OK so he/she cheated... What next?

This I COMPLETELY agree with. I'd never cheat nor help someone do it.

A guy at work asked me out.

I pointed to his ring and said "I think the answer might be 'no' somehow" and he said rings could be taken off.

The look he received was enough.

i don't know that feeling... i've never been cheated... or i don't know about it...
i hope it'll never happen, but you never know...

i'm sorry 0Adam0 about what's happened...and no more:)

:).
The one I'm talking about didn't cheat on me - though someone else did oddly enough the first girl I opened myself too - maybe this is a running theme :P
No the one I'm talking about just decided that her misery was more important and finally - after many threats - broke it off with me over something highly exagerated and fabricated. Even after she knew how hard it was for me to open u to her- I still did - her feelings of loneliness were more important than my heart breaking and being squished apparently.

Sorry about what's happend...and no more?
I'm confused lol. (Not a regular occurance :P)
Do you mean you're only sorry that this happened to me and the rest of me is really great?
Or is it a hidden message I'm too tired to get :P

Hopefully it won't stop you from doing it in the future again!

lol... i'm sorry that you got hurt and no more cheating by girls....

sorry i'm tired too.. and i'm in the middle of getting ready for my date.... we'll see how it goes....

anyway.... don't worry Adam... smile for me, please :D

im sorry to be blunt, but if someone cheats you, can you really have a future with that person? if you love that person yes it might be hard to leave, but hey, could you be happier with someone you love who doesnt cheat you?

maybe it will be one for the 'perfect date' thread ;p

Thanks. I'm not normally so much of a push over - but she made my legs crumble when I saw her (not just looks wise)

hehe - Hope you date goes well.!

:) I'm always smiling. Ok maybe not - but as much as possible. :) see smiling for ya :D

Of course one may be happier with a love, who is a non-cheater. Trust and honesty play important roles in any relationship.