my polish boyfriend never says 'l love you' to me, what should i do?

.........Ossie take no notice of Amathyst. She is just messing about :)

Hi, guys,
I am moving to England at the end of this September.
It was my bf who wanted to live in England, i tried, and got a permenant job there, but he is hesitating leaving poland now, his business runs better
He said he loves me very much, it is clear we dont have any problems of feelings, but have to face the reality.
if he doesnt want to follow me to england as he said before, we are definitly over then.
During the last three months, i realized slowly that job is more important for woman than a man. especially he is not very mature as I thought before, he changes his mind pretty often, and easily be influenced by his friends around.
Anyway I did my best, and still doing my best. I am going to visit him again in August. He said he would help me move from Denmark to England, hope he wouldnt change his mind. I can do it myself for sure, but i will feel so miserbale to move alone and face all the troubles alone.

ok people. it doesnt matter what nationality we are, the bottom line is...love is the absence of anxiety...is this connection energizing or depleting, and nourishing to both parties? based on mutual power,exceptance and naturalness? a true loving relationship with any one is the absence of fear!!!! if your a mess,dump him. find some one who when your with him, you feel good, about him and most importantly feel good about your self. there are alot of fish out in the sea...place your self in other citys, situations, activities,etc....its a huge world if you just get out there.and as you wait for mr. right, focus on your self and self growth...list 5 things you have always wanted to do, even the ones you are scared to do...do then. my best and smile, valkyrie

I'm a polish man born and raised living now in US. Take this for what it's worth in my humble opinion all this, polish men this western men that etc. in the end don't matter. You seem like a fantastic woman simply looking to be happy. He may very well be a good man and love you. regardless of nationality men generally have communication problems. YOU need questions answered so stop worrying about upsetting him get together with him sit down and have and adult conversation like the two adults that both of you are. tell him what you need, ask him what he wants/needs and see if the two of you can come up with a solution.
be kind, be gentle but be honest with him and your self.
COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION tis the key to understanding and understanding is what u're missing.
and if you talk to him and if things just don't add up ........ become the intelligent woman you are and move on.
we both know there are many other good men out there....... yeah it can be hard to find a partner......... believe me i've been searching for a good woman for some time now but settling just to settle and be unhappy but not alone to me makes no sense.

I'm of the opinion that any man that **TRULY** LOVES a woman he'll do anything in his power to be with her. so his lack of effort smells a bit funny to me.
and
NO his bringing you over to the parents house does not mean he'll propose to you.

be strong, if he looses you, i'm sure it'll hurt you like hell but such is life and love
wonderful and beautiful, cruel and harsh.

Hell if things don't work out ....... find me and i'll tell you i love you every day and will not be threatened by your intelligence or your financial success, be glad for you to be my sugar mama ;)
life is funny, i've been looking for a woman like you for so long and you're in Denmark damn my luck :)

communication is the key-but if you cant get together to communicate -what then- just leave it unreosolved, questions unanswered-hard to make decisions when you havent got all thew facts

Moire hasnt been around here for some months now (since July) so it might not be worth responding to this until we hear if they are still together or not.

You actually have your answer if there is resistance to get together to talk...the facts are blaring right in a persons face...as mush as it hurts...its an easy decision. Husser is right!!! never settle, its a waist of any ones time...theres bound to be some one to love ya out there....so Moire has been gone...hope she read this stuff.

wow, there are really men who love women( A WOMAN ) that much? what a sight that would be to behold!!!:)