Polish girls, how are they when they are in love?

I'm having a bit of an issue here...And I'm not saying this should be typically Polish or something, but Polish girls, how are they when they are in love? I mean this in a cultural way...Not a feminine way... Do they like to play games or do they just not react when you tell them something that is more than just surfacial or laugh about it?

M-G (will be more specific in due time, just want some opinions here)

some do, some don't. ;) :)

Yeah, I know, that's why I said it's not specifically a Polish issue, wise guy :) But to be more specific: I've been dating this lady for a few times now, but to every date we have there are multiple cancellations for various reasons. She seems to be genuine, but I've got a gut feeling that she's bs'ing me.

M-G

It's a possibility. Or she could be genuinely nervous about dating you, for a number of reasons. You are both away from home.

Could be true, I'm 4 years here and she is 3 years here and although she claims to be a tough chick (and I've seen her give out to an unpolite deskclerk, so I guess there's some truth in that), but I made her blush a few times :), so my best bet would be that she's a bit of both: big mouth (big city grl) and shy at the same time...My gut feeling basically is inspired by all the golddiggers I encounter, and I have encountered quite a few...Comes with the job, I know, but how about when you want somebody who likes you for who you are, not what you are?

M-G

When I'm truly in love with a guy practically all I think about is him.

Hi M-G

I dont think nationality has anything to do with it. My GF don't play games at all. Her honesty is one of the things I like best about her.

Maybe she has been hurt before or doesn't know how she feels.

No, but that's what I said. I was just wondering if it was a cultural thing, not specifically Polish. I added this because she is from Poland and I am not really familiar with Polish culture as such - could be that this behaviour is normal accepted within Polish society. That's why I added it.

M-G

Maybe she likes you maybe she doesnt, why ask a forum full of randoms, ask her ffs! And btw, if I cancel on a guy its because Im not that interested (something better came up), because if I was interested I'd be dying to spend time in his company and I think that goes for all women...

There is a top about relationships and behavours...take a peek..

sometimes a girl may like a guy but is afraid-because mostly when you really like a guy and give all and fall in love-you become vulnerable and want to be with that guy as much as possible and then when this happens sometimes a guy backs off because they think the gir lhas become too clingy-as most guys once they have their chick the chase is over. this is why a girl behaves strangly sometimes

Hm not all women are the same - I've made up my mind anyway, just wanted to see if my assumptions (which I am not going to state here) were shared with, as you call it, randoms. I know she likes me, you don't date somebody a few times if you don't like him/her.

And by the way: it's just a question.

M-G

How long did it take you to work that little gem out?



You can date someone more than once to determine that you dont actually have a connection - some people its take longer some it takes just one date! But what the hell would I know Im only a woman!

Hey, cut the attitude, lady! If she didn't like me, she would not contact me at all and let me do all the work. But she does. I'm man enough to see when a girl does not like me. I just move on, I was just wondering if it was a cultural thing, well apparently it is not. I did or said nothing to diminish you being a female, right?

M-G

Hello

Angel thats exactly what happened with my lady.

M-G, maybe she is seeing if you will chase her, some women are like that. They want to be sure how you feel before they commit them selfs.

THe only thing I can suggest is patience.

Looks like something is hard work ;-)




I'll make you a deal, you stop talking sh*te and I'll think about curbing my "attitude" probably never going to happen, as you know we women are all different!

Ah yeah, I just ask a question and you come barging in being all defensive and stuff - see if I care, just cut the attitude. Didn't get a good night sleep last night? Well if you didn't, pls don't take it out on me, will ya?

Lowfunk: thanks -

M-G

have you actually talked to her about this?

I'm planning to do that, but at this moment in time, I have not. Basically it's just exploring for now.

M-G