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southern [Guest]
  Apr 28, 07, 15:39  #31

It is not difficult to explain.beautiful girls worldwide tend to gather in places that are richer.Probably in NYC there are the best looking girls.This is because girls are selected for jobs,marriage etc and one criterion is their appearance.The same is valid for Poland.
In Poznan which is a richer city than average polish the hot girls are in bigger proportion than let us say Katowice or even Wroclaw.I suspect that in cities like Olsztyn the appeance of girls will be worse.In Gdansk better.So polish girls who stay in richer european cities like London,Berlin tend to be more beautiful than the ones staying in Poland.This is not a natural law,they just have better opportunities abroad when they are beautiful and the beautiful ones are more likely to stay.That's all.
I am talking about physical appearance,not mental characteristics.Polite and cultured girls have also more chances to stay abroad but if they are beautiful and polite the chances are even better.What is absurd with that?

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miranda
Edited by: miranda  Apr 28, 07, 17:12  #32

Quoting: southern
What is absurd with that?

you are really good at convincing yourself. As for everybody else ? Well........
suggestion: keep rereading what you wrote, after all it is a good passtime for some:)

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Hueg
  Apr 28, 07, 17:18  #33

Quoting: southern
What is absurd with that?


Did you know you can drown in just one inch of water?

Yet more proof that being shallow can be dangerous. :)

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southern [Guest]
  Apr 28, 07, 17:26  #34

These opinions are not only mine.There are many who claim that the richer a place the more beautiful girls it attracts.For example where are the bet looking women in Ukraine?In Kiev.Because Kiev s by far the richest city in Ukraine.In Russia?Most beauties can be seen in Moscow.Outside Moscow not a big deal.In czech Republic?Prague,the most developed city with higher wages surpasses any other place.It is everywhere the same.
Beautiful girls tend to move to bigger and richer cities with more opportunities.
Polish people can be a little stubborn sometimes.
What I write is positive about polish girls.In my opinion they are not gold diggers,they are honest and reliable in far more extent than any other girls(for example czech,russian etc) and they make perfect wives.They are less materialistic demanding and more soul demanding,how to express that,more romantic.I mostly like polish girls.

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MwHunk [Guest]
  Apr 28, 07, 18:30  #35

Southern:

I want to know how can polish girls be better than other girls when they can cheat ? Imagine that she wanted something which he didn't give her or meet her often to get her to have sex with him

What do you define by "better" ? I think if they do cheat their dating partners or if they date multiple men at the same time looking for better deals , it shows poor ethics on her part and polish girls in general. It shows that they are cheap sluts if indeed its true.

The confused_guy may be stupid that he couldn't see all this. But nevertheless he might have seriously thought of a future with her. some guys in America do think of polish girls are cheap sluts who don't have an standard with respect to sex . They would sleep with anyone who would buy them dinner.

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FISZ
  Apr 28, 07, 18:34  #36

Quoting: MwHunk
some guys in America do think of polish girls are cheap sluts who don't have an standard with respect to sex

I've never heard anything like this said in America. Polish people don't have a reputation like that here in the US; however, I have heard a feew people from the UK say crap like this.

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southern [Guest]
  Apr 28, 07, 19:59  #37

MWHunk I think you make the mistake to judge slavic people by western standards.
Slavic morals are a lot different and sb needs a certain degree of understanding of slavic soul.Western option is more narrow minded,it is this or that.This is not exactly the case in slavic world.For example these people do not negotiate.There are no agreements,steps to take,prejudices etc.If a girl likes you,she will give plenty of love without terms.This is slavic mentality,concept of generosity.A western woman would not behave this way.On the other hand if she feels more attraction for sb else she may leave you more easily than in western world.This is regarded by westerners as moral instability and Slavs are blamed for this even from ninteenth century.However this instability is an igredient of the mentality that brings a man so easily close to a polish girl.I cannot express it very well.
Polish girls are judged as cheap because they do not demand materialistic compensations as much as girls from other nationalities.A russian girl will ask you for expensive present commonly from first date,a polish girl will take you to a cheap place and be thankful if you pay the bill.She appreciates much more every offer.I think it is totally unfair to call them cheap because of this decent characteristic.They are not cheap.They are simply not gold diggers certainly not to the extent that most russian and ukrainian girls are.And they will not sleep with you because you offered a dinner but because they like you.The russian or czech girl says what a stupid american,he thinks I am obliged to sleep with him if he offers me a dinner.

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MwHunk [Guest]
  Apr 29, 07, 04:19  #38

Southern:

It is surprising to me sleeping with other people while dating a person ( even with a commitment) is OK in slavic culture ! It is really amazing how the local guys can put up with that ****. I assume that not all girls are like that but as you said , Polish girls "do sleep with many guys" while dating.

Maybe she will cheat after she is married too. Any self respecting girl wouldn't do that here. Does it mean that slavic girls dont have moral standards? or sleeping with other people simultaneously is taken off their "moral dictionary" ???

Western women on the other hand are committed and they stay with their partner.I havent seen many cheating even if they are tempted.


Sorry I don't understand your way of thinking . Any guy here would say its bull_**** and dump the polish girl instantly if she is really sleeping with many guys.This is considered cheap , slutty behavior by any decent guy unless he is really sleazy. It is not acceptable .Maybe some guys (polish and others) are ok with it and hence their girls do such stuff without any issues :)

Does it mean that polish girls are not good dating/Marriage partners? it seems like they cant be .

If what you said is true, they would make up excellent hookers :D

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southern [Guest]
  Apr 29, 07, 06:01  #39

Again you do not understand.It seems you have never met slavic girls.
Let's say you meet a girl like Eva Herzigova or Sklenarikova in their youth.Let's suppose she is western.What are your chances with her?Sirow.Because she will have been commited to a guy before you met her.And she will not give you a chance.She will have been commited because she probably would have drawn a lot of attention and aggresive american or european guys possibly better than you will have tried to pick up her.By the time you meet her she is unavailable.
Let's suppose the same girl is slavic.Possibly she will have drawn the same(usually less in slavic countries) attention and she will have a boyfriend.However it is more likely that she will give you a chance than in case she was western.
Which is better actually?To have a chance or to have no chance?
Of course after she starts a relationship with you there is the risk of her leaving when finding sb who she thinks more attractive than you.This is the challenge.You have to prove you are worth her,you have to be interesting,not boring.Now you understand a bit slavic mentality?
As for the guys.I will give you some examples.You have a czech girlfriend and you sit with her in a cafe and other friends.She may sit in the lap of another boy or even kiss him in mouth.This is considered normal n Czech Republic.The foreigners get frustrated but the natives just think this is due to cultural gap.You do not need to worry if your girlfriend flirts with another guy even in front of you because it is part of the culture.
In Ukraine if she loves you a lot she may bring her friend to sleep with you as well if she thinks that will make you happy.They are just more open minded.Of course in Poland these extremes are not usual but you may see other things close to them.In fact there is no need to worry about girls' behaviour and I think slavic boys are more tolerant and know to handle their girls much better.They accept the girls' behaviour,do not try to change them.And they do not spoil them.
Married polish girls who do not get much love from husband is very possible that they sleep with other guys.They still love the husband but need to satisfy their emotional needs.If husband does not know,nobody is hurt.
So whether you have an affair with a polish girl you met in a resort who has another boyfriend or is married,you should be grateful for the attention and love you get and not blame slavic chicks who at least have good souls.
And because of this good soul,not spoiled they make good wives.

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MwHunk [Guest]
  Apr 29, 07, 07:02  #40

Southern:

what you said
Quoting: southern
As for the guys.I will give you some examples.You have a czech girlfriend and you sit with her in a cafe and other friends.She may sit in the lap of another boy or even kiss him in mouth.This is considered normal n Czech Republic.The foreigners get frustrated but the natives just think this is due to cultural gap.You do not need to worry if your girlfriend flirts with another guy even in front of you because it is part of the culture.
In Ukraine if she loves you a lot she may bring her friend to sleep with you as well if she thinks that will make you happy.They are just more open minded.Of course in Poland these extremes are not usual but you may see other things close to them.In fact there is no need to worry about girls' behaviour and I think slavic boys are more tolerant and know to handle their girls much better.They accept the girls' behaviour,do not try to change them.And they do not spoil them.
Married polish girls who do not get much love from husband is very possible that they sleep with other guys.They still love the husband but need to satisfy their emotional needs.If husband does not know,nobody is hurt.
So whether you have an affair with a polish girl you met in a resort who has another boyfriend or is married,you should be grateful for the attention and love you get and not blame slavic chicks who at least have good souls.
And because of this good soul,not spoiled they make good wives.


Southern:

what you said is just ********. I wonder who buys this ****. Only retard boyfriends who are too dumb can put up with this kinda crap.

Good luck to those who have had such a polish /slavic girlfriend. Run away and find another if you can !

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southern [Guest]
  Apr 29, 07, 07:17  #41

I do not understand.Why do you want to be posessive with girls?If you want macho behaviour go to Mexico.There sb may give you a punch if you just speak or look at his girlfriend.How many girls do these guys actually have?Are the girls happy?Or the boys?Or there is constant conflict,aggresion and no sex?
Why everybody is after slavic girls?

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Maxxx Payne
  Apr 29, 07, 07:42  #42

Quoting: southern
Why everybody is after slavic girls?



They have better morals compared to Finnish (not to mention Swedish!!!) women. I guess women´s lib in Finland/sweden means acceptance of narcistic and mean behavior.

Somehow the German men are horny after Swedish/Finnish women. I guess they have matching mindsets and morals...

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mohdanu [Guest]
Edited by: Moderator  Apr 29, 07, 11:52  #43

Quoting: southern
And because of this good soul,not spoiled they make good wives.


Are you not drunken something like that?

How can a girl make a good wife, if she sleeps with others?

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southern [Guest]
  Apr 29, 07, 12:49  #44

I will write an example since it is difficult to understand.
Where do many americans travel to find hot,sexy,passionate approachble girls?
To Eastern Europe.
Where do many americans travel to find a caring,good,nice,affectionate wife?
To Eastern Europe.
To exactly the same teritorries.
There is a reason for that.I tried to explain the dynamics but is difficult for westerners to understand slavs anyway.

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southern [Guest]
  Apr 29, 07, 14:28  #45

I do not describe my culture.I try to describe girls' mentality in slavic countries through the eyes of a westerner.They will never describe themselves like that but they will give some hints if you speak with them.I just o not uderstand people who manage to get a very good looking girl because she cheated her boyfriend and then complain that she cheated them.You cannot change slavic girls.Either you accept them or not.

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dourbest741
  Apr 30, 07, 17:59  #46

Ok. This is awesome thanks for the eyeopener. Ok my experience in romania, (from what I hear its the only latin european country in eastern europe) the women are so posessive that if you even look at another girl it could mean BIG TROUBLE with her and she understands likewise. If you cheat you break the deal. Relationship over. We will all accept that better propositions will happen and some may choose to leave...fine.

So I just wanted to solidify that Slavic countries, its ok to sleep with other people and come back home to your wife or husband as long as they do not know?

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ArturSzastak
  Apr 30, 07, 18:11  #47

Quoting: dourbest741
So I just wanted to solidify that Slavic countries, its ok to sleep with other people and come back home to your wife or husband as long as they do not know?



Thats not OK anywhere......wtf is wrong with you?

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dourbest741
  Apr 30, 07, 18:22  #48

Thanks for the correction. I just wanted to get the quoted argument straightened out:

"mohdanu


Quoting: southern
And because of this good soul,not spoiled they make good wives.

Are you not drunken something like that?

How can a girl make a good wife, if she sleeps with others?"

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southern [Guest]
  May 1, 07, 08:11  #49

Romania is not a slavic country.There is balkan mentality influenced by Turks.Girls are more accesible than serbian girls but still not as polish or russian or czech girls.
If you have a polsih girlfriend,she will raise concern that you cheat her.In fact if you are handsome she will be sure you cheat her.But she will try to win you through her behaviour,culture,openess.There are not so many lies like in balkans,no gypsy behaviour.

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FISZ
  May 1, 07, 09:57  #50

Quoting: southern
If you have a polsih girlfriend,she will raise concern that you cheat her.In fact if you are handsome she will be sure you cheat her.But she will try to win you through her behaviour,culture,openess.There are not so many lies like in balkans,no gypsy behaviour.


And what makes you a expert on Polish women? I'm good looking and my GF doesn't accuse me of cheating. I would think that depends on the individual....no?

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southern [Guest]
  May 1, 07, 11:38  #51

I am not expert.I compare them to other women.These are all tendencies,it depends on what you have in mind.We can say everyone is differnt,all the people are the same,end of conversation.Then there is nothing to talk about.

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FISZ
  May 1, 07, 11:43  #52

Quoting: southern
I am not expert.I compare them to other women.

So you date women in Poland as well as women from other countries and compare? You get around :)
I just can't see how you can say this about Polish women in general. Some habits may be different due to cultural reasons/upbringing, but to say stuff like this isn't justified.

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southern [Guest]
  May 1, 07, 12:58  #53

O.K. I speak from my experience.I generalize.I have no statistic research results of how many girls do this or that.If anyone does this kind of research and is allowed to publish,keep the forum informed.

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FISZ
  May 1, 07, 14:08  #54

As long as everyone knows its from your own experience :) Everyone attracts different types of people. Som here may take you literally...or even offensively. Remember, there are PL women that come to this site.

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southern [Guest]
  May 1, 07, 14:54  #55

PL women probably have read what is written and did not react.This means sth,or not?

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miranda
  May 1, 07, 15:45  #56

Quoting: southern
PL women probably have read what is written and did not react.This means sth,or not?

well, no.
It just looks like you have a lot of experiance or you would like to have a lot of experiance

Or..you are a pimp.

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angel eyes
  May 1, 07, 15:46  #57

Quoting: southern
This means sth,or not?

Yes It means they would'nt give you the time of day or waste their time replying!!!!!
((((rolling eyes in disbelief))))

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southern [Guest]
  May 1, 07, 16:12  #58

I have some experience.I do not blame polish girls.Either way you will never admit.

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dourbest741
Edited by: dourbest741  May 1, 07, 16:37  #59

Its all interesting really. I guess in general a person can conform to the cultural stereotypes or they can act as an individual. When your experience is with a woman who conforms then I guess you can speak of the stereotype but not every single individual. Its interesting on how Poland's culture has come onto now. I mean the country of mini kingdoms turned into a country then part of the eastern bloc then now the buffer between the west and the east. I always allow myself to be corrected as I am still learning about Poland itself.

And southern I checked and you are right in part. Romania is ethnically latin. A small percent are gypsy while the rest of the population is ethnically descendant upon the actual ancient romans (all can be argues since the european wars since its fall) and the minority are hungarians and germans. I did get a feel that when europeans here of romania they instantly think gypsies which has probably been well marketed over the decades.

So in summation I think its still to be scene how Polish women will be. Probably the true test for the rest of eastern europe as they are in constant growth and assimilation with neighboring countries like Germany, Spain and Italy places where economies are self sustaining and their influencing cultures as well. I love france but will not mention their economy as of yet. Sorry I ran off the subject a little!!

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southern [Guest]
  May 1, 07, 17:23  #60

Romania is balkan.Romanian girls have mentality similar to serbian and bulgarian girls.
Slavic wolrld is totally different.In slavic countries where there was turkish occupation like in Serbia,Bulgaria the mentality of girls is largely influenced by strong morals.These people are very proud.
Czech,Slovakia,a part of Poland and West Ukraine were under austrohungarian occupation.Their mentality is totally different(more organized,cultured,open etc).
Ukraine,Belarus which were under russian influence have different mentality(more cheating,more slavic soul,cunning etc).
So there is an average,typical slavic mentality in all girls but the way it appears differs depending on country wether it was under austrian,ottoman or russian influence.
Poland was influenced by germans who occupied west Poland,North-west and North-east as well,austrians who occupied southeast poland and Russians who occupied central,east teritorries of Poland.As a result you meet in polish girls features of german culture(obedient,ethics),of russian culture(drink,dance,romance,freedom) and austrian culture(polite,cultured,tolerant) depending on the place.However polish girls look alike because there was not much mix with nationalities like germans(germans did not want),austrians(far) and russiansnot wanted in Poland,national pride).Girls are 95% slavic and look phantastic although mostly alike(contrast to czech diversity resulting of heavy german-slavic mix).
I think polish girls are ideal for a long term relationship and for short relationship because they do not ask for money,they are honest,open and not cunning like ukrainian girls,not gold diggers like many russian girls and not totally unstable like czech girls.
So they combine eastern hospitality and warmness with western culture,that's why they are so popular.No comparison to german or british girls in terms of appearance and everything.
Problem is they complain a lot and may leave you soon.
For attitude towards sex I already wrote.PL girls disagree.Probably they think it is right if they meet the right person.So if they meet the right person that is what follows.

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