ShelleyS: I dont want to turn this into a war of the sexes but if these girls were a bit loose, what about the kind of guys that they slept with? I dont think the fact that they slept with him really says anything about their morals or what kind of girls they were and it's unfair to call them on that. What has happened is a terrible for anyone involved who may have HIV.
Amen to that.
Kilkline: I may get shot down for this but when it comes to sex it isnt the same rules for men and women. A woman can get pregnant and therefore should have more care with who she sleeps with.
Unless she decides to sterilize herself. Oh, and some women can't get pregnant. That's also nature. I think the same rules apply, sorry. A man is just as responsible for getting the woman pregnant as the woman herself is. I mean, you're not going to tell me a guy doesn't know what he's doing..
miranda: It is OK for a men to have a number of partners and being perceived as a stud but if a woman sleeps around she is a w......,
The funny part is, that it's usually (Not always though!) the women who call eachother sluts? I'd call a man who is sexually active, sexually active, just like I would call a woman who is sexually active, sexually active. I mean, why should we call peaches strawberries or vice versa?
miranda: so I am not shooting you down for this yet, men can impregnate women. In fact, a woman cannot get pregnant by herself and men should be as concerned about pregnancy as women.
I really don't mind who sleeps around with who, but I would ask any guy who makes a woman pregnant these questions: Does she want to raise the child? If so, does she want you to be around? Was she pretty enough for you to sleep with? If so, why aren't you taking your responsibility? I mean, if she's good enough for you to sleep with, she should be good enough to be your wife.. (Or atleast your child should be good enough for you to support financially!)
I don't really want a baby, but if I made someone pregnant and she likes me well enough, I'll be there - provided she can prove that it's my child and not someone else's - when she asks me to be there, because at the end of the day, almost every woman has something sweet about her. (Atleast that's what I like to think!) I'm not going to call a woman a slut simply for having her desires, especially not because I don't mind having sex myself..
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You might think they've been stupid, that's fair enough, and probably true, but don't tell me these girls deserved any of this. This guy knew, so this guy was responsible for not telling them.
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