypt man :) but find a woman !!! strange question !! evrywhere in the world u can find a woman to be with :) it depends on u , and by the way its too late to think again about my gf :) im already going to meet her parents

oh yes it is true especialy in Egipt ...

i will take it in good meaning !!!!

holy shiiit man , thats almost what is going with me !!!!!!!!!