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lonely
  Nov 27, 07, 11:44  #91

i have to go now but feel free to comment. i will reply when i log in again. thank you to everyone who took time to help me.

 
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lonely
  Nov 27, 07, 11:45  #92

Quoting: plk123
hooking is not normal so that's why i'd ponder that question. mentally healthy people don't walk the street.


she seemed pretty level to me plk123. i can smell bull **** a mile off so i know this girl is not taking me for a ride.

 
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Zgubiony
  Nov 27, 07, 11:48  #93

Quoting: plk123
hooking is not normal

In your eyes maybe. It's just another occupation...an illegal one in most places and dirty/dangerous, but it's still a job and easy $ making job. There are call girls in Manhattan that make $1000 in 1 hr. it's apersonal choice in some cases. I don't approve of it, but it works for some.

 
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plk123
  Nov 27, 07, 11:49  #94

Quoting: lonely
she seemed pretty level to me plk123. i can smell bull **** a mile off so i know this girl is not taking me for a ride.

i just hope for you that she's stable.. like i said, good luck man.

 
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plk123
  Nov 27, 07, 11:52  #95

Quoting: Zgubiony
In your eyes maybe.

my eyes only? i think it isn't normal by societal standards.. i have nothing against call girls.. nothing at all.. they do perform a service and it's a needed one. :D

but i also think that someone who'd sell themselves like that have some bigger issues. i've known may girls who'd work several jobs or whatever, to make ends meet but didn't sell themselves.

 
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Zgubiony
  Nov 27, 07, 11:55  #96

Quoting: plk123
my eyes only

I didn't say yours only.
Quoting: plk123
they do perform a service and it's a needed one

haha yeah very...just ask lonely ;)
Quoting: plk123
who'd sell themselves like that have some bigger issues

There are always other issues.

 
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covkid65
  Nov 27, 07, 12:26  #97

I say give it a go,as long as you can take it on the chin if it doesnt work out,you have nothing to lose,good luck!

 
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Lady in red [Guest]
  Nov 27, 07, 14:24  #98

What I don't quite understand is why you feel the need to come onto a Forum
and ask strangers for their opinions ? Surely, if you like her a lot and she likes you a lot, this should surely be discussed between yourselves privately ? Why look for others opinions, especially when these other people know nothing about you or this lady ?

Sounds like you may be very uncertain and also have some doubts yourself ?

Also, surely if she is 'in love with you' as you said she has told you, she would want to get an ordinary job straight away ? But how on earth can you be 'in love' with someone after only knowing them for five days ?

I do wish you well however :)) It's important to follow your heart and be happy is my view.

 
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Zgubiony
  Nov 27, 07, 14:27  #99

Quoting: Lady in red
What I don't quite understand is why you feel the need to come onto a Forum
and ask strangers for their opinions ?

Isn't this what 80% of the members come here for? I've asked advice in here, maybe not relationship advice though. To see an array of opinions can really help a person out be it positive or negative.

 
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Daisy
  Nov 27, 07, 14:36  #100

Just call me Ms 20%

 
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marek s
  Nov 27, 07, 14:42  #101

Quoting: Lady in red
how on earth can you be 'in love' with someone after only knowing them for five days

i agree with above.

 
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Lady in red [Guest]
  Nov 27, 07, 14:46  #102

Quoting: Zgubiony
To see an array of opinions can really help a person out be it positive or negative.


Yes, I don't disagree Zguby but I think that the poster is having many doubts but doesn't want to admit them to himself. This guy only joined yesterday, none of us know him or her, so for something as important as that, I would have thought the discussion at this stage should only be between themselves ?

But I am absolutely no expert on these sort of issues and I don't mind admitting that. Just if he was so sure about the lady and her feelings why does he need to ask our advice at this particular stage.......as I said before, this is just my personal view that is all.

 
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Zgubiony
  Nov 27, 07, 14:57  #103

Quoting: Lady in red
this is just my personal view that is all

Of course and you're entitled and I agree with you to a point, but maybe he's just getting a "feel" for things.

 
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Lady in red [Guest]
  Nov 27, 07, 15:32  #104

Quoting: Zgubiony
he's just getting a "feel" for things.


True :)) Hope he gets the feedback he is looking for and can work out the best way forward.

 
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Wroclaw
  Nov 27, 07, 15:44  #105

Quoting: Lady in red
This guy only joined yesterday, none of us know him or her,


He could be familiar with the forum and using a second user name.

 
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Lady in red [Guest]
  Nov 27, 07, 15:48  #106

Quoting: Wroclaw
He could be familiar with the forum and using a second user name.


True. But if he is doing that, the point about us not knowing him still stands does it not ?

:)

 
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miranda
  Nov 27, 07, 15:56  #107

Quoting: Wroclaw
He could be familiar with the forum and using a second user name.

why would he do that? I am familiar with the forum and that is why I would never ask such personal opinion, because I know what people would say.

 
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plk123
  Nov 27, 07, 16:11  #108

Quoting: miranda
I know what people would say.

you think you know.. you always get some unecpected ideas no matter what you think you know.

 
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miranda
  Nov 27, 07, 16:17  #109

Quoting: plk123
you think you know..

well, I think that I do, because I have been reading some of the member's answers for a year now, so I have some idea about their core values. I meant long term members.

 
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Wroclaw
  Nov 27, 07, 16:29  #110

Quoting: Lady in red
True. But if he is doing that, the point about us not knowing him still stands does it not ?


Indeed.

Quoting: miranda
why would he do that? I am familiar with the forum and that is why I would never ask such personal opinion, because I know what people would say.


I was just answering a question. In fact I have no reason to doubt 'lonely'

I stand corrected.

 
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marek s
Edited by: Admin  Nov 27, 07, 21:07  #111

heres some real good reading about people who lie.

The Truth About Lying
Our Lives Are Filled With Untruths. But Why Do We Lie, And How Can We Tell When Others Are Full of It?

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/11/21/AR2007 112102164.html

after knowing somebody for a few days, how can a person have so much trust?

 
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lonely
  Nov 28, 07, 03:18  #112

Quoting: Lady in red
What I don't quite understand is why you feel the need to come onto a Forum
and ask strangers for their opinions ?


lol is this not what the forum is for? I feel it easier to chat to strangers (Which you all are lets face it) regarding this subject. I like to hear different points of view... where's the harm in that?

In regards to having doubts... of course i have doubts as we all do when relationships are involved. People can let you down and nobody likes the prospect of that.

What a lot of people need to do is chill out a bit, live and let live.

 
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lonely
  Nov 28, 07, 03:27  #113

Quoting: Zgubiony
haha yeah very...just ask lonely ;)


lol zgubiony you are a funny dude.

 
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Jambo
  Nov 28, 07, 03:46  #114

Quoting: lonely
lol is this not what the forum is for?


I agree completely and was why I joined and got lots of useful comments. Lady in Red's comments are quite bizarre. This is the whole point of the site.

 
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lonely
  Nov 28, 07, 03:49  #115

Quoting: Jambo
I agree completely and was why I joined and got lots of useful comments. Lady in Red's comments are quite bizarre. This is the whole point of the site.


Thanks jambo. I was begining to think i was wrong lol

 
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Lady in red [Guest]
  Nov 28, 07, 04:06  #116

Quoting: Jambo
Lady in Red's comments are quite bizarre.


Are they heck bizzarre........ my comment was just my views on what the poster 'lonely ' wrote. I wasn't referring to anybody elses threads for support or help.

And precisely which part of my post did you actually find was 'bizzare' then, out of interest ?

Quoting: Jambo
the whole point of the site.


think the Polish Forums is more than just being an 'Agony Aunt' column though.

'lonely' asked for views, everyone is entitled to post their views. It's quite sad when some people cannot read and appreciate other's points of views without petty name calling or making silly comments ..........:((

But have a 'nice day' anyway.

 
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Jambo
  Nov 28, 07, 04:23  #117

You commented you did not understand why he had come on this forum and discuss his issue. It is that comment I found bizarre as that is the whole point of Polish Love and Relationships. I was not commenting on anything else you posted just that comment

 
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Jambo
  Nov 28, 07, 04:24  #118

And I have not called you names.

 
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Lady in red [Guest]
  Nov 28, 07, 04:33  #119

Quoting: Jambo
You commented you did not understand why he had come on this forum and discuss his issue.



Ok, thanks for explaining that to me.

But I still think your use of the word 'bizzarre' very unusual but each to their own opinion and use of vocabulary.

I still stand by everything I wrote and if you want a thorough analysis of why am more than happy to oblige........

:))

 
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Lady in red [Guest]
  Nov 28, 07, 04:37  #120

Quoting: Jambo
And I have not called you names.


You haven't and I admit that it's very easy to misinterpret things when the main communication is by the written word........

and i did on this occassion.


:))

 
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