Ok GUYS....THIS is what women want...stop acting lame

First let me introduce myself.. Just call me The Rich Boy (Nate), and for good reason. (my website is in my profile)

Ive spent a LOT of time actively studying women and dating, and how the whole process of attraction works between them.

This topic should be a STICKIED for sure, because it answers just about every question that ever gets posted in this forum.

I've learned a lot of very interesting things, things that almost seem the EXACT OPPOSITE of what would work "logically".

In this forum which i found yesterday, i see a common recurring problem with men.
You meet this great, sexy polish woman...you act all cool at first, and she actually starts to like you.

So you see each other on and off for a few months and you are REALLY into her...but suddenly shes avoiding you, acting distance, not returning your calls...saying stupid things like 'i need time for me' or 'its me, not you'. Crap right.

And then you're left there, heartbroken, wondering what the HELL happened??


Well, wake up call men! You probably started acting LAME!
Maybe i sound a little harsh here, but its the truth.

You probably started doing wussy things like
1. Talking about your emotions.
2. Telling her how much you like her.
3. Asking her if she likes you.
4. Asking her about "the relationship"
5. Just generally being boring and predictable.
6. Being too available, like you dont have anything else going on in your life BUT her.
7. Being clingy (women cant handle this kind of responsibility! they want a MAN, not a CHILD!)

The list could literally go on for pages and pages of wussy actions. Yes, wussy is what you think it is , a wimp + pus*y.


Anyway, back to the question. What do girls want?

Besides ME of course, they want the following:

1. A man in control
2. A man who is funny
3. A man who is spontaneous and NOT predictable, EVER
4. A man who is fun
5. A man who isnt affraid to put a girl in check when neccessary (This doesn't mean BE ABUSIVE!)
6. A man who is hard to get...always too unavailable.
7. A man who understands sexual communication
8. A man who is a sex GOD
9. A man who doesn't accept any BlTCHING or second class behavior from a woman.
10. Most important....A REAL man.


Okay...so I really am only touching the tip of the iceberg here...I could talk for hours about this topic...but hopefully I shed some extra light on a topic that is rarely ever directly addressed.

Anyway, let me hear everyone's responses!

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Dont even clutter this topic with stupid responses like that. if you dont have anything smart or interesting to say then just keep ur mouth shut. Its boring and shows that ur just that kind of person

they are lyrics from a Prince Buster song... just thought they were kinda appropriate given the context... it aint no thang...

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hah, we got a bunch of mature people round here dont we?

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What the hell? Ok i guess the peope with brains havent yet read this post yet. its serioulsy lame that you are actively trying to annoy my by posting zzzzzz...i really dont care, its just clutterful for the men who actually NEED TO read this.

Anyway cool, the more BS you post the longer my thread will stay at top. So keep it up

Not all women are like that but I hear ya. Some are, and those are the ones I avoid. Those high maintenance, drugged up on prozak, ******, *******, etc...

There are good girls out there. Relationships don't work because it wasn't meant to be. You have to be able to be best friends with your mate, but it has to happen naturally. You'll know it when you meet her.

The problem with all these guys on here being heartbroken or what not, is a self esteem issue on their part. They get too attached too fast. Take things slow and enjoy life, there are so many women out there, that you'll meet someone else for the better.

Nate, your site is down G :) Where you from, Ca?

I agree with most bolted no.

theyre brits what do you expect lol

So you dont agree with the things you made bold? Like telling her you like her...trust me, bad idea.

therichboy.com its up and working right now.

Im from arizona man, SCOTTSDALE - REPRESENT

Its ok we are used to American friendly fire now.

Sorry but


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Where is away guy and southern when you need them....?

Oh Lord! Should I drive down to Phoenix and bop you upside the head? ;)
Or just let you sit outside until the triple digits overcome ya? :)

Shawn, if you recall, Southern was expecting an out-of-town guest......so he's otherwise engaged at the moment....but he'll be back! :)

#1- only if he knows what hes doing
#2- humor is always a plus
#3-Depends on what... some men think spontaneous means Im going out you stay
home crapp.. (needs more clarification)

# 4 - fun goes with humor.. always a plus
# 5- watch for flying shoes
# 6- if we cant get you we forget you :)))
#7- Yeah as if you have the expert badge on that one.
# 8- I want a Equal partner, not someone who puts himself up there with god.
# 9- Watch out for flying fryin pans and chairs. ( take time to listen)

# 10- we need a clarification on Real man.. your a braggin a bit to much.. with
no real proof that you qualify as the "real Man" of the forum..

I know your trying to help.. but not everyone is the same. and if these guys listen
to the advice posted above from you then " good luck".

where do you guys go to meet these kind of chicks anyway???

if you dont mind me asking? was it a left over bon jovi concert or what?

ha ha,, sorry folks but I really like this one.. * pats self on back*... lol

Love your post patty :)

#1- only if he knows what hes doing
#2- humor is always a plus
#3-Depends on what... some men think spontaneous means Im going out you stay
home crapp.. (needs more clarification)

# 4 - fun goes with humor.. always a plus
# 5- watch for flying shoes
# 6- if we cant get you we forget you :)))
#7- Yeah as if you have the expert badge on that one.
# 8- I want a Equal partner, not someone who puts himself up there with god.
# 9- Watch out for flying fryin pans and chairs. ( take time to listen)

# 10- we need a clarification on Real man.. your a braggin a bit to much.. with
no real proof that you qualify as the "real Man" of the forum..

I know your trying to help.. but not everyone is the same. and if these guys listen
to the advice posted above from you then " good luck". [/quote]

ty Shelley :)))

19 years.. hes still a baby :))) lots to learnin still :)

you crack me up P :-)

bubba and patrycja still have got problem with age. Dude, look at urself! ure making so many stupid things like this: :))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) that it seems YOU are infantile, not me or Nate. Dont look at age and treat it like only argument. What would u say if ill be over 30. God, thank u that im not.

sweetheart... age has nothing to do with being a silly little girl... its a state of mind...

So maybe ull stop with writing everywhere how old i am, if it has really nothing to do. shuffler

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