Why people love? In other word its compromise .. not Love

why the people love. its sounds funny to every one. but i am so confused. i know a girl who was in love and got married. and after two year divosed. then again she met with a boy and had relation for 4 year and separated again.. and she said to me that she dont trust any one .. but next week she met with another person and now again she is in love.. dont you thing in other word love to compromise....

we all fall in love. it's part of being human. she is following her feelings.

but dont you think that people are using her. ... when she tell other about her past and people take advantages.

I think she is using them, too. She wouldn't do it if she didn't really like it.

but how she will settle her life.. all life like this

yes, relationships are full of compromises otherwise one will be alone.

she probably won't unless she says no and waits for the right person.

every time she time she saying this is the right person. .. but.............. how long she can...

There are different reasons why relationships fall apart and some people don't like to be alone. Sometimes the relationship gets bored and shifts from loving each other to arguing about money and other stuff.
You think you don't want to get involved anymore, but then this wonderful person enters your life and changes everything.

but then its not true love. ........ love mean ...if i love someone no matter what she does with me i will still love her...

maybe they were the right person for the moment. it's hard to know if something will last forever. nothing is guaranteed in life, especially in relationships.

you're young.. you'll find out more about this and change your view as you get older. true love? can you define it?

true love takes time to develop.

Right. Sometimes all it takes is one wrong word and then it's all over.

in love we dont care of money and other stuff.. its just trying to get rid off other person.

life

that's how it should be but that's not how it is because it has become too easy to walk away.

do you belive that love is meaning less

I don't think anybody does. that's why everyone looks for it. but there's a difference between being in love and developing real love. not everyone is looking for real love.

love is love.. it's not true or false.. it's just love.


is lust


is (just) love

then its not love. its called crush...

do you think real love is possible to find in one week?

To me, love sucks, it hurts, makes you miserable, get you in deep depression, make you go koko. In the other hand is everything that could make me completely happy :)

Today, people think that fukc and run is the way to go. Even if you are marry, fukc and run. If you have 6 children together, you fukc and run. Since there is such a thing *divorce* they don't care much. *why not, i'm getting new tighter pssy, and no stretch marks. Fukc! I can't wait for the day where boys can give birth, *why not!* your penis has a canal as well, it would just be a little harder to stretch it out.

If you mean meaning less, then I'd say probably. Other things mean less when you're in love.
If you mean meaningless, then I'd say no.

The great Osiol has spoken, all bow your heads.

here we go,, that wat i meant, that what i wanted to say ,, i coul't expaling. thanks for explaination, i am 100% agree with you but i have a qustion for you as well. they is the soulation for this ??

To many people don't take their time to develop a relation and get to know the person. I think the minimum I would have to know someone to get married is a year. Any less then that and you don't ever see their flaws. Someone could be a great person and you can be in love with them but that don't mean you are meant to be together.

no, crush = lust and has nothing to do with love


that's kind of barely scratching the surface too. it depends on the persons though.

hehehe

but now a days its called love. there is no real love.. its really hard to find real love.

I don't think there is. Once you're in love and very attach to that person, there is nothing you can do to abstain from getting hurt. From that moment, it's your partner's choice to hurt you or not lol That's what I think, it has happened to me and I had no control over it.
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Everything has changed over the time!!!! Today, there are lots of boys who are afraid of commitment. When back then, if you had a boyfriend, you had to stick with that person for the rest of your life because there wasn't such a thing called *divorce* And now, young people just want to have fun, teenagers getting pregnant, followed by an unwanted marriage that will end up in divorce. Life is wild! :D

Lots of people go koko when they are in love. And many times it's not even real love, it may just be a crush, an obsession... etc. They end up getting marry while in the koko stage and a year later one of them decides to end it up, deeply hurting the other person and what is left to say is *there are lots of fish in the sea* wow! finding nemo.