Why my Polish girlfriend's mother started to ignore me?

urgent help, need advice on why polish girlfriend mother has started to ignore me!

Need lots more info, or would just be guessing. Circumstances (recent and historic)?

She now realizes that she might lose her daughter... to marriage or whatever.

Why would you care so much about your girlfriend mother's attention? I would personally be happy :)

sven don't worry you ain't dating hte mom.

very complicated,g'f is in clinic in Kracow,her mum is my only way of finding out how she is doing,last 2 days blanked me out-have only told her how much her daughter means to me-would that offend ???

depends how psychotic you may have sounded.

Is there any connection between you and her being in the clinic? What kind of clinic? For what? Is it possible she learned something about you that affected her negatively toward you?

Or like Wroclaw said, she's afraid of losing her daughter. She's at a clinic and worried sick, now you come along to take her away.
So, maybe that's it. Just give it time so she realizes that you make her happy.

Or the opposite. She has accepted you and now has been showing how comfortable she would feel around you. No pleasantries needed to be exchanged anymore. You are one of her family and can ignore you and focus on her own. It is a polish way of showing acceptance to new family member (vanishing but still performed mostly in eastern regions of the country)

Or she pi$$ed at you because you got her daughter pregnant and that's why she's at the clinic getting an abortion.

oops... hope for your sake it's not that.. ;)

NOW you see what I was trying to find out!

Sorry guys,Detox!

Sorry to hear that - not nice experience.

Not to worry - PF is known for teasing people to shreds - they're not really a bad lot though ;)

Does she blame you for the problem or maybe you not telling anyone until it was to late ?

thanks Mufasa,no offence taken,am just a little worried I may have been used.......hope not!

and this is a problem...?

detox....well....I don't know anything about you, your gf, your gf's mother so...you know...

How?

very complex,cant discuss on here unfortunately

what does "detox" mean?

as in the alcoholic detox center (answerPM)

Sounds like the mom blames you for whatever the problem is....and your "hush-hush" approach leads some of us to believe that mom may have some justification :)

Did you drive her to drink?

Just tell the mother that you have the feeling that there is something bothering her. I'm sure she will speak out what will be on her mind. Good luck!

No,its drug detox and she was like it when I met her.I have paid for her to go back to poland for detox so I am not to blame!!!

Is it possible to call the clinic and speak to your girlfriend ?


In fact. Why aren't you speaking to your girlfriend ?

My polish is not good enough to speak to clinic,they probably dont speak english,got to wait

Are you Swedish or not ?...just curious ;)

About your mother's girlfriend, she is maybe worried for her daughter, just because she's her mother...Time will tell, i hope ;)