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the polish girl i love has gone back to poland .


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Sunflower
  Jul 17, 07, 03:14  #31

Sorry to say it but i have very litle compassion or sympathy for this person. Sounds like exploitation to me. You are 40 and she is 19.. ok, despite both being "consenting" adults you are married, she is of an age where she can probably still be "manipulated" and you have seriously disrespected and dishonoured your wife and your marriage vows. Grow up.

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peterweg
  Jul 17, 07, 06:22  #32

Of course its always the mans fault, but why are women in their early twenties or younger attracted to older men?

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Decorator
  Jul 17, 07, 06:30  #33

Quoting: peterweg
but why are women in their early twenties or younger attracted to older men?


Are they?? WooHoo... i'm going back down the gym..

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szarlotka
  Jul 17, 07, 06:33  #34

Quoting: Decorator
Are they?? WooHoo... i'm going back down the gym..


Take it easy at first Dec. I have a planned reintroduction to the gym. So far I've got to stage a - purchase membership. Next week I intend to move to stage b) visit gym for a tour followed by a beer at the bar. Future stages will be planned based upon the feedback from stage b.

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Decorator
Edited by: Decorator  Jul 17, 07, 06:36  #35

I joined a gym last year and in the 1st few months put on 7lb in weight.. now i just leave the gym card on the coffee table to impress guests.....

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szarlotka
  Jul 17, 07, 06:41  #36

Quoting: Decorator
now i just leave the gym card on the coffe table to impress guests.....


Wise, very wise

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AvJoeUK [Guest]
Edited by: AvJoeUK  Jul 17, 07, 07:44  #37

Sort your **** out, you didn't love her you had a shag and thought you did, even so chuffed as to go and brag to all your friends about it. Attempt to save your marriage, and If it fails well your on your own.

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petervs
  Jul 24, 07, 13:53  #38

Polish girls are brutal, after a 4 year relationship me and my polish girl decided to go to South Africa. I left after a 4 week stay with her in Poland and she would follow after 3 months. I left all was good between us, even got a engagement ring. After a month she just decided SA was not for her, so I was willing to go back and settle in Poland, but nooooo. Sold her mobile number without telling me, blocked me from her e-mail.
I lived in Netherlands the past 4 years of our relationship and a lot of people warned me about polish women. By this then, Guys of the world, be warned!! Even after a long relationship, polish girls don't give a **** about you, only how they can use and manipulate you.
Peter van Schaik

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Amathyst
  Jul 24, 07, 15:54  #39

Quoting: petervs
Guys of the world, be warned!! Even after a long relationship, polish girls don't give a **** about you, only how they can use and manipulate you.
Peter van Schaik


Oh right so some SA girl has never behaved like this???

Quoting: petervs
but nooooo. Sold her mobile number without telling me, blocked me from her e-mail.


Stalking is a crime in Europe....she did you a favour...

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Wroclaw
  Jul 24, 07, 16:14  #40

My relationship is in ruins. Let's blame the girl. After all it could never be me.

Sort yourself out.

It doesn't matter who you are or where you live. It is a fact of life that some of us get dumped at some time. It's not nationality specific.

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Sunflower
  Jul 24, 07, 16:18  #41

Quoting: petervs
Polish girls are brutal

That is such a racist remark. I am English and I would be most insulted if people said "English girls are all *******" or some such stupid comments, which is basically what my ex-boyfriend, a Polish man, used to say about Polish women. People are people wherever you go, nationality does not define how a person behaves within a relationship. Fact.

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PolskaDoll
  Jul 24, 07, 16:24  #42

I was going to post a reply but Wroclaw and Sunflower you've said it for me!

I dated a Canadian guy once and he was a complete and utter....you know. Still like Canadian men though!


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Amathyst
Edited by: Amathyst  Jul 24, 07, 16:31  #43

OKAY ADMIN (YES IM SHOUTING JUST IN CASE YOU DONT HEAR) I THINK YOU SHOULD CREAT IN PLACE OF THE SINGLES AND LOOKING TOPIC

1) IVE BEEN DUMPED
2) IM DESPARATE
3) I HAVE NO IDEA ABOUT THE WORLD BECAUSE IF I DID I WOULD KNOW THAT WOMEN AND MEN ARE ALL THE SAME NO MATTER WHAT NATIONALITY (yes I know that one is long but you know where Im coming from :) )

Just an idea to throw in the pot :))

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Patrycja19
  Jul 25, 07, 00:48  #44

Quoting: neville1967
by the way they are not my children,i took them on 10 years ago


not biological, but any man can father a child, and be a sperm donor.

I am not responding to the rest..lay in your bed you made..

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Patrycja19
  Jul 25, 07, 00:50  #45

Quoting: Amathyst
3) I HAVE NO IDEA ABOUT THE WORLD BECAUSE IF I DID I WOULD KNOW THAT WOMEN AND MEN ARE ALL THE SAME NO MATTER WHAT NATIONALITY (yes I know that one is long but you know where Im coming from :) )


I like this one.. ha..

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Patrycja19
  Jul 25, 07, 00:53  #46

Quoting: Amathyst
1) IVE BEEN DUMPED
2) IM DESPARATE



ok I like emm all.. ha ha.

to boot he posts his picture...you should have just asked to be put on national
television.. :)

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Marzena
  Jul 25, 07, 02:16  #47

Quoting: Grzegorz_
Hard to understand how adult people can be so stupid.

+1! :)

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Jambo
Edited by: Jambo  Jul 25, 07, 03:40  #48

It is right to say that because a Polish women treats you badly during a relationship then all Polish women are to be avoided that is plain nonsense. Having said that there have been a number of threads ( mine included) of non Polish men meeting a Polish women in say the UK and everything going great then all of a sudden they become cold and distant. I do not draw any conclusions from this particularly. The reason I joined this forum was to try and learn more about Polish women to try and understand her change of attitude. Although each situation was different to mine it did help to read them. As It happens we now live together and are very close although we are not back to where we were and I doubt we will. She relocates soon anyway. It has been an experience!

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Lady in red [Guest]
  Jul 25, 07, 03:48  #49

Quoting: Jambo
they become cold and distant.



..wonder if that is a typical Polish thing ?

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petervs
  Jul 25, 07, 03:56  #50

Then why did so many people in Holland warn me about "polis girls"? I could have returned to SA a lot earlier, but stayed for her.
Unfortunately they seem to have build up quite a reputation in Holland, don't know in England

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Jambo
  Jul 25, 07, 04:16  #51

What is their reputation in Holland. Also could you have moved to Poland if she could not move to Holland.

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Michal
  Jul 25, 07, 17:53  #52

Quoting: Jambo
olish women in say the UK and everything going great then all of a sudden they become cold and distant. I do not draw any conclusions from this particularly. The reason I joined this forum was to try and learn more ab

There is something nice and captivating about young Polish girls. They have a childish laugh and smile, a magnatism often lacking in English women. I can see why English men want to do CELTA and go out East, hoping to find love before they are picked up by other home grown Polish men There is a great cultural divide though, they are certainly not as advanced as other western girls developing maturity later in life than English girls. I would imagine that often a polish woman going with a foreigner means that they are looking for something as most of them are fixed up very early on in their lives. Mind you, I knew of a family in Gdansk who were married many years and had two children before they divorced years and years later and there was a huge age difference between them. They were both Polish. I have known of many Polish girls meeting Dutch men and moving to Holland. Mind you, Polish girls will go anywhere if it suits them as they are very adaptable. Make sure you know the woman for a long long time before committing yourself and see how they behave when they are in a bad mood! There are some real cows out there so beware!!

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Michal
  Jul 25, 07, 17:56  #53

Quoting: Lady in red
..wonder if that is a typical Polish thing ?

I think it can be a common thing between all sorts of couples everywhere and not only in Poland.

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Michal
  Jul 25, 07, 18:00  #54

Quoting: petervs
Unfortunately they seem to have build up quite a reputation in Holland, don't know

You must also remember that they are like animals trapped in a cage for the last fifty years. Now they have their freedom but do not understand that capitalism too has its price to pay. Polish girls coming from the countryside have little money and therefore they have little to loose themselves so do not care much for other's broken hearts. The Dutchman will end up selling his house, the girl only her body!

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Amathyst
  Jul 25, 07, 18:28  #55

Quoting: Michal
a magnatism often lacking in English women.


I was starting warm to you until you wrote that :(

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ogorek
  Jul 25, 07, 19:20  #56

Quoting: Jambo
I think these Polish women like to befriend men in the country they are in and I have to say use them to their advantage. In my case I have helped her find a job, take her out and now she lives with me. She has used my feelings for her


Women also - would prefer to play the field and take the best one. This is perfectly natural - it's just how they do it.


Quoting: Daisy
19 year old barely out of school, just a child - 40 year old adult should know better, hardly a level playing field


I'm sure she knew exactly what she was doing. Yes some girls prefer older men
because they are usually more mature and have better control over their feelings. Older men also usually know how to treat a women. Older men often get seduced by younger women. A 40 year old man seeing a 19 year old girl is not disgusting - just unusual.

It's also difficult to comment if you have not had an affair before - or been seduced because you could not understand the emotions involved. These are humans remember. It's never always by the book.

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ogorek
  Jul 25, 07, 19:26  #57

Quoting: Michal
Polish girls coming from the countryside have little money and therefore they have little to loose


You make them sound like hookers.
These girls have more dignity and integrity than most western city girls.

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Marzena
Edited by: Marzena  Jul 25, 07, 23:08  #58

Quoting: Michal
You must also remember that they are like animals trapped in a cage for the last fifty years. Now they have their freedom but do not understand that capitalism too has its price to pay. Polish girls coming from the countryside have little money and therefore they have little to loose themselves so do not care much for other's broken hearts. The Dutchman will end up selling his house, the girl only her body!

Spoken like a true mysogynist! Unbelievable how little respect you have for those women, it's repelling. Especially that no women could beat MEN in being more slutty and double faced in terms of sexual morals. I'm only using a generalization for men here because women are generalized by Michal, I obviously don't think that men are all the same.

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dannyboy
  Jul 26, 07, 05:39  #59

Quoting: Michal
Quoting: Jambo
olish women in say the UK and everything going great then all of a sudden they become cold and distant. I do not draw any conclusions from this particularly. The reason I joined this forum was to try and learn more ab

There is something nice and captivating about young Polish girls. They have a childish laugh and smile, a magnatism often lacking in English women. I can see why English men want to do CELTA and go out East, hoping to find love before they are picked up by other home grown Polish men There is a great cultural divide though, they are certainly not as advanced as other western girls developing maturity later in life than English girls. I would imagine that often a polish woman going with a foreigner means that they are looking for something as most of them are fixed up very early on in their lives. Mind you, I knew of a family in Gdansk who were married many years and had two children before they divorced years and years later and there was a huge age difference between them. They were both Polish. I have known of many Polish girls meeting Dutch men and moving to Holland. Mind you, Polish girls will go anywhere if it suits them as they are very adaptable. Make sure you know the woman for a long long time before committing yourself and see how they behave when they are in a bad mood! There are some real cows out there so beware!!


I'm only going by my experiences of Polish women in Ireland here, I cannot comment for Poland, but a lot of those words do hit home.

A lot of us like to be romantic and imagine x,y and z.
Unfortunately, there are some cold hard facts behind the romance despite our best intentions.

I think I've been blessed by God with the woman I have, friends of mine have not been so lucky (Polish or not)!

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dannyboy
  Jul 26, 07, 05:43  #60

To be fair to Polish women here, I should also clearly state that I see huge numbers of Polish men abroad who have wives and children at home, cheating as though they were alone in the world.
It doesn't seem to bother them much, its sport to them.

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