sjbabac: I do too i am polish but no one in my family seems to be proud of it and i want my daughter to be proud of herself and where she came from and i feel like i need to set a good example. i was born in the united states my grandfather came here when he was an infant when he attented school a nun changed the spelling of our last name. i remember when i was younger (before my great grandparents died) he would speak polish w/ his mother on the phone. my little girl is the 3rd generation to be born in the u.s and here that is relatively new. i am interested in the polish culture and would like to learn the language......sorry i ramble on and on but you get the idea thanks anyone who might respond :)
I know many people who are ashamed of their Polish heritage and put on a facade. It is understandable to feel detached from your heritage if your family has lived in the United States for several generations, but many Poles who recently emigrated to a new country do it intentionally because they think it will give them financial benefits.
It seldom works in Europe because Europeans can easily tell each other apart. To be blunt, it only makes them look silly. Take me for example, I speak Swedish fluently but I've had Swedes address me in English because they mistook me for a tourist.
I know a Polish couple who went to Spain on holiday and they said they were from Sweden, and yet all the tourist guides were giving them Polish catch phrases.
"Dzień dobry, we have fresh fish on the meny today!" ---
"But.... we are from Sweden!"
"No no (laugh), jak się masz? See, I know! (laugh)"
They had not traveled abroad a lot in the past and thought that they could raise their status by pretending to be from Sweden. Communism has created this kind of mentality in Eastern Europe. I have some friends from Bulgaria and they are even worse than Poles!
jaidelexy: Hi all! I am new at this forum...I am looking for Polish friend (m or f)...just want to know more on culture...language....other things....I'm from the Philippines and a female....thanks! :)
Feel free to PM me if you want a Polish pen pal living in Sweden. It might perhaps even double the level of cultural exchange? -;)
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